A man is seeking constructive advise on how to handle a very disgraceful situation that is going on in his family. Please lets help him out, for a friend in need is a friend indeed.
His story goes like this...
I stayed with my Uncle in Lagos, he has a church in Ogudu Ojota. Around late 90 I met a lady and we courted for 6 years before we eventually got married in 2002. Up till now, we have no child because my wife is always falling sick. Last January a pastor asked me to fast and pray in order to find an ending solution to my wife's sickness so we can bare a child. After I prayed and fasted, couple of days later, my uncle went to my daddy to confess that he was going out with my wife before and after our wedding up to this present time. I was shocked when my father told me, because this my uncle is also a pastor.
Hearing the news made me remember back then, anytime my wife and I were together, he always exhibit hatred towards me. I don’t want to reveal his name and the name of his church. The truth is that I know he was doing all these bad things but I didn’t know he would do it with my own wife, and taking her to different hotels.
Please help me, I don't know; what can I do?
RELATIONSHIP & ROMANCE FORUM; MINISTER FOR WOMEN AFFAIRS WELCOMES YOU
Posted: at 4-07-2012 04:17 PM (11 years ago) | Addicted Hero
solid_solid at 4-07-2012 05:18 PM (11 years ago) (m)
make him forgive the both and move on with his wife .;l
Posted: at 4-07-2012 05:18 PM (11 years ago) | Gistmaniac
sophiebaby at 4-07-2012 05:19 PM (11 years ago) (f)
the Bible say heaven help those who help themselves... why is ur wife fund of sleeping or having sex with your uncle/pastor.. is it that ur dick is weak? anyway.. forgive them..pray without season, have patience the lord is ur strength @ Poster i mean the man in question
Life is 2short to wake up in the morning with regrets. LOVE KEEPS NO RECORD OF WRONGS*SOPHIEBABY* :*
Posted: at 4-07-2012 05:19 PM (11 years ago) | Addicted Hero
RealOnyeigbo at 5-07-2012 10:49 AM (11 years ago) (m)
FORGIVE IS AND WILL BE THE MOST STUPID THING YOU HAVE DONE. GOD ANSWERED YOUR PRAYER BY THE REVELATION. BE WARNED OR YOU GET DOOMED FOREVER.
ALL THESE ADVICES HERE TO FORGIVE AND MOVE ON WITH YOUR WIFE ARE STUPID ADVICE. SHE IS NOT YOUR WIFE.
LEAVE THE WOMAN LET THE PASTOR AND UNCLE OF YOURS MARRY HER. THE END IS NOT IN SIGHT!!!
SO THAT YOU CAN MOVE ON WITH YOUR LIFE AND PRAY TO GOD TO GIVE YOU YOUR OWN WIFE WHO CAN GIVE YOU A BABY, PRAY HONESTLY AND HAVE SAME CONVENANT WITH GOD FOR YOUR LIVES.
ONE CANNOT DECEIVE GOD?
Posted: at 5-07-2012 10:49 AM (11 years ago) | Upcoming
igbonnanna at 5-07-2012 10:55 AM (11 years ago) (m)
Quote from: RealOnyeigbo on 5-07-2012 10:49 AM
FORGIVE IS AND WILL BE THE MOST STUPID THING YOU HAVE DONE. GOD ANSWERED YOUR PRAYER BY THE REVELATION. BE WARNED OR YOU GET DOOMED FOREVER.
ALL THESE ADVICES HERE TO FORGIVE AND MOVE ON WITH YOUR WIFE ARE STUPID ADVICE. SHE IS NOT YOUR WIFE.
LEAVE THE WOMAN LET THE PASTOR AND UNCLE OF YOURS MARRY HER. THE END IS NOT IN SIGHT!!!
SO THAT YOU CAN MOVE ON WITH YOUR LIFE AND PRAY TO GOD TO GIVE YOU YOUR OWN WIFE WHO CAN GIVE YOU A BABY, PRAY HONESTLY AND HAVE SAME CONVENANT WITH GOD FOR YOUR LIVES.
ONE CANNOT DECEIVE GOD?
Waoooow!!! TOP ANSWER AND BEST ADVICE AND SOLUTION!!!
DRIVE THE WOMAN AND THE UNCLE OUT OF YOUR LIFE FOR YOU TO SEE PEACE AND WORK OF GOD. If you forgive her, you are a fool and making the revelation of God a mockery. God has solved your problems. SEND THEM OUT MORE THAN 20,000 kilometres and more. They are DANGEROUS. You may be killed by them if you don't take time and run away from them. THANK YOUR GOD AND PRAY TO HIM TO FIND A WIFE FOR YOU. SHE IS NOT YOUR WIFE TRULY.
Posted: at 5-07-2012 10:55 AM (11 years ago) | Gistmaniac