i realy love him

Date: 28-03-2009 11:59 am (13 years ago) | Author: irene amadu
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- at 28-03-2009 11:59 AM (13 years ago)
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i have this friend whom i grew up with. we have been friends for a long time and went to the same university. after graduation we still remained friends and saw each other through different kinds of heartbreak. we fell inlove with each other along the line and have really been crazy about each other. the problem is that he is a muslim from a strong muslim home while am a catholic from a strong christain home. we really want to be with each other but we are scared of our family cos they would not see or listen to the voice of reason. am confused as this situation has afected my work and everyother aspect of my life. please can any pal tell me what to do.

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- diplomatik at 28-03-2009 01:29 PM (13 years ago)
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ummm...this is tough....brb

Posted: at 28-03-2009 01:29 PM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- Recoverd at 28-03-2009 03:35 PM (13 years ago)
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I dnt know y tins like dis shuld b any kind of trouble 4pple. Babe, u love d guy n he loves u abi? U realy want 2b wit each other..Does that min marry each oda? Wat is hs opinion abt u bin a christain? Wil he want u 2continue wit ur faith afta mariage or u hav 2convert 2 islam? Wat about d kids u both wil hav? Hav u both discusd wat faith they wuld b? Ans these ques 1st. BRB...
Posted: at 28-03-2009 03:35 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- Kennee at 28-03-2009 03:55 PM (13 years ago)
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Like l said at the Confessions section, yu two should become Pagans

Posted: at 28-03-2009 03:55 PM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- Kemp at 28-03-2009 03:58 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: Kennee on 28-03-2009 03:55 PM
Like l said at the Confessions section, yu two should become Pagans
hahahaha...bad advise

Posted: at 28-03-2009 03:58 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- Recoverd at 28-03-2009 05:09 PM (13 years ago)
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Ok, nw..If u dnt hav any problem wit ur kids bin muslims(dats wat hapns most times cept if ur man dosnt care abt wat faith d kids take after) n u also dnt mind bin muslim or xtain then both of u shld damn ur families n get marid. Ur families wil NEVER suport NEVER! HA! Ur staunch catholic n he is staunch muslim..Cept by som miracale, both parents wil never suport! So u hav 2do it with out their consent(doe thier blessings matas) bt u wil nt get it. BRB
Posted: at 28-03-2009 05:09 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- Kennee at 28-03-2009 05:30 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: Kemp on 28-03-2009 03:58 PM
Quote from: Kennee on 28-03-2009 03:55 PM
Like l said at the Confessions section, yu two should become Pagans
hahahaha...bad advise

Nope!! It's the Best

Posted: at 28-03-2009 05:30 PM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- Beauti4 at 28-03-2009 05:30 PM (13 years ago)
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u aint d ist to pull this on our tables...i saw this at the confession department...was tired. but i think ya should consider d fact that religion hve no obligation towards love...but u can always change d other party if only true love is willin to stand. did u want to go to his church...vice versa. but the prob now is ya parents huh? NOPe...ya can make y'all decision cos this is ya life not theirs. pray over it. n see where God is takin u to. GOodluk...
Posted: at 28-03-2009 05:30 PM (13 years ago) | Hero
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- Recoverd at 28-03-2009 06:25 PM (13 years ago)
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Girl it ur lives nt theirs, u r both nt getin marid to ur parents so som how their opinion dont mater...Its true dat our parents somtimes see wat we don c even wen we climb a lada n bt somtimes they r wrong. If u2 realy lov each oda n dnt care abt ur religion n ur sure hs a gud man, go to court n get marid if church or mosque wil nt join u. My wori if i wer in ur shoes nw wuld b if dis guy wil nt insist i turn muslim afta a while, hav sin it hapn n most times d end turns out ugly. Comit dis in GODS HAND.
Posted: at 28-03-2009 06:25 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- frem at 28-03-2009 11:00 PM (13 years ago)
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like i said, i b muschris ie mama - xtain, papa -muslim n we  r leaving happily everafter
u no think all dis one b4 u fall in luv?
Posted: at 28-03-2009 11:00 PM (13 years ago) | Newbie
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- Kennee at 28-03-2009 11:05 PM (13 years ago)
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Help me ask am

Posted: at 28-03-2009 11:05 PM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- akjasper at 28-03-2009 11:16 PM (13 years ago)
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Religion Shld nt be a barrier..wat matters is the love.....

