Can someone advise me not to behead this MAN? (Page 2)

First, I do not know what transpired between the both of you (You and the Man) to make you want to behead him. Secondly, you did not mention whether the Woman on the other side of the mattress is related to you by marriage or another close relationship ( I am ruling out Blood relations here). Thirdly, Even if she is related to you by Blood or any other intimate relationship, then beheading the man would indicate that you still care for her (if she is the issue behind your wanting the man beheaded) and would also mean she maintains a powerful hold on you. In a case of infidelity, it is better for you if you begin the healing process by wiping the the guilty party from your memory and the best way to do that is to maintain some level of emotional detachment. If a girl cheats on you, do not make matters worse by fighting over her killing the man you found her with. It only gives her the satisfaction of thinking that despite all she has done that you still love her. Acting like you really do not care what happened will shake her a little bit and then she will be the one trying to get your attention by begging. But, if you feel the need to send packing, please do so (I am hoping that would be your very likely option). Also, there is a Legal statute concerning punishment for murder in this country. No woman is worth you going to prison over.

to where 

To the bar to drink shout

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