If he is not yet married, pray about it very well. Discuss this with ur spiritual father or friend, that will believe God for u. Your blessings can come from anywhere.
Secondly, u just have to be wise. The 150 grand is too much for a birthday gift form a boss (but u know, anything can happen). U can use that.
But as for the 6.5 million? That is outrageous! U should have politely rejected the money from him. (If he asks, u can say, ur parents cannot bear u holding such an amount) Then watch his response. If he smiles, and says, infact, he wants to see ur parents, then he is serious about u.
If none of these happens, return that money to him or at worse, u can keep it safely somewhere no one else knows. So that the day he comes back demanding for sex, and maybe u don't find him attractive enough to do it with him, and he starts getting rash, or demands his money, u can quietly give it back to him. If he sacks u, use the money and start a beautiful new and fresh life.
But be very careful. Stop collecting more gifts from him. U need to be sure if he is not laundering money from somewhere and giving u to keep coz he can't go to the bank. Banks are now watchdogs for that. Check him, if he is not a 419er. That kind of money is too much to give a staff just like that.
BE VERY WISE WITH HIM AND THREAD VERY CAREFULLY WITH HIM AS FROM NOW ON. HE MUST BE UP TO SOMETHING.
However, even if he wants to marry u, check his character. He may have the money, yet he is a devil's incarnate. I believe u want lasting peace and love in ur home. Watch before u leap.
But if it works out that he is really honest and sincere with u on his intentions for marriage, then GOODLUCK girl. U don marry don be that.
Congrats!!!!!!!!!!! | Posted: at 9-05-2012 11:02 AM (11 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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![-]( "abmartel") abmartel at 9-05-2012 11:04 AM (11 years ago)  (m) I don't understand what you mean by pay back time, have you done any thing shoddy with him before that you feel he wants a reprisal?, is the man married and you married or single as well, do you think you have affection for him. i mean all these question should be given answers to for me to be able to give you a practicable solution. or if u feel you cannot say that here, just e-mail me on [email protected] so we can talk about it. | Posted: at 9-05-2012 11:04 AM (11 years ago) | Upcoming | |
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![-]( "sophiebaby") sophiebaby at 9-05-2012 11:04 AM (11 years ago) (f) Sophie,
i can say that everything depend on you because who he put on a shoe know where it pains you......you are with him for years and you tend to know if he is the right man for you......you should not be carry away by any gift been given to you.....and also remember that you can marry a rich man now but there could be to peace at home.....just try and take a 2nd thought of whatever you want to if it pleases you and the man you want to spend the rest of your life with.....there is a limit to what people can advice you on and if you know the advice is right for you......don`t allow some people to push you but value their opinion if is going to work for you.......
Thanks sweetie.. I do appreciate ur piece of advice .. thank you bunches
Life is 2short to wake up in the morning with regrets. LOVE KEEPS NO RECORD OF WRONGS*SOPHIEBABY* :* | Posted: at 9-05-2012 11:04 AM (11 years ago) | Addicted Hero | |
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![-]( "sophiebaby") sophiebaby at 9-05-2012 11:09 AM (11 years ago) (f) If he is not yet married, pray about it very well. Discuss this with ur spiritual father or friend, that will believe God for u. Your blessings can come from anywhere.
Secondly, u just have to be wise. The 150 grand is too much for a birthday gift form a boss (but u know, anything can happen). U can use that.
But as for the 6.5 million? That is outrageous! U should have politely rejected the money from him. (If he asks, u can say, ur parents cannot bear u holding such an amount) Then watch his response. If he smiles, and says, infact, he wants to see ur parents, then he is serious about u.
If none of these happens, return that money to him or at worse, u can keep it safely somewhere no one else knows. So that the day he comes back demanding for sex, and maybe u don't find him attractive enough to do it with him, and he starts getting rash, or demands his money, u can quietly give it back to him. If he sacks u, use the money and start a beautiful new and fresh life.
But be very careful. Stop collecting more gifts from him. U need to be sure if he is not laundering money from somewhere and giving u to keep coz he can't go to the bank. Banks are now watchdogs for that. Check him, if he is not a 419er. That kind of money is too much to give a staff just like that.
BE VERY WISE WITH HIM AND THREAD VERY CAREFULLY WITH HIM AS FROM NOW ON. HE MUST BE UP TO SOMETHING.
However, even if he wants to marry u, check his character. He may have the money, yet he is a devil's incarnate. I believe u want lasting peace and love in ur home. Watch before u leap.
But if it works out that he is really honest and sincere with u on his intentions for marriage, then GOODLUCK girl. U don marry don be that.
