I need help on how to overcome heartbreak.

Date: 07-08-2009 2:26 pm (11 years ago) | Author: FESTUS EMEKA
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- at 7-08-2009 02:26 PM (11 years ago)
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My girlfriend recently broke my heart, the pain is too much. I have applied all personally prescribed antidotes to overcome the trauma, all to no avail. I have lost appetite for food and have not eaten for over five days now. My heart bumps fast, and sometimes my body shakes. I need urgent solution before it gets worse. If my girlfriend comes back to me, i will be fine again, but she has vehemently refused to see me again. She is reconciling with her former boy friend. I need help urgently.

Posted: at 7-08-2009 02:26 PM (11 years ago) | Upcoming
- erikaakpan at 7-08-2009 02:53 PM (11 years ago)
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Time heals all wounds. Heal your heart by spending a lot of time doing something you really love. Give yourself time. This type of healing can't be rushed

Posted: at 7-08-2009 02:53 PM (11 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- onchedu at 7-08-2009 02:59 PM (11 years ago)
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U'l be fine if U really want to be. This sounds cruel but Ur not the first guy a girl he loved broke his heart. Think of it as shock treatment and an opportunity for Ur heart to learn how to heal. Life's full of ups and downs. Hearts were broken before U were born, hearts will be broken when U are gone. How U handles it will be Ur legacy. U have to pull Urself together.

Cry Ur heart out. I would if I were U. Then ask God to help U heal properly and love again when the time is right.

Be strong! If U need someone to talk to, PM me. Just dont expect anything typical. I myt be nasty. Its another form of shock treatment.
Posted: at 7-08-2009 02:59 PM (11 years ago) | Hero
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- Dguy at 7-08-2009 03:01 PM (11 years ago)
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Wow, your heart is broken, if i were u - I would tie stones round my neck and jump into the sea. Damn, she dumped you... thats really bad...

Ok now for the advice....

You have to get her out of your sight, mind & life. Just forget about her, because shes not worth u -- u deserve someone better..... she only claimed she loved you because of something, which might no longer be there... and remember some girls are really short sighted. Focus on some other things in your life and stay closer to your usual friends -- (not your common friends) ... and enjoy life

Posted: at 7-08-2009 03:01 PM (11 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- mushabc at 7-08-2009 03:09 PM (11 years ago)
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oh boy
Posted: at 7-08-2009 03:09 PM (11 years ago) | Upcoming
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- PreetyInstinct at 7-08-2009 03:11 PM (11 years ago)
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Quote from: mushabc on  7-08-2009 03:09 PM
oh boy
Oh Gurl

Posted: at 7-08-2009 03:11 PM (11 years ago) | Hero
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- pepigambit at 7-08-2009 03:15 PM (11 years ago)
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heart break heart break......jus take a long trip away from were u stay and leave till she is married......u will find a new lov dere wit no secret..
Posted: at 7-08-2009 03:15 PM (11 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- eddybabs at 7-08-2009 03:17 PM (11 years ago)
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Quote from: ourhearts on  7-08-2009 02:26 PM
My girlfriend recently broke my heart, the pain is too much. I have applied all personally prescribed antidotes to overcome the trauma, all to no avail. I have lost appetite for food and have not eaten for over five days now. My heart bumps fast, and sometimes my body shakes. I need urgent solution before it gets worse. If my girlfriend comes back to me, i will be fine again, but she has vehemently refused to see me again. She is reconciling with her former boy friend. I need help urgently.

u've not eaten for five days... men add more... just make it 40 days and 40 nights without eating... fasting and praying i guess when u die ur girl will come back to you.... u r so dumb..
Posted: at 7-08-2009 03:17 PM (11 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- agel4ever at 7-08-2009 11:30 PM (11 years ago)
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ahahahah guys pls take it easy with this man............ohhhhhhhhh
una finish d guy nor be small...................lol

A merry heart maketh a cheerful countenance: but by sorrow of the heart the spirit is broken.

A merry heart doeth good like a medicine: but a broken spirit drieth the bones.

