In other words does a virgin have 2 loose her virginity on her wedding night?I know some of u guys will be thinking dis is about sex b4 marriage NO IT'S NOT this is about a virgin on her wedding night after getting married does she need 2 sleep with her husband on d night?what if she is still not ready?u may say if she is not ready when will she be ready if ur a virgin and ur not ready 2 loose ur virginity does it mean ur not ready 4 marriage?i guess if ur ready 2 marry some1 u should be ready 2 be submissive 2 them and give them ur heart body and soul but isn't love patient?is everything got 2 be about sex?why do people get married?i heard once someone say they want 2get married so that they can have sex anytime or place where there wanted why do some married couples just have sex when they want 2 make babies? Why is it dat some people don't like sex?is an orgasm really important when having sex?do u really have 2 give ur whole body 2 ur husband?have sex wid him whenever or however he wants?doesn't ur feelings or morals count?does dis saying "your body is a temple of god"not go 4 man & woman why is it dat all d pressure is put on woman(mostly).....when they say sex after marriage is it just talking 2 women?let's stop and think fornication is not a good thing at all and u know dat we need 2 check ourselves & our actions yes i know we are all human so everyone sins but some sins u can prevent with the spirit of god in u men pay attention 2 us woman's feeling and stop being greedy and just thinking about urself 4get all dat d man is the head d house and u must devote urself 2 him 4get ur ego ignore wat friends say and be who u truelly are women don't allow urself be d victim stand up 4 ur right and don't be 2 easily led u r a woman an be proud of it "YES WE CAN" like obama said we can make all we need 2 do is take dat step and have faith in yourself.
I will never fade and I will never blend....not here to be ur friend or enemy, i say what i ave to say & i'll be out as soon as i'm done, not hard to find & not here to keep i'm the beauty that you can never sight asleep!
Posted: at 10-04-2009 11:40 PM (15 years ago) | Hero
Hello dear,You have asked the Question that i myself can't seem to understand.
I think a girl musnt loose her virginity on her wedding nite if she is not ready to and her feelings and emotions coount,A man who does resspect them isnt worth marrying. Some people dont like to talk about sex or hear it becos they grew to see it as a dirty act which end up affecting their relationships and some pretend.
Posted: at 13-04-2009 10:35 AM (15 years ago) | Upcoming
majoyeogbe at 13-04-2009 12:57 PM (15 years ago) (f)
We're all talking about girls here! What about guys?! I'll bet this "virginity" until marriage thing was their idea. AND THAT'S BECAUSE WE CAN'T TELL IF GUYS ARE VIRGINS OR NOT! (Even though that sounds quite impossible). I think it's unfair to the ladies, not having sex until marriage and then getting married to a guy who has slept with over 20 -30 different ladies. What do you think?
Posted: at 13-04-2009 12:57 PM (15 years ago) | Newbie
poster,u ave asked so many questions dat i dont even knw which to answer first.....but about married couples aving sex,i think sex is to be enjoyed by both and they can ave it anyhow they want it,i sincerely dont think God is against dat,but wen u talk about virgins,its quite good to be a virgin till ure married n its not really necessary to ave sex on ur wedding nite...i mean why d hurry since ure married u can do it anytime u feel like.
Posted: at 14-04-2009 10:45 AM (15 years ago) | Gistmaniac
u hardly see virgins nawadays, and any body that is a virgin till the eve of her wedding will remain a virgin till after wedding. the eve that everwhere will be cruded and busy?, a virgin is a virgin always, n kudos to those faithful babes cos it didnt easy at all
Posted: at 14-04-2009 11:09 AM (15 years ago) | Gistmaniac
PreetyInstinct at 14-04-2009 11:13 AM (15 years ago) (f)
Quote from: bilol on 14-04-2009 10:45 AM
poster,u ave asked so many questions dat i dont even knw which to answer first.....but about married couples aving sex,i think sex is to be enjoyed by both and they can ave it anyhow they want it,i sincerely dont think God is against dat,but wen u talk about virgins,its quite good to be a virgin till ure married n its not really necessary to ave sex on ur wedding nite...i mean why d hurry since ure married u can do it anytime u feel like.
Adupe lowo yin oooo eshe goni teh contribute
I will never fade and I will never blend....not here to be ur friend or enemy, i say what i ave to say & i'll be out as soon as i'm done, not hard to find & not here to keep i'm the beauty that you can never sight asleep!
Posted: at 14-04-2009 11:13 AM (15 years ago) | Hero
nellyhot at 14-04-2009 01:58 PM (15 years ago) (m)
To start with, God is not a prude. Sex was meant to be enjoyed by both sexes. The two persons involved must be ready before they have sex.Otherwise,its rape.Most singles and couples and even myself have been victims of rape,but our lawless society has not given them opportunity to seek redress in a lawcourt. Sometimes, we are pardon by those we offend because of the relationship we want to keep. A virgin having sex before or after marriage or not at all is an individual choice(A reverend sister, wont have it at all, if she was virgin before she became one).For me, i have tasted sex,and i know it's sweet,but i also know that when it's not done rightly or when done with the wrong person,it may bring some ugly consequences.
Posted: at 14-04-2009 01:58 PM (15 years ago) | Newbie
PreetyInstinct at 14-04-2009 02:58 PM (15 years ago) (f)
Quote from: rbest on 14-04-2009 02:33 PM
u say u don text am? how the thing dey
I will never fade and I will never blend....not here to be ur friend or enemy, i say what i ave to say & i'll be out as soon as i'm done, not hard to find & not here to keep i'm the beauty that you can never sight asleep!
Posted: at 14-04-2009 02:58 PM (15 years ago) | Hero
dont agree most men aint virgins so why should a woman who is virgin have to wait till marriage night to loose it to a man who is not even a virgin hes only going to see her as oh well one the gurls hes disvirgined or had sex with excpt took longer for him to be able to have sex with her n once dat night is gone you are non virgin n so whats the worth?? even other gyals out there who are still virgins can be disvirgined any time possibly by your so called husband and aint no big deal to complain cause you no longer one dem??
Posted: at 17-04-2009 11:24 AM (15 years ago) | Upcoming
Its not neccessary bo. What if after all the activities for the day and the party and what-a-view the said husband who is supposed to pup what do you call it falls asleep due to tiredness unko. So what happens now. It must wait till the next day now. Abi if i noo happen, world go finish that night? In fact i recommend family planning so that the honeymoon will be long before they finally put to bed, say like two years of total enjoyment. So why the hurry?
Posted: at 20-04-2009 06:48 PM (15 years ago) | Newbie
poster,u ave asked so many questions dat i dont even knw which to answer first.....but about married couples aving sex,i think sex is to be enjoyed by both and they can ave it anyhow they want it,i sincerely dont think God is against dat,but wen u talk about virgins,its quite good to be a virgin till ure married n its not really necessary to ave sex on ur wedding nite...i mean why d hurry since ure married u can do it anytime u feel like.
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Posted: at 21-04-2009 01:26 PM (15 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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