So panic not 'Cos love hold you 2 gether.....or are

U gonna marry Ur family or Him marrying his too???
Posted: at 28-03-2009 11:16 PM (13 years ago) | Hero
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- ceejay58 at 28-03-2009 11:26 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: Kennee on 28-03-2009 03:55 PM
Like l said at the Confessions section, yu two should become Pagans


hahahaahaha evil in the making Grin
Posted: at 28-03-2009 11:26 PM (13 years ago) | Hero
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- frem at 28-03-2009 11:32 PM (13 years ago)
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wot God joined 2geda let no man put asunder i d name of religion u guys shld b bold n tell ur parents.
Posted: at 28-03-2009 11:32 PM (13 years ago) | Newbie
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- ceejay58 at 28-03-2009 11:51 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: ovayi84 on 28-03-2009 11:59 AM
i have this friend whom i grew up with. we have been friends for a long time and went to the same university. after graduation we still remained friends and saw each other through different kinds of heartbreak. we fell inlove with each other along the line and have really been crazy about each other. the problem is that he is a muslim from a strong muslim home while am a catholic from a strong christain home. we really want to be with each other but we are scared of our family cos they would not see or listen to the voice of reason. am confused as this situation has afected my work and everyother aspect of my life. please can any pal tell me what to do.

evryone here keep talking about love love love.  anyway i have no problem with u two loving each other but u must realise that smooth friends or courtship  are not always a true reflextion of what u ll see after marriage. having said that i 'll advice u dont let ur emotions control ur brians. and as per ur man, how do u rate him? is he the type that could buckle under some presures from his family or is he the type that would stand by u thru thick and thin? marriage is not what u rush into cos u cant rush out easily and sometimes it takes life. so pls be sure u re walking into it with ur two eyes widely open. gud-luck
Posted: at 28-03-2009 11:51 PM (13 years ago) | Hero
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- NURSE_ANN at 30-03-2009 12:43 PM (13 years ago)
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Good one here ceejay58 thanks for that.
Posted: at 30-03-2009 12:43 PM (13 years ago) | Newbie
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- onchedu at 30-03-2009 12:46 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: ovayi84 on 28-03-2009 11:59 AM
i have this friend whom i grew up with. we have been friends for a long time and went to the same university. after graduation we still remained friends and saw each other through different kinds of heartbreak. we fell inlove with each other along the line and have really been crazy about each other. the problem is that he is a muslim from a strong muslim home while am a catholic from a strong christain home. we really want to be with each other but we are scared of our family cos they would not see or listen to the voice of reason. am confused as this situation has afected my work and everyother aspect of my life. please can any pal tell me what to do.

U know what to do. even if its difficult U know what U need to do.
Posted: at 30-03-2009 12:46 PM (13 years ago) | Hero
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- SAmyrocko at 30-03-2009 12:55 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: ovayi84 on 28-03-2009 11:59 AM
i have this friend whom i grew up with. we have been friends for a long time and went to the same university. after graduation we still remained friends and saw each other through different kinds of heartbreak. we fell inlove with each other along the line and have really been crazy about each other. the problem is that he is a muslim from a strong muslim home while am a catholic from a strong christain home. we really want to be with each other but we are scared of our family cos they would not see or listen to the voice of reason. am confused as this situation has afected my work and everyother aspect of my life. please can any pal tell me what to do.



Well. this gonna be tough to tackle.

Posted: at 30-03-2009 12:55 PM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- mazi at 30-03-2009 12:59 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: ovayi84 on 28-03-2009 11:59 AM
i have this friend whom i grew up with. we have been friends for a long time and went to the same university. after graduation we still remained friends and saw each other through different kinds of heartbreak. we fell inlove with each other along the line and have really been crazy about each other. the problem is that he is a muslim from a strong muslim home while am a catholic from a strong christain home. we really want to be with each other but we are scared of our family cos they would not see or listen to the voice of reason. am confused as this situation has afected my work and everyother aspect of my life. please can any pal tell me what to do.
it's a real conflict btw two extremes....no disrespect intended here...
islam is an extreme religious practice....same wit catholic wit extreme traditional practice...
poster...even u....if he ask u to convert to islam will u obey...being d wife?
to be honest wit u poster....if u two r not ready to take a risk nd very extreme one....forget it...period!

Posted: at 30-03-2009 12:59 PM (13 years ago) | Hero
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- SAmyrocko at 30-03-2009 01:08 PM (13 years ago)
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thats it i guess!

Posted: at 30-03-2009 01:08 PM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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