End That relationship? Reasons Why You Should Put an End To It

Date: 28-09-2012 12:01 pm (12 years ago) | Author: uduak Sophia Monday
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- at 28-09-2012 12:01 PM (12 years ago)
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I have come to realize (after various attempts) that having a relationship is hard work and requires patience. Every relationship has its ups and down. There is a thin line between staying in a relationship to work things out and being stupid. Here are some reasons I believe you should put an end to a relationship that's not working out well. I decided not to be biased towards any sex(male or Female) during the writing of this post.



1. No Privacy
Your partner monitors messages and e-mails, whenever you receive phone calls (s)he is always trying to know who you were talking to. You literally have to lock yourself up in the toilet to pick up calls. End that relationship!!! Before you know it (s)he will ask you to put your phone on speaker and starts deleting messages and e-mails (s)he feels are not important. Find someone who is loving and caring not a control freak.

2. Interference With Other Relationships
When your partner hangs out with their friends it is ok, but when you decide to hang out your friends it becomes a big deal. (S)he throws tantrums like a child and blackmails you emotionally. When you wave aside the blackmails and hang out with your friends, when you come back, there is some sort of “punishment” for leaving him/her alone. End that relationship!!! It starts that way and before you know it (s)he wants you to place them before your family. Find someone who enjoys being with most of the people you care about. If not, your relationship will be full of frustration.

3. Your Personal Life Is No Longer Personal
You are out with your friends and your partner suddenly blurts out ” (s)he cries when (s)he has an orgasm” and when you try to call him/her on it he/she simply tells you it was just to make the conversation amusing and you are too sensitive.
Whether you’re humiliated or not, as long as he/she thinks your personal life would make conversations amusing, end that relationship!! Find someone who wants you to be happy and confident about yourself and your life.

4. Cannot Let Go Of The Past
We have all experienced disappointment in life, but we try as much as possible to get over it and move on with our lives. Even in relationships we have to let go of those who have hurt us.
If your partner keeps on talking about his/her ex, takes you to places the ex took him/her to, hoping to run into the ex, or (s)he sometimes calls you the ex’s name, end that relationship!!!! You do not want to be with someone who is thinking of someone else half the time (s)he is with you. Find someone who is ready to have a relationship with you rather than someone trying to use to get to his/her ex.

5. Abuse
No one deserves to be abused. Whether it is physical,mental or emotional, (s)he has no reason to subject you to that. When in love it is very easy to justify and explain your partner’s behaviour but you deserve better treatment from him/her if (s)he wants to be with you. End that relationship. Find someone who knows your worth and respects you.

You are probably nodding your head as you are going through one or more of the above. If so, maybe it is time for you to make a change. I would never try to break a relationship, but if this post has made you take a long look at your relationship, then were you really happy to begin with??  Cool

Adios!!!


Posted: at 28-09-2012 12:01 PM (12 years ago) | Addicted Hero
- winace at 28-09-2012 12:27 PM (12 years ago)
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True talk
Posted: at 28-09-2012 12:27 PM (12 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- HOPEA23 at 28-09-2012 12:45 PM (12 years ago)
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Yep..agree with you in this..

Posted: at 28-09-2012 12:45 PM (12 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- sophiebaby at 28-09-2012 12:57 PM (12 years ago)
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Quote from: winace on 28-09-2012 12:27 PM
True talk

 Cheesy Cheesy

Posted: at 28-09-2012 12:57 PM (12 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- sophiebaby at 28-09-2012 12:58 PM (12 years ago)
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Quote from: HOPEA23 on 28-09-2012 12:45 PM
Yep..agree with you in this..

 Grin Grin Grin thanks amebo

Posted: at 28-09-2012 12:58 PM (12 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- HOPEA23 at 28-09-2012 01:49 PM (12 years ago)
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Quote from: sophiebaby on 28-09-2012 12:58 PM
Grin Grin Grin thanks amebo
Waka Tongue Cheesy

Posted: at 28-09-2012 01:49 PM (12 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- micc at 28-09-2012 02:24 PM (12 years ago)
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I don hear
Posted: at 28-09-2012 02:24 PM (12 years ago) | Hero
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- zoe61 at 28-09-2012 02:54 PM (12 years ago)
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nice piece
Posted: at 28-09-2012 02:54 PM (12 years ago) | Hero
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- sophiebaby at 28-09-2012 02:59 PM (12 years ago)
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Quote from: zoe61 on 28-09-2012 02:54 PM
nice piece

thanks  Kiss

Posted: at 28-09-2012 02:59 PM (12 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- koyes at 28-09-2012 03:20 PM (12 years ago)
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Dis is one of d best posts I've eva read on 9japals. 9ice one poster. Many pple out dere deceiving demselves dat dey r in a  rlatnshp not knwing dey are in prison or close to deir graveyard. Follow ur heart bt take ur brain wit u ooooooo.
Posted: at 28-09-2012 03:20 PM (12 years ago) | Upcoming
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- sophiebaby at 28-09-2012 03:25 PM (12 years ago)
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Quote from: koyes on 28-09-2012 03:20 PM
Dis is one of d best posts I've eva read on 9japals. 9ice one poster. Many pple out dere deceiving demselves dat dey r in a  rlatnshp not knwing dey are in prison or close to deir graveyard. Follow ur heart bt take ur brain wit u ooooooo.

 Cheesy Cool Kiss

Posted: at 28-09-2012 03:25 PM (12 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- Senegal at 28-09-2012 03:43 PM (12 years ago)
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You are right
Posted: at 28-09-2012 03:43 PM (12 years ago) | Hero
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- sophiebaby at 28-09-2012 04:41 PM (12 years ago)
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 Cheesy Cheesy

Posted: at 28-09-2012 04:41 PM (12 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- IS2COOL at 28-09-2012 05:08 PM (12 years ago)
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kip it up
Posted: at 28-09-2012 05:08 PM (12 years ago) | Newbie
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- sophiebaby at 28-09-2012 05:11 PM (12 years ago)
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 Cheesy Cheesy

Posted: at 28-09-2012 05:11 PM (12 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- Biafranwar at 28-09-2012 06:44 PM (12 years ago)
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Story kawai
Posted: at 28-09-2012 06:44 PM (12 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- donklass at 28-09-2012 07:57 PM (12 years ago)
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   YOU ARE ACTUALLY SAYING LOVE IS NOT ENOUGH,
   REALLY, LOVE HAS CLAUSES,,,
Posted: at 28-09-2012 07:57 PM (12 years ago) | Upcoming
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- denmal at 28-09-2012 08:10 PM (12 years ago)
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comfirmed
Posted: at 28-09-2012 08:10 PM (12 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- Snowangel at 28-09-2012 08:26 PM (12 years ago)
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 Cheesy
Posted: at 28-09-2012 08:26 PM (12 years ago) | Newbie
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- Jacobokpabi at 28-09-2012 09:14 PM (12 years ago)
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Congrat...
Posted: at 28-09-2012 09:14 PM (12 years ago) | Newbie
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