hun that y u refuse to come and do the right thing kennee. on the othe hand poster i think u shld take thing easy, is not lik u ar a girl that u can run to marry when u ar 26, i do believ in doin the right thing and performin trad right is not an xception pls wait unless water don pass garri | Posted: at 7-04-2009 10:43 PM (15 years ago) | Upcoming | |
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![-]( "Vixenx") Vixenx at 7-04-2009 10:43 PM (15 years ago)  (f) :(I just don't know what to do about my problem. The problem I'm talking about is financial constraint. I just returned from my fiance parents and I was given list of what to bring for the traditional wedding before end of April. Those items are few and cheap but my main problem even when I work is money. I am indebted and my monthly pay is not enough. I'm confused and I don't want to be put into shame. My parents are old and poor and I am the one that care for them and my siblings. Please I need advice before I go nut.
What is the purpose of all those things they bring for marriage? | Posted: at 7-04-2009 10:43 PM (15 years ago) | Addicted Hero | |
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![-]( "Kennee") Kennee at 7-04-2009 10:46 PM (15 years ago) (m) :(I just don't know what to do about my problem. The problem I'm talking about is financial constraint. I just returned from my fiance parents and I was given list of what to bring for the traditional wedding before end of April. Those items are few and cheap but my main problem even when I work is money. I am indebted and my monthly pay is not enough. I'm confused and I don't want to be put into shame. My parents are old and poor and I am the one that care for them and my siblings. Please I need advice before I go nut.
My Philosophy: No Carry Load wey Heavy pass me... Yu shld adopt it adopter   Passing.............
WHEN YU DIE YU TAKE NOTHING WITH YU, SO PLS PUT A SMILE ON YUR NEIGHBOR'S FACE | Posted: at 7-04-2009 10:46 PM (15 years ago) | Addicted Hero | |
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![-]( "Kennee") Kennee at 7-04-2009 10:46 PM (15 years ago) (m) hun that y u refuse to come and do the right thing kennee. on the othe hand poster i think u shld take thing easy, is not lik u ar a girl that u can run to marry when u ar 26, i do believ in doin the right thing and performin trad right is not an xception pls wait unless water don pass garri
Yes ooo my Dear, l for don come Sinnnnnce
WHEN YU DIE YU TAKE NOTHING WITH YU, SO PLS PUT A SMILE ON YUR NEIGHBOR'S FACE | Posted: at 7-04-2009 10:46 PM (15 years ago) | Addicted Hero | |
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dnt worry d door is open | Posted: at 7-04-2009 10:53 PM (15 years ago) | Upcoming | |
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![-]( "Kennee") Kennee at 7-04-2009 10:58 PM (15 years ago) (m) Abeg Keep am Open ooo... l dey work Hard to Approach am 
WHEN YU DIE YU TAKE NOTHING WITH YU, SO PLS PUT A SMILE ON YUR NEIGHBOR'S FACE | Posted: at 7-04-2009 10:58 PM (15 years ago) | Addicted Hero | |
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:(I just don't know what to do about my problem. The problem I'm talking about is financial constraint. I just returned from my fiance parents and I was given list of what to bring for the traditional wedding before end of April. Those items are few and cheap but my main problem even when I work is money. I am indebted and my monthly pay is not enough. I'm confused and I don't want to be put into shame. My parents are old and poor and I am the one that care for them and my siblings. Please I need advice before I go nut.
Seems youre not ready - because after wedding you might need to do better than youre doing now
I will never fade and I will never blend....not here to be ur friend or enemy, i say what i ave to say & i'll be out as soon as i'm done, not hard to find & not here to keep i'm the beauty that you can never sight asleep!  | Posted: at 7-04-2009 11:34 PM (15 years ago) | Hero | |
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![-]( "Beauti4") Beauti4 at 8-04-2009 01:15 AM (15 years ago) (f) u were showin off huh...  y did u go n ask her hand in marriage without gettin things together? or cant your wife to b help out....well i think u should borrow or stop de proposal untill u r ready. your temptation is too much dear. pray over it ok. n b careful cos maybe God is tryna tell u something... | Posted: at 8-04-2009 01:15 AM (15 years ago) | Hero | |
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![-]( "kwasanjem") kwasanjem at 8-04-2009 08:00 AM (15 years ago) (m) you have just recieve the list and not the presure, so they can still wait untill you are able to put yourself together, there is no hurry in life remember, you are marrying your wife not her parents, both of you can put your head together and cut things according to your pocket, take care | Posted: at 8-04-2009 08:00 AM (15 years ago) | Newbie | |
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![-]( "SAmyrocko") SAmyrocko at 8-04-2009 08:43 AM (15 years ago) (m) dnt worry d door is open
So You Dey always Open ur door to strengers?
