Should i reconcile with my old boyfriend?

Date: 19-08-2009 5:24 pm (11 years ago) | Author: amanda james
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- at 19-08-2009 05:24 PM (11 years ago)
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i have this heavy decission to make:i have this boyfriend we were so in love and one day he wakes up and for reason decides he needs space. seven months later he calls me and says he wants to make up and dat i should meet him up next week.at first i was so happy dat i started gettin ready immediately but later when i was a bit cooler i realised i am beginin to become cold feeted about this reconcilation.right now am so confused;should i meet him next week or should i take caution?

Posted: at 19-08-2009 05:24 PM (11 years ago) | Newbie
- Akpan01 at 19-08-2009 05:27 PM (11 years ago)
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ABEG TELL AM U NEED TIME TOO....HE THINK IF THERE IS NO HORSE DONKEY TOO IS OK..IGNORE HIM JARE....

Posted: at 19-08-2009 05:27 PM (11 years ago) | Hero
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- teeco at 19-08-2009 05:29 PM (11 years ago)
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dont go anywhere let him come and meet you shey he know your house/where you live

Posted: at 19-08-2009 05:29 PM (11 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- erikaakpan at 19-08-2009 05:33 PM (11 years ago)
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hmmm...i dnt kno...mayb he really wants u back...when a guy needs space its most likely he wants to be with other people without you around....since he called u back and now wants to see u he's gonna want u back probably...its ur decision...if i were u..i would see wat he wants and wanna kno wat he has to say

Posted: at 19-08-2009 05:33 PM (11 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- Beauti4 at 19-08-2009 05:35 PM (11 years ago)
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tell him u need time as well. he cant just play u in-&-out like that. he left u for another gurl ba.
Posted: at 19-08-2009 05:35 PM (11 years ago) | Hero
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- around_d_corner at 19-08-2009 05:47 PM (11 years ago)
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Quote from: jsquareedd on 19-08-2009 05:24 PM
i have this heavy decission to make:i have this boyfriend we were so in love and one day he wakes up and for reason decides he needs space. seven months later he calls me and says he wants to make up and dat i should meet him up next week.at first i was so happy dat i started gettin ready immediately but later when i was a bit cooler i realised i am beginin to become cold feeted about this reconcilation.right now am so confused;should i meet him next week or should i take caution?
cool down and check ya self well.... if u want to do so or not..... is a personnel issue is ur life ok...
Posted: at 19-08-2009 05:47 PM (11 years ago) | Hero
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- Akpan01 at 19-08-2009 05:50 PM (11 years ago)
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Quote from: Beauti4 on 19-08-2009 05:35 PM
tell him u need time as well. he cant just play u in-&-out like that. he left u for another gurl ba.
Cool Cool

Posted: at 19-08-2009 05:50 PM (11 years ago) | Hero
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- around_d_corner at 19-08-2009 06:10 PM (11 years ago)
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Quote from: Beauti4 on 19-08-2009 05:35 PM
tell him u need time as well. he cant just play u in-&-out like that. he left u for another gurl ba.
how are u sure he did that,anyway   how u dey dear
Posted: at 19-08-2009 06:10 PM (11 years ago) | Hero
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- osituga at 19-08-2009 09:25 PM (11 years ago)
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Look before u leap
Posted: at 19-08-2009 09:25 PM (11 years ago) | Hero
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- vivian07 at 19-08-2009 09:38 PM (11 years ago)
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watch and pray.
Posted: at 19-08-2009 09:38 PM (11 years ago) | Hero
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- macgreat at 19-08-2009 09:40 PM (11 years ago)
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Donkey? Huh?

Posted: at 19-08-2009 09:40 PM (11 years ago) | Hero
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- temi07 at 19-08-2009 11:41 PM (11 years ago)
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Quote from: erikaakpan on 19-08-2009 05:33 PM
hmmm...i dnt kno...mayb he really wants u back...when a guy needs space its most likely he wants to be with other people without you around....since he called u back and now wants to see u he's gonna want u back probably...its ur decision...if i were u..i would see wat he wants and wanna kno wat he has to say
I agree with you even if its just to go hear him out. But i don't think u should just like jump back into the relationship with him, babygirl don't let him sweet talk u, seven months is a long time to wait for someone and u did, so gurl take ur sweet time in deciding if u want to get back what u had b4, really really take ur sweet time.
Posted: at 19-08-2009 11:41 PM (11 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- erikaakpan at 19-08-2009 11:43 PM (11 years ago)
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Quote from: temi07 on 19-08-2009 11:41 PM
Quote from: erikaakpan on 19-08-2009 05:33 PM
hmmm...i dnt kno...mayb he really wants u back...when a guy needs space its most likely he wants to be with other people without you around....since he called u back and now wants to see u he's gonna want u back probably...its ur decision...if i were u..i would see wat he wants and wanna kno wat he has to say
I agree with you even if its just to go hear him out. But i don't think u should just like jump back into the relationship with him, babygirl don't let him sweet talk u, seven months is a long time to wait for someone and u did, so gurl take ur sweet time in deciding if u want to get back what u had b4, really really take ur sweet time.

i agree also....see temi me n are here....our brains are linked together somehow

Posted: at 19-08-2009 11:43 PM (11 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- akjasper at 19-08-2009 11:45 PM (11 years ago)
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Make sure u utilize d oppurtunity ...hear him out ..b4 concludin !
Posted: at 19-08-2009 11:45 PM (11 years ago) | Hero
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- osituga at 20-08-2009 01:29 AM (11 years ago)
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 Grin
Posted: at 20-08-2009 01:29 AM (11 years ago) | Hero
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- Toks-E at 20-08-2009 01:52 AM (11 years ago)
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Quote from: Akpan01 on 19-08-2009 05:27 PM
ABEG TELL AM U NEED TIME TOO....HE THINK IF THERE IS NO HORSE DONKEY TOO IS OK..IGNORE HIM JARE....

wicked  Grin Grin Grin

Posted: at 20-08-2009 01:52 AM (11 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- Akpan01 at 20-08-2009 10:36 AM (11 years ago)
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Quote from: Toks-E on 20-08-2009 01:52 AM
Quote from: Akpan01 on 19-08-2009 05:27 PM
ABEG TELL AM U NEED TIME TOO....HE THINK IF THERE IS NO HORSE DONKEY TOO IS OK..IGNORE HIM JARE....

wicked  Grin Grin Grin
MY G NOT BE SO Grin Grin

Posted: at 20-08-2009 10:36 AM (11 years ago) | Hero
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- gabon at 20-08-2009 10:40 AM (11 years ago)
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akpan then how?
Posted: at 20-08-2009 10:40 AM (11 years ago) | Upcoming
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- Resi at 20-08-2009 11:35 AM (11 years ago)
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Is he that busy,that you have to be one to go see him... after seven months. Well, the decisions is yours.

Posted: at 20-08-2009 11:35 AM (11 years ago) | Upcoming
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- Akpan01 at 20-08-2009 11:37 AM (11 years ago)
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Quote from: gabon on 20-08-2009 10:40 AM
akpan then how?
HMM MY G..IF U REALLY LOVE SOME1 U NOT FIT STAY EVEN 1 DAY WHITHOUT THE PERSON..BEFORE A MAN TELL U HE NEEDS TIME IT MEANS HE DON TIRE....ABI O???AND ALSO THE SAME FOR BABES...

Posted: at 20-08-2009 11:37 AM (11 years ago) | Hero
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