RELATIONSHIP RECOVERY: 3 MOVES To Getting Back Your Happiness From Being Single

Date: 20-12-2013 5:31 pm (10 years ago) | Author: franel
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«§» 20 December 2013

Many have been single for too long owing to some various and serious devastating relationship nightmare. Recovering from them can get complicated with so many hurdles tied around it.
To some with the inclining notion that “I’m single and don’t give a damn” attitude to the next level. This might just put you on the spotlight and shift you away from your comfort zone to your commendatory relationship.
I happen to believe there are still good number of wonderful people in this world who want a fulfilling relationship.
Here come a few plausible tips below to getting back your happiness from being single for too long.


No Standards:

We’d all like to pride ourselves on high standards but, after you’ve gone without any sort of action for a prolonged period of time, the word standard, quite frankly, has no meaning. Until you lay off your ego you will continue seeing them as the malodorous homeless guy at the library or the stoned scruffy guy that has no salutary senses.

Don't Cyberstalk:

In terms of relationship, I call it Cyber bullying - a form of harassment and revenge over a feeling of being wronged to your; ex-spouse, ex-boyfriend/girlfriend, or even potential partners (such as; someone you went to high school with, a coworker or supervisor, someone you friended on social network, a person you dated in real life or through an online service) blazoning their deeds to the outta world.
This ought not to be so, first of all, understand then analyse why you chose your former or current partner. People choose relationships for many different reasons, the most popular being "love." But what many consider to be "in love" is not really love at all. Here are some of the reasons why people choose each other:
    A deep need to be wanted
    A lifelong struggle to meet someone and "save" them or "change" them
    A fear of being alone
    Infatuation
    Material security
    For the good of the children
If you can honestly examine and understand why you chose your partner, you'll be able to see the beginnings of the breakup at the inception of the relationship. You'll also start to build an understanding relationship and to be able to choose differently next time around. Also learn how to forgive yourself and forgive your partner as well. Try and work out the crisis in your relationship.

Ugly Duckling:

Not just the face; the b_bs, butt, hairs, male chest, big head, brown teeth and so on that we complain a lot about, but believe you me this ain't a problem at all. 1) Because it’s the way God created you. 2) Though it strange but truly, some handsome guys sees those they call ugly girls as very attractive. Mind you, it will be unfair to call anyone ugly thing, ugly bla bla bla...
N:B -  It's no good pretending to be something you are not.
Nevertheless it won't be bad to brighten our appearance a bit but not to the extreme.
You might want to boost your confidence a bit; push-up bras (for small b_bs), v-necks also enhance certain body parts, brighten up your face and take care of hair - you can style or curl the hair as you wish.

We are so much more than our appearance know that in your heart, you are special and won’t go to the lowest bidder.
Don’t let others define your beauty. You have heard of the story of the ugly duckling have you not? The ugly duckling eventually turned into a beautiful swan - and so will you.
Let your inner beauty glow and that will cover any definition in whatever form of ugliness.

If the fault is from you, ask for forgiveness and work out the relationship fervently then,


This very article is written by Franel!


Posted: at 20-12-2013 05:31 PM (10 years ago) | Hero
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- Adam23 at 20-12-2013 08:21 PM (10 years ago)
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lovely article. I just lost my two girlfriends. What should i do ? I them back oh.Im sad now.

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