Life is one big road with lots of signs, so when you are riding through th | Posted: at 8-04-2009 08:43 AM (15 years ago) | Addicted Hero | |
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bros u rugged ooo! u wan marry for credit use ocho free born pickin i bow for u ooooo | Posted: at 8-04-2009 09:15 AM (15 years ago) | Newbie | |
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Lool Dear, You really have a long way but very simple one if you'll ask me. Are you very close to your girls family, or just a brother - law? If yes then you have a big stone to break. If you like a son to the family, call your wife to be, sit her down and have a word with her - like a glue thing. Make sure you finalize issues with her such that you'll both sing the same tune, when that is achived, If marriage is what you think is the ultimate now, then establish a good relationship with your family and in-laws, walk in there and tell them your situation, I've seen people after giving birth blow the trumpet loud. I've also seen people perform their traditional marriage after 1 or 2 issues, so what are you waiting for................... | Posted: at 8-04-2009 10:00 AM (15 years ago) | Upcoming | |
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![-]( "cynto") cynto at 8-04-2009 02:45 PM (15 years ago) (f) hi wazup i saw ur complian it is a gud and wounderful thing to get married to the one u luv but my dear that is not where it ends hope u kn dat, it is one thing to get married and it is another thing to be able to take care of your wife. going to get money else where will not help u cos after the traditional wedding dat is whn the main responsiblities will now start den u being to care for 2 nd nt 1 again nd whn kids statr coming u will hv more mouth to feed tell me will you keep collecting from others. think wise my bro nd do the rite tin hold on 4 nw get a better nd i pray dat the Gud lord will help u. if she is urs she will hold on 4 u gud luck. | Posted: at 8-04-2009 02:45 PM (15 years ago) | Newbie | |
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![-]( "diplomatik") diplomatik at 8-04-2009 03:25 PM (15 years ago) (f) passing....sorry poster
u've seen me right? i look kool right? ???but don't send me mails asking for my add or phone no. and don't give it to me either  , i'll ask u if i want it ..ok...kool | Posted: at 8-04-2009 03:25 PM (15 years ago) | Addicted Hero | |
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![-]( "Floxyben") Floxyben at 8-04-2009 03:39 PM (15 years ago) (f) First as mature man u ar suppose to know that marriage is nt garri, that u just pack and eat, u hv to prepare urself, before think of marriage. According to the poster, if u dont have money for the traditional wedding, u can pay her bride price first till u can get the money for the other things. Again u also do court wedding. This days people don't waste their money for White wedding, becuase at the end of the ceremony u will be looking 4 want to eat. Pls both of u should come together. God is ur strength. don't get nut Okie. | Posted: at 8-04-2009 03:39 PM (15 years ago) | Newbie | |
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![-]( "Sheenor") Sheenor at 9-04-2009 02:26 AM (15 years ago) (m) Men i don't no what to say but trust God sha no one know unsuprise thing God can do.
I hav jst 3 things to teach: simplicity, patience, compassion. These three are yourgreatest treasure | Posted: at 9-04-2009 02:26 AM (15 years ago) | Hero | |
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![-]( "Percific") Percific at 9-04-2009 05:11 PM (15 years ago) (m) Ha ha ha...........................Married not 4 small boy oh......................... U begin 4 cry 2 soon o. 4 better 4 worst till death do ur in financial crisis. na wah oooooooooooooooooo | Posted: at 9-04-2009 05:11 PM (15 years ago) | Upcoming | |
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![-]( "SAmyrocko") SAmyrocko at 9-04-2009 05:14 PM (15 years ago) (m) Passing...........
Life is one big road with lots of signs, so when you are riding through th | Posted: at 9-04-2009 05:14 PM (15 years ago) | Addicted Hero | |
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![-]( "diplomatik") diplomatik at 9-04-2009 05:15 PM (15 years ago) (f) Passing........... [/quote make i follow u .....
u've seen me right? i look kool right? ???but don't send me mails asking for my add or phone no. and don't give it to me either , i'll ask u if i want it ..ok...kool | Posted: at 9-04-2009 05:15 PM (15 years ago) | Addicted Hero | |
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<a href=" http://tinypic.com" target="_blank"><img src=" http://i41.tinypic.com/2ezmli0.jpg" border="0" alt="Image and video hosting by TinyPic">[/url]STILL A CERTIFIED V-SQUADER!! Take it or leave it!  A wise man told me don't argue with fools,Cause people from a distance, can't see who is who | Posted: at 9-04-2009 05:16 PM (15 years ago) | Hero | |
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