Having a fulfilled Relationship

Every body want to be loved and appreciated, but in relationships of today, all we hear is heartbreaks and disappointment. This got me thinking, can someone be happy in a relatiinship?. Then i discovered the problems behind most relationships.                           Number 1 problem.                         Most peole are looking for love and are not ready to give out love. We see people breakup with someone and the next thing is the search for someone to heal them. Well its does not work that way, the solution is a process called " the healing time". We all need to let go of all the hurt and pain inorder to truely love someone else.                                                    Number 2 probem                           most people are infatuated and they think they are in love. But the truth is " true love grows". We need to check our emotions to know what we actually feel. Do you like the person or just want to be with that person?, this and more we need to ask ourselves.      Number 3 problem                          sex can't make someone love you more. Many people trade sex for affection, my dear it does not work that way. If someone loves you he or she will never want to hurt you or take advantage of you.                                                    Number 4 problem                          trying to impress the other person. I have seen many ladies give out everything they own just to keep a man, but at the end they are always heattbroken. If you can't be yourself with the person you love, then i don't think that love is geniue.                           Number 5 problem                          In every relationship there are bad times and good times, we should not be too fast to take off when we are having our bad times in our relationships. There is always a fixing period in our lives. We should always try to fix our problems not run.                             Number 6 problem                          Trust is a vital item in any relationship. Without trust there wont be love.                                    Number 7  probem                          Every successful relationship is based on sacrifice, both parties must be ready to make sacrifices inorder to make the relationship work. Everything under the heaven has time, there is a time for sowing and a time for reaping. So sow well into your relationship inorder to reap well.                                      

Posted: at 30-09-2012 05:37 PM (11 years ago) | Newbie

Wow....so beary touchable... I love your simple lines poster. So clean and well spoken. I also know that no one is perfect, so whenever life happens, love cannot be affected by any circumstances...is just that our selfishness/pride won't let us face our mistakes. We need to pray consistently for God to help us know if the person we are dating is ours or not that way life can move on as we continue to search. Like you said, love develops, it brought the inner beauty in us.

Thanks dear!

Posted: at 2-10-2012 12:12 AM (11 years ago) | Hero

great post

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Posted: at 4-10-2012 02:26 AM (11 years ago) | Gistmaniac

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Posted: at 4-10-2012 10:14 AM (11 years ago) | Hero

yes sex is good for the bottom line t2

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Posted: at 4-10-2012 10:24 AM (11 years ago) | Addicted Hero