Help! I am in a fixed..*sobs*

Date: 24-04-2012 5:58 am (8 years ago) | Author: Joy G Error
- at 24-04-2012 05:58 AM (8 years ago)
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Help! I am in a fixed..the only guy i love is in love with another girl and we are classmate while the girl school in Canada, i saw how they displayed love on facebook 'writing on each other's wall' what should i do, to start with am realy hurt and i cried all day. Ur advise will amend a broken heart.

Posted: at 24-04-2012 05:58 AM (8 years ago) | Upcoming
- Honey101 at 24-04-2012 06:22 AM (8 years ago)
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He dsnt even luv u as he claimed 2 cos if he did he wil neva leave u.4gt abt them.jst endure d pains.u're precious and he dsnt knw wat he is losein.my dear dat kind of man dsnt dserve u.tke hrt
Posted: at 24-04-2012 06:22 AM (8 years ago) | Newbie
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- jossy4reall at 24-04-2012 06:55 AM (8 years ago)
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poster....are u both living in Canada??.........if no den u have nothing to worry abt.........its just an imaginary love n wit time he wil come back to himself.......ur ar his real love but dat of face book is not love

Posted: at 24-04-2012 06:55 AM (8 years ago) | Hero
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- sexy_error at 24-04-2012 09:52 AM (8 years ago)
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Honey, thanks, i just hope so.


Jossy, am in Italy and the guy is my classmate.
Posted: at 24-04-2012 09:52 AM (8 years ago) | Upcoming
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- Treasure2 at 24-04-2012 09:59 AM (8 years ago)
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Will advise you to excuse him for now,  he will come back to you but don't nag him.  sometimes, men need to be excuse to test their love. Be strong is really not easy.
Posted: at 24-04-2012 09:59 AM (8 years ago) | Hero
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- jossy4reall at 24-04-2012 02:29 PM (8 years ago)
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Quote from: sexy_error on 24-04-2012 09:52 AM
Honey, thanks, i just hope so.


Jossy, am in Italy and the guy is my classmate.

That is infatuation n if u try to give him some break....he wil come back 4 u....den u wil tell him dat u dont like his Canada facebook love as u call it.....but dont give him much gapooo since said u love him cuz if u do.., u might end up loosing him completely.., not to Canada base gal but 2 some gals around.....but one is sure concerning d Canada gal and dat is INFATUATION

Posted: at 24-04-2012 02:29 PM (8 years ago) | Hero
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- sexy_error at 24-04-2012 07:31 PM (8 years ago)
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Tr2, i wil try though its not easy.
Jossy..u r kind..thnx a million
Posted: at 24-04-2012 07:31 PM (8 years ago) | Upcoming
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- 1daful at 24-04-2012 07:42 PM (8 years ago)
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Trust me i know it's kinda hard for you rite now, but try and maintain calm while remain watchful...I go with T2 don't nag him if he comes back to his senses then good, but if not.. you have to move on.

Posted: at 24-04-2012 07:42 PM (8 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- katung44 at 24-04-2012 08:16 PM (8 years ago)
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I am really sorry to be this harsh but you need a dose of tough love here. Let the guy do his thing and go about your life. You will only hurt yourself more if you keep freting over him. If he loves you, he'll come back to you. I am not sure this guy is worth all the heartache you getting right now. I know all I am saying right now may not be easy for you but it is the only way to get control of your life back. But you are hell bent on getting him back at all costs, try the African 'remote control' option. I can't recommend one for you as I do not believe in using them myself.
Posted: at 24-04-2012 08:16 PM (8 years ago) | Upcoming
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- mizcollins1 at 24-04-2012 09:57 PM (8 years ago)
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my girl im not in any way trying to be harsh because you my fellow woman.....the idiot of a man disrespected you by trying this facebook romance.....not even to say you found out by finding messages in his inbox but on his wall? dump the womanizer my girl,you will find a better man,take heart
Posted: at 24-04-2012 09:57 PM (8 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- Beauti4 at 24-04-2012 10:19 PM (8 years ago)
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According to you explanations there is no backup evidence that proves that they are secretly dating. I think you should talk to your man about it. And plz you don't have to get hurt, he is not your husband. Be a strong woman. If he is not yours, he will leave and never stay. They may b meant for each other you know. But get more closer to your girlfriend and see if she constantly give flimsy excuses why she can't be around. Then secretly start your investigation from there. Don't act as if u r suspecting them. Other than that, there is no need hurting yourself and be creating some spiritual illusion over a spill milk. Ku Luck
Posted: at 24-04-2012 10:19 PM (8 years ago) | Hero
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- sophiebaby at 25-04-2012 11:20 AM (8 years ago)
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What ever is your will be yours...

Posted: at 25-04-2012 11:20 AM (8 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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