Go thy way,( as in go have some fun) eat thy bread with joy, and drink thy wine with a merry heart; for the joy of thy lord is ur strenght.
Posted: at 7-08-2009 11:30 PM (11 years ago) | Newbie
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- Beauti4 at 8-08-2009 12:11 AM (11 years ago)
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Quote from: ourhearts on  7-08-2009 02:26 PM
My girlfriend recently broke my heart, the pain is too much. I have applied all personally prescribed antidotes to overcome the trauma, all to no avail. I have lost appetite for food and have not eaten for over five days now. My heart bumps fast, and sometimes my body shakes. I need urgent solution before it gets worse. If my girlfriend comes back to me, i will be fine again, but she has vehemently refused to see me again. She is reconciling with her former boy friend. I need help urgently.

it sounds like she left u for no good reasons. well...take it easy. u r d one who will free yaself from this pain. if possible, i think u should take two weeks vacation. if u truelly love her, u will let kick her off your mind, and if she comes back then she is yours. what will be will always b. Ku luck!
Posted: at 8-08-2009 12:11 AM (11 years ago) | Hero
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- ogunfunmi at 8-08-2009 12:56 AM (11 years ago)
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go lie down for gutter
Posted: at 8-08-2009 12:56 AM (11 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- ceejay58 at 8-08-2009 01:06 AM (11 years ago)
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lolz......... bad mouth...... Grin
Posted: at 8-08-2009 01:06 AM (11 years ago) | Hero
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- ceejay58 at 8-08-2009 01:13 AM (11 years ago)
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Quote from: ourhearts on  7-08-2009 02:26 PM
My girlfriend recently broke my heart, the pain is too much. I have applied all personally prescribed antidotes to overcome the trauma, all to no avail. I have lost appetite for food and have not eaten for over five days now. My heart bumps fast, and sometimes my body shakes. I need urgent solution before it gets worse. If my girlfriend comes back to me, i will be fine again, but she has vehemently refused to see me again. She is reconciling with her former boy friend. I need help urgently.

Time they say heals all wounds. but my dear if dont have time 2 waste then just go and throw urself inside river Naija.   its d quickest way 2 end wat u re feeling right now......  hisssssssssssssssssssssss
Posted: at 8-08-2009 01:13 AM (11 years ago) | Hero
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- chronic at 8-08-2009 01:32 AM (11 years ago)
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shit happens
Posted: at 8-08-2009 01:32 AM (11 years ago) | Upcoming
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- xikay at 8-08-2009 03:35 AM (11 years ago)
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poison yaself
Posted: at 8-08-2009 03:35 AM (11 years ago) | Upcoming
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- kunsoft at 8-08-2009 03:46 AM (11 years ago)
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Its unfortunate i dont av heartbreak in my Dictionary. I think u can check the nearby welders by arranging anoda girlfriend shap shap.

infact u dey dull my hand. Na guys dey break babes heart not them breaking guys heart. i guess u av a ladies heart in the first place.
Posted: at 8-08-2009 03:46 AM (11 years ago) | Newbie
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- xikay at 8-08-2009 03:49 AM (11 years ago)
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forget the yeye woman wrapper
Posted: at 8-08-2009 03:49 AM (11 years ago) | Upcoming
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- davidmicky at 8-08-2009 10:38 AM (11 years ago)
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Hey my brother, you can,t fight nature
what is yours will definitely be yours
try to attach yourself in other activities to keep yourself busy
if she is for you definitely she will come back to you but if she not for you
Dude you can starve till 2010 maybe turn to kolo mental.

Love comes Natural............ Never try to force Love..............who knows
maybe she accepted you because she had a heartbreak then with the X.
and now they have settles there dispute, so she was liking you not loving you
Better choose someone that love not like.
Posted: at 8-08-2009 10:38 AM (11 years ago) | Newbie
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- eddybabs at 8-08-2009 10:44 AM (11 years ago)
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passing..................................
Posted: at 8-08-2009 10:44 AM (11 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- ourhearts at 9-08-2009 04:39 PM (11 years ago)
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Ladies and Gentlemen of Niaja Pals, i thank you all for your wonderful suggestions on my heartbreak saga. I am acting on the best option which says time heals. I cannot commit suicide or jump river Niger. I cannot arrange another babe sharp sharp as one of my dudes suggested. I have started engaging myself in several social activities mostly on the internet. It is not easy as many of us thought, but time heals. I sometimes cry my heart out, and shed more tears to relieve myself of the inner pains.
For most of you guys who have negative idea of loving a woman, try it. It really helps. It gives you the energy to work harder knowing you have responsibility (Your woman's needs). It gives you hope for tomorrow. It makes you live for someone, it makes you feel cherished, loved, valued, and honored. You might be under stress at work and your woman calls you with that passionate voice of care....HONEY HOW IS WORKING GOING?......the sweet voice will certainly stimulate your organs, and energizes you to work longer and faster.
Don't get me wrong. It feels good to love someone and someone loves you back. I think for the time being..my love will find me.
Posted: at 9-08-2009 04:39 PM (11 years ago) | Upcoming
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