Congrats!!!!!!!!!!!
oh dearie thanks a million.... but my boss no be 419ner oooo..i know what he does as a job..if it were a 419 job..i wouldnt stick my ass on this chair..anyways thanks..ur a darling
Life is 2short to wake up in the morning with regrets. LOVE KEEPS NO RECORD OF WRONGS*SOPHIEBABY* :* | Posted: at 9-05-2012 11:09 AM (11 years ago) | Addicted Hero | |
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![-]( "legionkiwi") legionkiwi at 9-05-2012 11:11 AM (11 years ago) (m) legionkiwi, but do you think that she can easily quit her job?
is easy for her to collect 6.5 and 30000 with many gift , i think is very easy for her, she is a thief, seeking advice now, why she didnt seek advice before collecting that money, my guy dont mind that gl she is a criminal | Posted: at 9-05-2012 11:11 AM (11 years ago) | Upcoming | |
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![-]( "imoc") imoc at 9-05-2012 11:12 AM (11 years ago) (m) u dont want again ok pay the one u chop na and go ur way  | Posted: at 9-05-2012 11:12 AM (11 years ago) | Upcoming | |
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![-]( "sophiebaby") sophiebaby at 9-05-2012 11:14 AM (11 years ago) (f) is easy for her to collect 6.5 and 30000 with many gift , i think is very easy for her, she is a thief, seeking advice now, why she didnt seek advice before collecting that money, my guy dont mind that gl she is a criminal
thanks Legionkiwi.. i really appreciate ur comments... 
Life is 2short to wake up in the morning with regrets. LOVE KEEPS NO RECORD OF WRONGS*SOPHIEBABY* :* | Posted: at 9-05-2012 11:14 AM (11 years ago) | Addicted Hero | |
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![-]( "sophiebaby") sophiebaby at 9-05-2012 11:15 AM (11 years ago) (f) u don come abi?
Life is 2short to wake up in the morning with regrets. LOVE KEEPS NO RECORD OF WRONGS*SOPHIEBABY* :* | Posted: at 9-05-2012 11:15 AM (11 years ago) | Addicted Hero | |
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![-]( "Edo-musoko") Edo-musoko at 9-05-2012 11:25 AM (11 years ago) (m) Baby go ahead & marry him. If he's bad you would have known all these years you have been working for him | Posted: at 9-05-2012 11:25 AM (11 years ago) | Newbie | |
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![-]( "Treasure2") Treasure2 at 9-05-2012 11:30 AM (11 years ago) (f) Okies, e easy like that. | Posted: at 9-05-2012 11:30 AM (11 years ago) | Hero | |
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![-]( "Idbabe") Idbabe at 9-05-2012 11:37 AM (11 years ago) (f) i seriously need help..two heads are better than one. Two good heads not just two heads. U accepted a whole car, what came to ur mind then? Anyway watch and pray, so that u wont loose him if he's meant for you afteral God created us all, so u can marry from anywhere as as God direct. Goodluck | Posted: at 9-05-2012 11:37 AM (11 years ago) | Hero | |
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![-]( "Dansuccess") Dansuccess at 9-05-2012 11:43 AM (11 years ago) (m) sophiebaby dear, just pray hard,so that you wont do any mistake, There is a saying that does like this; Many are called, but few are choosing, so, i mean, just take some of the advices that suits you, and let the rest be.!!, NO DE 4 WATER MAKE SOUP ENTER YOUR EYES O | Posted: at 9-05-2012 11:43 AM (11 years ago) | Newbie | |
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![-]( "Mr-World") Mr-World at 9-05-2012 12:10 PM (11 years ago) (m) hummm 
TALK AM LISTENING!!! | Posted: at 9-05-2012 12:10 PM (11 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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![-]( "smile77") smile77 at 9-05-2012 12:13 PM (11 years ago) (m) marry him na | Posted: at 9-05-2012 12:13 PM (11 years ago) | Upcoming | |
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![-]( "jjiofor") jjiofor at 9-05-2012 12:23 PM (11 years ago) (m) Like you all (most) know my story of how my boss got me a personal car in my name just like that as at then..all because he saw me as a humble woman and someone that was good in the job. Just yesterday while I was marking my 25th Birthday in the office, like the good and nice boss he’s been to me all the years I’ve worked with him and the company, I kept some piece of cake for him and served him with a drink in his office like I did to other managers of the company. I wasn’t on sit, he called my intercom several times and decided to call my mobile, he called and told me to come to his office, I went, and he asked me to sit down...i did. He wished me a happy birthday, thanked me for the piece of cake I gave to him and gave me an envelope, I was actually thinking it was an official document that needed my attention, but to my surprise when I opened it I saw a Hundred and fifty thousand naira cash, I was dazed, I asked him if he needed me to help him go to the bank? His answer was NO...that I surprised him with my birthday cake which nobody has ever given to him all the years he’s stayed in Nigeria , and complimented me on my appearance saying I was looking attractive…that he decided to also give to me something that I deserve as a nice, Intelligent , humble, discreet and a special woman. I was like Wow.. what a gift..all I did told him was thank u sir, am grateful. He went further saying he’s been observing me for years now and that he loves me and wants to marry me..He offered me a cheque of N6.5M instantly to sort out things with myself and if at all I am in any debt, , whatever will be my problem/need..he’s in