Help! I am in a fixed..*sobs*

Help! I am in a fixed..the only guy i love is in love with another girl and we are classmate while the girl school in Canada, i saw how they displayed love on facebook 'writing on each other's wall' what should i do, to start with am realy hurt and i cried all day. Ur advise will amend a broken heart.

Posted: at 24-04-2012 05:58 AM (11 years ago) | Upcoming

poster....are u both living in Canada??.........if no den u have nothing to worry abt.........its just an imaginary love n wit time he wil come back to himself.......ur ar his real love but dat of face book is not love

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Posted: at 24-04-2012 06:55 AM (11 years ago) | Hero

Will advise you to excuse him for now,  he will come back to you but don't nag him.  sometimes, men need to be excuse to test their love. Be strong is really not easy.

Posted: at 24-04-2012 09:59 AM (11 years ago) | Hero

Tr2, i wil try though its not easy.
Jossy..u r kind..thnx a million

Posted: at 24-04-2012 07:31 PM (11 years ago) | Upcoming

I am really sorry to be this harsh but you need a dose of tough love here. Let the guy do his thing and go about your life. You will only hurt yourself more if you keep freting over him. If he loves you, he'll come back to you. I am not sure this guy is worth all the heartache you getting right now. I know all I am saying right now may not be easy for you but it is the only way to get control of your life back. But you are hell bent on getting him back at all costs, try the African 'remote control' option. I can't recommend one for you as I do not believe in using them myself.

Posted: at 24-04-2012 08:16 PM (11 years ago) | Upcoming

According to you explanations there is no backup evidence that proves that they are secretly dating. I think you should talk to your man about it. And plz you don't have to get hurt, he is not your husband. Be a strong woman. If he is not yours, he will leave and never stay. They may b meant for each other you know. But get more closer to your girlfriend and see if she constantly give flimsy excuses why she can't be around. Then secretly start your investigation from there. Don't act as if u r suspecting them. Other than that, there is no need hurting yourself and be creating some spiritual illusion over a spill milk. Ku Luck

Posted: at 24-04-2012 10:19 PM (11 years ago) | Hero