HELP O! My Pastor Said I Don't Have A Future With Him After 3 Abortions - Sandra

"My name is Sandra and I am from d eastern part this is my story. I was raped when I was 14 and it affected me so much that throughout my secondary education I never had any male friends and talking to a boy then was a problem.



It continue till I finished my secondary skool n luckily for me I gained admission into one of the university in the eastern part and there my problem continued again.

After 5yrs of my encounter, I fell in love wit this guy in same school with me same level bt different faculty, at first it was so beautiful loving him but at a point it went sour cause he started beating me whenever he is angry n at most times will force himself on me after beatings.

I would cry and say I will never forgive him atmost time I will call it quit but when he asks for forgiveness I will stupidly forgive him, most times I wonder if I am under a charm or what?. That's not where it stopped, I became pregnant, I told him and he said he is not ready to be a father that I shud abort it which I agreed.

I aborted it and it affected me academically cause I did it after my 1st semester yr 2 exams, I cried and ask God 2 forgive and told him that I don't want the relationship again and he pleaded with me that infact no more sex I agree and believed in him but it was all a lie cause right now I've done the 3rd abortion and yet still in love with him even afta ma pastor told me that I dont have a future with him and that he will destroy me and my future and leave me for another girl.

Please I need help cause I am running mad, this whole thing is affecting me badly both academically and emotionally.

"What should I do? Because some part of me still want to be with this guy but life and future is a stake - " Sandra.

Posted: at 12-06-2012 05:44 PM (11 years ago) | Upcoming

exactly be wise ... 3 Abortions ?

Posted: at 12-06-2012 06:10 PM (11 years ago) | Newbie

As a guy I no pity U!!!CD no dey maket!!U dnt nid advise pls U nid delivranx!!!!!!pikin plnty f ur body? Dey troway!!!!May God fgiv us!!!!!

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Posted: at 12-06-2012 06:16 PM (11 years ago) | Upcoming

Ure ryt bros. Im wit u. She doesnt deserve any pity. Dis is guys tend 2 say som girls hav ice fish brain.

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Posted: at 12-06-2012 06:31 PM (11 years ago) | Gistmaniac

Be wise and move on...you don't have a life with him..he is just using you to satisfy his urge

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Posted: at 12-06-2012 06:33 PM (11 years ago) | Addicted Hero

you are right....not after 3 abortions

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Posted: at 12-06-2012 06:35 PM (11 years ago) | Addicted Hero

FOOLISH GIRL!! Continue killin allll ur unborn children dat u wud hav had afta u get married lemme c hw God wil reward u wit children. Dat ur head na coconut n water no be brain dey dere.any girl dat aborts 4 a guy deceivin herself dat dat same guy wil marry her is livin in a fool's paradise. U beta dump dat guy's ass n stop commiting murder. Ice fish brain girl.

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Posted: at 12-06-2012 06:39 PM (11 years ago) | Gistmaniac

Mr painter kelly hansome don turn to PAINTER 4 Owerri IMO state .Kelechukwu clap 4 ur self I SAY NO BE UNA FAULF YOU ARE JUST jobless,... nonsense But do you yeah,and keep missing YAKUBU.......walk down the road and go hug TRANSFORMER...go boil stone..... ,its'll cure your sickness ....., MAKE UNA COME HELP ME SEE WHICH KIND STRONG HEAD PIKIN UNA BE HIA KPOMO UNA NO CHOP....,FISH UNA NO CHOP.....,...GOAT UNA CHOP UNA SAY UNA WAN BEEF..........una too much!!! coffee wey I dey drink for hia comot for my nose as I read all una comment.    JOBLESS PEOPLE

Posted: at 12-06-2012 06:48 PM (11 years ago) | Gistmaniac

If some part of u still want the guy, why restrain urself. full throttle. Idiot. foolish girl. Is it after the tenth abortion that you will learn ur lesson? Make Sabbath pple catch u take pigeon flog out that mumu 4 ur head. Make u no make me vex ooooohhhhhhh.......

Posted: at 12-06-2012 07:00 PM (11 years ago) | Upcoming

You are the best STUPID girl in Nigeria. Infact your name is FOOLISH GIRL.

Posted: at 12-06-2012 07:03 PM (11 years ago) | Upcoming