Ladies: Ten Ways To Become The Best Girlfriend

Published On: September 20, 2012, 1:56 pm
Author: psalmmy
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1. Treat Your Promises Seriously

When you consistently keep your promises, you justify your boyfriend that you are a trustworthy girl. You demonstrate to him that you never go back on your words and do what you say you are going to do.



2. Never Act Like You Think You Are Better Than Him

Nobody likes to be disrespected. So, never act like you suppose you are better than him. Never criticize, excoriate, or disregard your boyfriend. Destructive criticism incessantly belittles his self-worth.

3. Be Solution-Oriented

If you want to be a good girlfriend then you have to become an efficient problem solver.

“Average Girlfriend is a Complainer; Good Girlfriend is a Problem-Solver.”

Have you ever perceived why some humans are greatly popular among their friends? It is only because they have talent to resolve problems proficiently. They go the extra mile to resolve problems, and to assist others resolve their problems. They are like the ‘God Father’ of their friends. They have solution-oriented thinking; that’s why they are, on every occasion, surrounded by people.

That’s why, for being the best girlfriend, it’s very essential to become a solution-oriented girl.

4. Refer Him Professionally

Do you want to be seen as the best girlfriend? Then, refer your boyfriend professionally. He will, day after day, appreciate the help. This kind and cooperative act will make you immensely valuable for him.

Don’t be a selfish girlfriend during his rough times. Under no circumstances explain your unemployed boyfriend why you are doing a brilliant job. Never compare yourself with him. Instead, behave professionally and provide good opportunities for him.

5. The Relationship is All About Fun, Adventure and Emotions

The relationship isn’t a big thing; it’s a million little things. It’s all about fun, adventure, laughter and emotions. Researchers found that when you produce happy emotions in your relationship, you create a positive psychological impact on your lover. Your lover becomes addicted to you.

You have to become an asset in your boyfriend’s life. You must make him laugh. Sharing a laugh can boost gladness and heighten the bonds of relationship.



6. Never Complain All the Time

Most of us complain all day day-to-day. We accuse people and circumstances for just about everything. It has become a human style to complain about everything. According to a research, the normal individual complains between 10 and 25 times per day.

By complaining, we make ourselves a victim and no one wants to pamper a victim day long. As a matter of fact, complaining is categorically an external expression of internal letdown. No one wants to listen to your complaints, apart from maybe the incurably distressed person. That’s why complainers, in all probability, find themselves hanging out with other complainers.

So, fix your problems and always look at the bright side. Be a tough woman, because it’s your job too to improve things.

7. Getting Ignored is the Kiss of Death

When you ignore people, they feel unhealthy. It is because people obtain their self-respect from the approval of others. In other words, getting ignored is the kiss of death for people.

If you want to be the super best girlfriend, then give him lavish attention. Spend time together, share laughs, become a part of a club with him, or make a sport team etc. Spending time with your boyfriend should always be thrilling.

Pay special attention to him and spend prime time with him. The more we share our prime time with our soul mate, the happier we are.

8. Build an Awesome Team

Build an awesome team of friends and lead them. It’s one of the superior traits of a good girlfriend. In a team-oriented domain, you consistently have more fun, and you laugh more frequently. When people work side by side in a team, they are likely to form bonds between each other; they think strategically, and they get a sense of understanding.

When you build an awesome team of friends, you become more sociable and irresistible; you become extremely attractive for your boyfriend.



9. Disclose something Valuable to Deepen the Relationship

Deepening your relationship with your boyfriend is not easy. For being a good girlfriend, you must need to disclose something valuable or personal to deepen the relationship. When you disclose/share something valuable, you build trust; you fortify relationship with him, and you become his soul mate.

There are plenty of things you can do to fortify the relationship with your boyfriend. For example,

Try new things together.
Know what is going on in his lives.
Invite him for lunch, movie, or sporting event.
Talk about your goals and successes.
Celebrate the achievements.
Or, show up to events.

10. Be an Elite Girl

In order to become a great girlfriend, be an elite girl. An elite girl is someone that people consistently want to follow. She is a creative leader and a very valuable friend/person. She is intelligent, she is passionate, and she has a great sense of humor. She knows very well how to energize others. That’s why, she radiates immense confidence.


-- sophiebaby (f) at 20-09-2012 02:07PM
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We need To be Best wives to our husbands

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-- jessymic (f) at 20-09-2012 02:09PM
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advise from all angles, well noted anyway
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-- maryclaret (f) at 20-09-2012 02:16PM
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I see...

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-- winace (f) at 20-09-2012 02:34PM
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-- Aquarium (m) at 20-09-2012 02:44PM
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Na wa o. The advice don dey plenty pass the problems nowadays. Good job though. Thats a good one.

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-- Solidstonez (f) at 20-09-2012 02:52PM
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Quote from: sophiebaby on 20-09-2012 02:07PM
We need To be Best wives to our husbands
Kiss Kiss Kiss Kiss Kiss

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-- HOPEA23 (f) at 20-09-2012 03:07PM
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And they need to be best husbands too..hisss..why is everything about women...?

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-- Califg (m) at 20-09-2012 03:29PM
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-- dickman2 (m) at 20-09-2012 04:15PM
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Quote from: ajanni on 20-09-2012 04:10PM
Noted
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-- sophiebaby (f) at 20-09-2012 04:20PM
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 Grin Grin Grin

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-- chicco77 (f) at 20-09-2012 04:55PM
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NICE ONE
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-- Neglito (m) at 20-09-2012 04:58PM
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Quote from: sophiebaby on 20-09-2012 02:07PM
We need To be Best wives to our husbands

Correct!,
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-- crusifixo (m) at 20-09-2012 04:59PM
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Quote from: HOPEA23 on 20-09-2012 03:07PM
And they need to be best husbands too..hisss..why is everything about women...?

babe..it a man's world,do you have a problem with that............. Angry Angry Angry Angry Angry Angry Angry Angry Angry
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-- crusifixo (m) at 20-09-2012 05:01PM
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Quote from: sophiebaby on 20-09-2012 02:07PM
We need To be Best wives to our husbands

 Cheesy Cheesy Cheesy Cheesy at last am going to be the husband.....
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-- crusifixo (m) at 20-09-2012 05:03PM
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Quote from: ajanni on 20-09-2012 04:10PM
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every where you see relationship post,you go just show up with your uncircumcised dick...... Angry Angry Angry Angry Angry
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-- candela (m) at 20-09-2012 08:23PM
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No be today they begin hear am,  to do am na im be problem 
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-- tollitiano (m) at 20-09-2012 09:04PM
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Seriously? why do u have to talk about ladies all the time when u have not once talked about how men should not be sexist and to treat women right not a second-class citizen? Im saying this with all possible intention, this is getting old and cold find something new and hot for us to read. cheers
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-- tollitiano (m) at 20-09-2012 09:11PM
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Seriously? why do u have to talk about ladies all the time when u have not once talked about how men should not be sexist and to treat women right not a second-class citizen? Im saying this with good intention, this is getting old and cold find something new and hot for us to read. cheers
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-- denmal (m) at 20-09-2012 09:33PM
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Ok
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