Twice a week, once a month, once in 6 months, every couples sexlife is different. But it happens a lot that one likes to have sex more often then the other, many people will try to figure out whats wrong with their partner, but maybe the problem can be u.
A different biorhythm If u like to stay up late at nite, then is whn probably ur libido will start to rise while other people are sleeping. If ur partner has the same rhythm there is no problem but if he/she is more of an early bird , spontaneous sex will not happen frequently. U can try plan a time to have sex.
Because u talk too much about it If u feel like ur not having enough sex in ur relationship, try to avoid talking about it in ur bedroom. As it shoud b a place to create romance and not be associated with nagging. Keep this kinda discussions for neutral ground.
Because u dont talk about it Yes too much talk is not good but dying in silence is certainly not the solution. Communication is the key to a successful relationship. Sex can be a sensitive subject so try to be calm and relaxed when aproaching ur partner.
Too much alcohol If u like to drink a glass of wine once in a while, no problem. But when u drink frequently it will not boost ur sex drive. Besides nobody likes their partner to fall asleep halfway foreplay.
Same old, same old Maybe u have the feeling like its just getting boring, when u can already predict ur partners next move under the sheets. Try new positions, play sex games, find new places for ur love gospel or watch porn together if thats what ur into. There are so many things u can try, so stimulate ur creativity.
Workaholic Waking up, going to work, do overtime, come home and send few mails, go to bed with ur laptop. This lifestyle will create distance between u and ur partner. Try to find the right balance between work and relaxation.
Masturbation U feel like having sex, but ur partner is not in the mood, and u tried masturbating. Know that masturbation will keep u away from ur partner segxwally, as u will feel satisfied somehow. Its better to be patient and wait till u both in the mood.
Laziness Even tho u feel like having sex a lot, ur just not the type to start things urself. When ur partner always have to make first move, he/she will also get tired of that. Have confidence and feel sexy, keep the bedroom exciting.
Posted: at 20-05-2012 11:16 AM (11 years ago) | Addicted Hero
mizcollins1 at 20-05-2012 11:25 AM (11 years ago) (f)
MAMACITA!! the sex doctor is in the house!!!!! nice1 chick!! love it!!!
Posted: at 20-05-2012 11:25 AM (11 years ago) | Gistmaniac
hmmm sex expect in d building lol....to me workaholic is still d number one factor that kills sex in a relationships.....i don't fully agree with d alcohol aspect,coz to some,enough alcohol use to triple their sex drive.
The difference between GENIUS and STUPIDITY is that, genius has it limits..
Posted: at 20-05-2012 11:28 AM (11 years ago) | Hero
FlyMamacita at 20-05-2012 11:33 AM (11 years ago) (f)
Quote from: ILOVEIT on 20-05-2012 11:28 AM
hmmm sex expect in d building lol....to me workaholic is still d number one factor that kills sex in a relationships.....i don't fully agree with d alcohol aspect,coz to some,enough alcohol use to triple their sex drive.
Lolz.. Yeah i agree, nd too much nagging as well. But as for alcohol, its not everybody who like to phyuk a drunk pesin..
Posted: at 20-05-2012 11:33 AM (11 years ago) | Addicted Hero
mizcollins1 at 20-05-2012 11:36 AM (11 years ago) (f)
Quote from: ILOVEIT on 20-05-2012 11:28 AM
hmmm sex expect in d building lol....to me workaholic is still d number one factor that kills sex in a relationships.....i don't fully agree with d alcohol aspect,coz to some,enough alcohol use to triple their sex drive.
lolzzz yer but then to some they get toooo pissed their phyuking dick don't even erect no matter how you suck it!!! .... trust me! been der done that!!
Posted: at 20-05-2012 11:36 AM (11 years ago) | Gistmaniac
Lolz.. Yeah i agree, nd too much nagging as well. But as for alcohol, its not everybody who like to fcuk a drunk pesin..
lol i don't mean to be drunk..i don't meant to be drunk abeg no body go wish to kwarangida with a drunk naa...to some being highly tipsy can go along way to make some girls begging to stop
The difference between GENIUS and STUPIDITY is that, genius has it limits..
Posted: at 20-05-2012 11:43 AM (11 years ago) | Hero
lolzzz yer but then to some they get toooo pissed their fcuking d*1*ck don't even erect no matter how you suck it!!! .... trust me! been der done that!!
hahaha u must be very good in that field of suckiology!!!..but i understand, i wasn't talking about being drunk(hell no) tipsy,tipsy,tipsy...
The difference between GENIUS and STUPIDITY is that, genius has it limits..
Posted: at 20-05-2012 11:46 AM (11 years ago) | Hero
FlyMamacita at 20-05-2012 03:57 PM (11 years ago) (f)
Quote from: ILOVEIT on 20-05-2012 11:43 AM
lol i don't mean to be drunk..i don't meant to be drunk abeg no body go wish to kwarangida with a drunk naa...to some being highly tipsy can go along way to make some girls begging to stop
I feel u ooh luv doc..bein tipsy can make sombody do tins u wudn imagine on d bed
Posted: at 20-05-2012 03:57 PM (11 years ago) | Addicted Hero