a better position to takia. av practically done nothing but pondered on this issue.. I really don’t now wat to do..just this afternoon he called me via intercom..i went ..and he gave me thirty thousand naira ... I am totally confused..i no wan chop again...make una help advice me on wat to do...My Professorship no near this case at all...i seriously need help..two heads are better than one. IS HE FOR REAL? OR ITS PAY BACK TIME?Ill mannered comments are not welcomed  You have not really told us the whole truth about this matter, There is no Man in this world that will buy you a Car without tacitly or otherwise show that he is interested in you, why is it such a problem for you to have connected or disconnected with him b/4 this stage and why is money the only reason why you are confused? Toasting comes in many forms and I am sure you have been encouraging this man because of his money but wait a minute if there is no issue here why is he spending so much money to get your consent. Why are you confused? You probably would have said yes long ago and be recieving this money as fiancee or even wife or you would have discouraged him long ago and there would have been no problem now. You want my advice ...... You are between the devil and the deep blue sea............ You say Yes and you would be in that problem that you are trying to avoid....... You say No and you will never know peace from this man because you have already compromised. Most girls think they are smart but they realize they are not when the problems start unfolding and by then too late. I only pity husbands because they do not know the problems that come with their wives into marriage because of love for money, thay either marry the wrong person for money or chop and keep chopping the wrong person but marry the right person but what they do not know is that there is a lot of things that happen spiritually that they do not see physically. A word is enough for the wise. There is nothing free in this world even in freetown, you must sow b/4 u reap. | Posted: at 9-05-2012 12:23 PM (11 years ago) | Upcoming | |
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![-]( "Greggiyke") Greggiyke at 9-05-2012 12:29 PM (11 years ago) (m) Get real and be truthful with yourself Sophia!
Are you supposed to collect the money when you are not ready to get involved with him?
I know u have seen a sine that he has personal feelings for before now, and u kept giving him hope by accepting all his gifts.
Anyway, marry him if u love him but if u don't, say on. And then try to sort out thing with him amicably.
I wish u luck Dear. | Posted: at 9-05-2012 12:29 PM (11 years ago) | Upcoming | |
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![-]( "Maggiecube") Maggiecube at 9-05-2012 12:39 PM (11 years ago) (f) Reply |
![-]( "oohio2007") oohio2007 at 9-05-2012 12:43 PM (11 years ago) (m) Like you all (most) know my story of how my boss got me a personal car in my name just like that as at then..all because he saw me as a humble woman and someone that was good in the job. Just yesterday while I was marking my 25th Birthday in the office, like the good and nice boss he’s been to me all the years I’ve worked with him and the company, I kept some piece of cake for him and served him with a drink in his office like I did to other managers of the company. I wasn’t on sit, he called my intercom several times and decided to call my mobile, he called and told me to come to his office, I went, and he asked me to sit down...i did. He wished me a happy birthday, thanked me for the piece of cake I gave to him and gave me an envelope, I was actually thinking it was an official document that needed my attention, but to my surprise when I opened it I saw a Hundred and fifty thousand naira cash, I was dazed, I asked him if he needed me to help him go to the bank? His answer was NO...that I surprised him with my birthday cake which nobody has ever given to him all the years he’s stayed in Nigeria , and complimented me on my appearance saying I was looking attractive…that he decided to also give to me something that I deserve as a nice, Intelligent , humble, discreet and a special woman. I was like Wow.. what a gift..all I did told him was thank u sir, am grateful. He went further saying he’s been observing me for years now and that he loves me and wants to marry me..He offered me a cheque of N6.5M instantly to sort out things with myself and if at all I am in any debt, , whatever will be my problem/need..he’s in a better position to takia. av practically done nothing but pondered on this issue.. I really don’t now wat to do..just this afternoon he called me via intercom..i went ..and he gave me thirty thousand naira ... I am totally confused..i no wan chop again...make una help advice me on wat to do...My Professorship no near this case at all...i seriously need help..two heads are better than one. IS HE FOR REAL? OR ITS PAY BACK TIME?Ill mannered comments are not welcomed HMMMM!......like in the movies.......STORY.......STORY
''NO MAN KNOWETH THE HOUR'' | Posted: at 9-05-2012 12:43 PM (11 years ago) | Upcoming | |
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![-]( "oohio2007") oohio2007 at 9-05-2012 12:48 PM (11 years ago) (m) Status:Super control juju activated
''NO MAN KNOWETH THE HOUR'' | Posted: at 9-05-2012 12:48 PM (11 years ago) | Upcoming | |
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![-]( "Treasure2") Treasure2 at 9-05-2012 12:49 PM (11 years ago) (f) Reply |
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