I'm at a loss as to how things happen so fast these days. I had a crazy sex on cool night with a young man for just about ten minutes and the next thing I see myself pregnant. How can this happen to me? Why should I find myself in such a shameful situation? Am I the first women to have sex with a young boy?
The thing that bothers me most is this sex machine (he's very good) is my daughter's boyfriend. Right now I wish to have him all to myself. But how am going to handle my daughter is the problem. She claims they are in love with with each other but her lover couldn't say no when I ask him to sleep with me. It was as if he wanted me more than I wanted him.
My daughter is just 21 and my age is double of hers cos I was almost 21 when I gave birth to her. Her father is gone and the responsibility of taking care of her was all mine. I gave her a good life as much as my income could carry and she's ok.
My headache is this pregnancy. Her boyfriend didn't know am pregnant for him and my daughter has no idea we are seeing each other. The only man in my life right now is married with wife and three kids.
I know I've made mistakes but I've read other people's stories on naijapals and I felt I could get some help here that's why am asking for help.
What is the best option for me cos abortion is not an option? Should I take this sweet boy from my daughter and ask her to let go since am her mother? Afterall she can get another young guy to date. Or I should give the pregnancy to the married man am dating?
But I don't think I want to leave this sweet boy for my small girl.
Posted: at 13-08-2012 02:21 PM (11 years ago) | Gistmaniac
dlimelite at 13-08-2012 02:50 PM (11 years ago) (f)
The truth will eventually come out, so don't try and do anything foolish or cover it with lies. It only makes the matter much worser. One day the child will grow up and wanna know who her/hus dad is too anyway. Tell your daughter what happened, even if you want to adopt, tell her cuz the sooner the better. Her boyfriend seems to be a douchebag anyway to sleep with her mom. Every action has it's consequences so you'll have to deal with it, life will eventually go on
Posted: at 13-08-2012 02:50 PM (11 years ago) | Hero
wireless_radio at 13-08-2012 03:49 PM (11 years ago) (m)
Quote from: dlimelite on 13-08-2012 02:50 PM
The truth will eventually come out, so don't try and do anything foolish or cover it with lies. It only makes the matter much worser. One day the child will grow up and wanna know who her/hus dad is too anyway. Tell your daughter what happened, even if you want to adopt, tell her cuz the sooner the better. Her boyfriend seems to be a douchebag anyway to sleep with her mom. Every action has it's consequences so you'll have to deal with it, life will eventually go on
true talk, but won't it destroy mother-daughter relationship???
Posted: at 13-08-2012 03:49 PM (11 years ago) | Gistmaniac
Desparate mother i will call you. With the way you are going, u may likely murder ur dota in order to have her bf. Very sad. Ur a disgrace to womanhood. The truth must be told no matter how hard it is. No advice from me to you, but all i can say is repent now or the disgrace u will face later will be too much for u to bear.
Posted: at 13-08-2012 04:53 PM (11 years ago) | Hero
dlimelite at 13-08-2012 05:08 PM (11 years ago) (f)
Quote from: wireless_radio on 13-08-2012 03:49 PM
true talk, but won't it destroy mother-daughter relationship???
The mother shoulda thought of that before she made such a stupid decision. Now it all comes down to telling the truth and moving forward to work on the relationship even if it takes counseling. Lying or hiding it will only make matters worse. Truth always comes out
Posted: at 13-08-2012 05:08 PM (11 years ago) | Hero
osarobo62 at 13-08-2012 05:23 PM (11 years ago) (m)
There is no problem here. wetin your pikin get, na you getam. just tell her that you senior to her , so therefore you choose first. you will win THE MOTHER OF THE YEAR award.
Posted: at 13-08-2012 05:23 PM (11 years ago) | Hero
You are truly shameless.You have everything to lose and nothing to gain.Go ahead and tell your daughter the sluth that is her mother and the dog that is her boy friend.
Posted: at 13-08-2012 06:17 PM (11 years ago) | Gistmaniac
Slimchery at 13-08-2012 06:31 PM (11 years ago) (m)
If you cannot abort it then you have to commit suicide, that is my advice for you, because i will not encourage you to break the heart of a young girl, who want her dream also to come true with that same boy, i will advice abortion and back out totally, i mean Totally .
Posted: at 13-08-2012 06:31 PM (11 years ago) | Gistmaniac
Slimchery at 13-08-2012 06:37 PM (11 years ago) (m)
Quote from: Idbabe on 13-08-2012 04:53 PM
Desparate mother i will call you. With the way you are going, u may likely murder ur dota in order to have her bf. Very sad. Ur a disgrace to womanhood. The truth must be told no matter how hard it is. No advice from me to you, but all i can say is repent now or the disgrace u will face later will be too much for u to bear.
well said my dear, let her know before it is too late, stitches on time save 9, a word is enough for the wise
Posted: at 13-08-2012 06:37 PM (11 years ago) | Gistmaniac
crusifixo at 13-08-2012 07:24 PM (11 years ago) (m)
meeeeeen....i duno what to say,first of all take care of your self and the child,tell the guy know what he would say or want.....before telling your daughter....i going to be messy initially but in time every thing wud calm down...........
Posted: at 13-08-2012 07:24 PM (11 years ago) | Gistmaniac
orjiwolo at 13-08-2012 07:50 PM (11 years ago) (m)
first and foremost "I had a crazy sex on cool night with a young man for just about ten minutes" why have a one night stand without a condom? secondly you didnt mention the boys age.
Posted: at 13-08-2012 07:50 PM (11 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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