3 Questions You Should Ask Before You Save A Relationship

Are you close to giving up trying to understand the nitty-gritty of how to save a relationship with a guy you love more than your life? First, try to realize that every relationship will always have its shares of ups and downs; highs and lows.

As they always, say, relationships are like a roller coaster ride. Sometimes, you are up; sometimes you are down. That is why it is crucial for anyone who is in a relationship - whether it is for marriage or a boyfriend-girlfriend relationship; or perhaps a fiance-fiancee relationship, to understand that it always takes two to make it work. There should always be the indispensable ingredient called "compromise". Simply put, meeting halfway. Without it, all else is doomed to fail and you do not succeed in your mission to save a relationship with the man or woman you love.

Therefore, while the relationship has not reached the brink of separation, make sure you find the best techniques of "how to save a relationship". In that way, you will not lose that person you love so much. But to save your relationship, keep in mind that it will boil down to the following factors which you will also need to consider:

1. What Is Causing The Impending Break-Up?

First, consider what is causing the problem if you are really bent on finding out how to save a relationship. Unless you are able to pin down the real reasons why there is indifference between the two of you, you will not succeed in making the relationship work. You see, it takes knowing the problem, recognizing it, making amends for it and working hard to improve it that will shape the success of any relationship. So what is causing the trouble?

As soon as you have identified it, work around it. It does not mater who is at fault but it should be clear to both parties that there is a problem you both need to address and that the only formula to overcome it is to "compromise" or "find the middle ground" where everything is neutral and therefore, there is no chaos.

2. Is It Worth The Effort To Patch Things Up?

Second, consider if it is truly worth your time and effort to iron things out with your partner. Every so often, the husband or the boyfriend is not cooperative because there is the involvement of a third-party in the relationship. If this is the case, the best thing to do would still be to give it a try to save the relationship. But then if it happens for the second or third time, then perhaps you...

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Posted: at 18-05-2012 08:32 PM (11 years ago) | Newbie

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Posted: at 18-05-2012 10:55 PM (11 years ago) | Hero

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Posted: at 18-05-2012 11:35 PM (11 years ago) | Newbie

Funny question but nice post.

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Posted: at 20-05-2012 10:33 AM (11 years ago) | Gistmaniac

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Posted: at 20-05-2012 11:29 AM (11 years ago) | Gistmaniac