5 Reasons Why You’re Single

Date: 10-01-2013 7:40 pm (11 years ago) | Author: tony chuks
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- at 10-01-2013 07:40 PM (11 years ago)
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There is a huge difference between the guys who get girls on a consistent basis and the one’s who just can’t seem to get attention from the opposite s*x no matter how hard they try. If your love life is on the skids, it’s safe to assume that you are probably guilty of one of these 5 blunders.



 

1. You’re too needy

If you want to run a woman off quickly, one of the best ways to do it is to be overly needy, i.e., excessively calling, emailing or sending text messages early in a relationship, always being available and doing everything she wants. Furthermore, women are not attracted to the type of man who needs too much support, validation, and constant reinforcement.

 

2. You don’t know how to build attraction

Many men fail in this area because they don’t know how to talk to women in a way that makes them more interested as time goes on. You need to learn the trigger points in women, i.e., how they think, react, and speak. You also have to know how to project your best qualities and use these to build attraction.

 

3. You’re looking in the wrong places

Trying to meet women in bars and clubs is a waste of time! Many women do not like meeting men at bars and have a natural resistance to men who approach them in these settings. Some of the best places to meet single women are shopping centers, coffee shops, concerts and gyms. Women KNOW that guys who are in bars and clubs are looking for one-night stands, but they don’t expect to be hit on in the above scenarios (element of surprise).

 

4. You don’t have confidence

Women are attracted to men with self-confidence, period. Nobody wants a guy who acts unsure of himself. A segxwally confident man who is secure about his segxwality and is comfortable being who he is will always attract more women.

 

5. You’re not persistent

Second to not even trying, giving up too early is the most common mistake guys make. You may need to get rejected a few dozen times before you come across a girl that likes you. Remember, meeting women is about numbers, so continue to go out and meet as many women as possible to improve your chances.

Posted: at 10-01-2013 07:40 PM (11 years ago) | Upcoming
- micc at 10-01-2013 08:40 PM (11 years ago)
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I c
Posted: at 10-01-2013 08:40 PM (11 years ago) | Hero
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- PidginMOUTH at 10-01-2013 09:07 PM (11 years ago)
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 Huh?   Huh?
Posted: at 10-01-2013 09:07 PM (11 years ago) | Hero
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- arsenal123 at 10-01-2013 11:16 PM (11 years ago)
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Thank you...
Posted: at 10-01-2013 11:16 PM (11 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- osarobo62 at 11-01-2013 12:49 AM (11 years ago)
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Becos i tell you my life story, naim make you come reveal my secrets to the whole world.
it's not fair oh. instead of you to help me, you dey take style dey laf me Cry Cry Cry Cry.
Posted: at 11-01-2013 12:49 AM (11 years ago) | Hero
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- dickman2 at 11-01-2013 02:26 AM (11 years ago)
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number 2 and 5 make sense..
Posted: at 11-01-2013 02:26 AM (11 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- Unikpearl at 11-01-2013 03:03 AM (11 years ago)
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It's ok
Posted: at 11-01-2013 03:03 AM (11 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- debbykiss at 11-01-2013 04:28 AM (11 years ago)
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ok.
Posted: at 11-01-2013 04:28 AM (11 years ago) | Upcoming
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- aso4life1 at 11-01-2013 05:19 AM (11 years ago)
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 Cool Cool Cool Cool

Posted: at 11-01-2013 05:19 AM (11 years ago) | Hero
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- Shydaimma at 11-01-2013 06:17 AM (11 years ago)
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okies cool. the men dun hear ram

Posted: at 11-01-2013 06:17 AM (11 years ago) | Hero
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- Solidstonez at 11-01-2013 06:46 AM (11 years ago)
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OK

Posted: at 11-01-2013 06:46 AM (11 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- Swtezvikky at 11-01-2013 07:09 AM (11 years ago)
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For the men
Posted: at 11-01-2013 07:09 AM (11 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- Noble12 at 11-01-2013 07:10 AM (11 years ago)
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I c
Posted: at 11-01-2013 07:10 AM (11 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- BlueIxora at 11-01-2013 09:14 AM (11 years ago)
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Cool
Posted: at 11-01-2013 09:14 AM (11 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- cadanre at 11-01-2013 09:17 AM (11 years ago)
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Quote from: arsenal123 on 10-01-2013 11:16 PM
Thank you...

Yes, you must thank him because you will stay single for the rest of your life. Shege!

Posted: at 11-01-2013 09:17 AM (11 years ago) | Hero
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- dickman2 at 11-01-2013 09:37 AM (11 years ago)
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single or no single ..all na time ..
Posted: at 11-01-2013 09:37 AM (11 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- Nicksam at 11-01-2013 09:37 AM (11 years ago)
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GOOD AND NICE
Posted: at 11-01-2013 09:37 AM (11 years ago) | Hero
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- shebaby25 at 11-01-2013 09:43 AM (11 years ago)
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Quote from: osarobo62 on 11-01-2013 12:49 AM
Becos i tell you my life story, naim make you come reveal my secrets to the whole world.
it's not fair oh. instead of you to help me, you dey take style dey laf me Cry Cry Cry Cry.

Y U go tell am ur lyf story? Lolzz
Posted: at 11-01-2013 09:43 AM (11 years ago) | Upcoming
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- sophiebaby at 11-01-2013 09:45 AM (11 years ago)
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 Cool

Posted: at 11-01-2013 09:45 AM (11 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- stikerxxx at 11-01-2013 10:19 AM (11 years ago)
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 Cheesy Cheesy Cheesy
Posted: at 11-01-2013 10:19 AM (11 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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