Falling in love is, apparently, an output-to-self, to become interested in someone other than the self.When we fall in the prevailing attitude of "take": I want one for the pleasant feelings that provokes me, I need it, without him I'm sick, I can not help it, I complete the other.There is something organic in falling in attraction as physical: in both cases I am violently pushed toward each other, and in this there is nothing wrong, and indeed are a tangible sign of our being made to go against the other, but if you are a prerequisite to love are still no love.Falling in love is a kind of period that is freely given and which engage the other does not cost anything so it is beautiful in itself, but it inevitably ends sooner or later and if you have not used this much time to learn to love 'another, then the relationship ends. Are many people in their lives continue to fall concluding from time to time, when love ends, that the partner was not the right person and the next time they delude themselves that he had finally found the perfect person, true love. In fact the right person there, but there does not exist or the capacity to love people as they are for their merits and their drawbacks: you do not love someone because he's good strong or intelligent (we fell in love with these qualities) but you love it just because it's "him", that is to say that you want at all costs his own good.
From falling in love ...When you're in love you can see that the other is not objectively good, not perfect in the eyes of others, but in our eyes all that is His becomes beautiful, no longer the objective beauty, the other becomes the same parameter of beauty is beauty, what looks like, what is ugly is different from him.And if this relationship turns into love, that is, if the other becomes "you" to which I decide to give it my all, not only lose any important outward physical aspects, but also its ways of being, to do, to thinking of which we were in love.Sure love is more challenging than simply fall in love, but it is even more beautiful in the sense that happiness leads to a deeper and lasting joy that one experiences when falling in love.Between the two there is the same difference between the enthusiasm which raises the idea of reaching the summit of a mountain that covers the bottom and you imagine while you climb, and then "to dream" the mountain and our being brave and true climbers climb the mountain.While getting the real excitement will fade, will require a long and meticulous preparation too boring, there will be moments of difficulty, you will experience the cold, fear, thirst and sometimes curse the idea of climbing to the top and will be tempted to drop everything and return to the valley, but once we arrived and during the same journey you will experience deep happiness that has the flavor of real things, maybe sometimes harsh and bitter, but certainly larger and more capable of filling the stomach the light and delicate flavor of dreams.
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