i cant luv again... it makes me cry each tym i remember ma ex..

Date: 02-08-2012 1:17 pm (11 years ago) | Author: Angelnoni
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- at 2-08-2012 01:17 PM (11 years ago)
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I cant luv a guy because of my ex-boyfriend.... can u imagine! I saw my ex with a friend of mine coming out 4rm a close 2 his work.... it hurt me so much, dat i put my hand in my pocket and bring out ma fone nd dial his number... wen he picked his call then i ask him where are u? Did u knw he said?  hmmmm he said it over between both of us gal.... Then i said is this how love is? pls tell me, it makes me tink alot......


Posted: at 2-08-2012 01:17 PM (11 years ago) | Newbie
- divineproject at 2-08-2012 01:37 PM (11 years ago)
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Sowie baby...........you arent alone, a lot of people get to deal with heart break every now and then..........the hurt will go away, you just need time......

Posted: at 2-08-2012 01:37 PM (11 years ago) | Hero
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- destinedme at 2-08-2012 01:54 PM (11 years ago)
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Sorry ohh.. but am available if you are free.  lol Tongue Tongue Tongue Tongue
Posted: at 2-08-2012 01:54 PM (11 years ago) | Newbie
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- Angelnoni1 at 2-08-2012 01:56 PM (11 years ago)
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Buh u knw is very hard..
Posted: at 2-08-2012 01:56 PM (11 years ago) | Newbie
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- Angelnoni1 at 2-08-2012 01:57 PM (11 years ago)
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guy u wont understand
Posted: at 2-08-2012 01:57 PM (11 years ago) | Newbie
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- omoehifavour at 2-08-2012 02:04 PM (11 years ago)
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Babe u don't need to kill ur self ova a guy who is having fun with anoda gurl just pray u meet d rite person at d rite time
Posted: at 2-08-2012 02:04 PM (11 years ago) | Newbie
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- bittersweet at 2-08-2012 02:13 PM (11 years ago)
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Don't waste not even one minute again thinking about him!Time it's too precious to waste it on the wrong ppl!
Take it as a bad experience ,learn from it,and be more careful in the future about what kind of ppl u let to enter
in your life!
For now,have patience ,focus on other things...time will heal this wound !

Posted: at 2-08-2012 02:13 PM (11 years ago) | Hero
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- divineproject at 2-08-2012 02:53 PM (11 years ago)
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Quote from: Angelnoni1 on  2-08-2012 01:56 PM
Buh u knw is very hard..


It is not harder that you.......or is it?........you arent the 1st person to go through this and you wont be the last.........so pick up yourself and move ahead..........remember, apart from God, you are the best lover of yourself.........no one apart from God can love you better than you love urself......

Posted: at 2-08-2012 02:53 PM (11 years ago) | Hero
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- dirtykid at 2-08-2012 03:36 PM (11 years ago)
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Ive said it many times here,, No long thing.. that feeling u feel that u felt for someone is all bullcrap

Posted: at 2-08-2012 03:36 PM (11 years ago) | Hero
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- verah at 2-08-2012 04:20 PM (11 years ago)
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do u nid a town crier to tell u dguy dosent care if u r hurt or not? as fr d guy am sure he will b immature cos thatz d wrongest way to end a relationship  Lips Sealed Lips Sealed

Posted: at 2-08-2012 04:20 PM (11 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- julee2 at 2-08-2012 04:29 PM (11 years ago)
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Eyaaaa sorry for that. Free your mind and forget abt him
Posted: at 2-08-2012 04:29 PM (11 years ago) | Upcoming
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- mickky21 at 2-08-2012 04:31 PM (11 years ago)
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Sorry sweetie, Don't think about it..........go ahead with ur life......U will get a good man by His grace..........
Posted: at 2-08-2012 04:31 PM (11 years ago) | Upcoming
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- mickky21 at 2-08-2012 04:32 PM (11 years ago)
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Quote from: Angelnoni1 on  2-08-2012 01:57 PM
guy u wont understand

can I have ur frnds no.? I mean the gurl, not the ex.
Posted: at 2-08-2012 04:32 PM (11 years ago) | Upcoming
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- aso4life1 at 2-08-2012 04:48 PM (11 years ago)
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My sister take heart...you can hook up with a guy on NP, I have a list of them I can prescribe for you.

Posted: at 2-08-2012 04:48 PM (11 years ago) | Hero
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- fidelzon at 2-08-2012 04:55 PM (11 years ago)
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The Key to Getting Past Your Breakup

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Finally, make sure your ex isn’t part of this “Break Over” support system. Often it can be alluring to put him in the “friend” category prematurely because he “knows you better than anyone else.”  Avoid the temptation and create as much distance as possible.

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Just remember, although it seems like you might never get over a painful breakup, you can and you will. The Dating with Dignity “Break Over” 4-Step Program is a  great place to start taking care of yourself, and getting over your painful breakup can start today.
Posted: at 2-08-2012 04:55 PM (11 years ago) | Newbie
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- verah at 2-08-2012 05:00 PM (11 years ago)
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Quote from: aso4life1 on  2-08-2012 04:48 PM
My sister take heart...you can hook up with a guy on NP, I have a list of them I can prescribe for you.
Cheesy Cheesy Cheesy Cheesy Cheesy ara e oya...

Posted: at 2-08-2012 05:00 PM (11 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- sammie79 at 2-08-2012 05:02 PM (11 years ago)
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I don't understand why you are crying,you should know not all love that last forever,or was it because you saw him with your friend.Some gals are just bitches,get over it.it was fun while it last,time to move on.kk
Posted: at 2-08-2012 05:02 PM (11 years ago) | Newbie
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- VICKSONTIMOTHY at 2-08-2012 05:08 PM (11 years ago)
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Babe if Ur ready, No one but you in my life
Posted: at 2-08-2012 05:08 PM (11 years ago) | Newbie
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- jossy4reall at 2-08-2012 05:13 PM (11 years ago)
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so sad...........but are u sure dat its not wat u must have done to him was the cause why he behave in dat manner??

Posted: at 2-08-2012 05:13 PM (11 years ago) | Hero
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- jessymic at 2-08-2012 05:16 PM (11 years ago)
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Eyaa take heart o. sowi God will help you get a better person that will cherish you.
Posted: at 2-08-2012 05:16 PM (11 years ago) | Upcoming
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