Relationship: Top 10 Signs Of A Desperate Man

Date: 10-01-2013 7:51 pm (11 years ago) | Author: tony chuks
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In the dating world, a desperate man is one who is overeager, anxious, presumptuous and willing to be with any woman to avoid being alone. Women can spot desperation in a man from miles away, and if you suffer from it, you’ll never stand a chance at getting any girl.



A man who is desperate may have a strong want and desire to have a relationship; however, due to having little experience in the romance and dating department, his behaviors can indicate low-self esteem and a host of other issues that turn women off and can actually be viewed as creepy and disturbing.

Here are 10 warning signs that can help you determine if you fit under the portrait of a desperate man:

1. Dropping your standards
Desperate men are prepared to drop their dating standards to fill the huge emotional void in their life. Whether they want children or intimacy the desperate man will date who they have too to avoid being alone. They will be with any woman just for the sake of being attached while failing to realize that it’s better to be single and wait for the girl who is their type.

2. Constantly fishing for compliments
The desperate man has low self-esteem, a poor self-image and needs to constantly hear how great he is and be assured of things. It doesn’t take long for women to get tired of constantly stroking your ego.

3. Overly Calling/Emailing/Texting Her
If you want to run a woman off quickly, one of the best ways to do it is to overly call, email or send text messages early in a relationship, especially when she hasn’t returned any of your messages. The desperate man makes the fatal mistake of calling the woman he’s dating and asking “Did you just call me?” after receiving a call from an unrecognized number.

4. You’re always available
Always being available makes women think that you don’t have a life of your own and actually lessens your own attractiveness, making you far less desirable. Being a challenge to women makes you more desirable.

5. You move too fast in relationships
The desperate man will spend every single day with a new girl for weeks and never know basic information about her that normally should have been covered in the first few dates. Although finding love is based on each individual relationship and some people move quicker than others, the desperate man will move so quickly with things like intimacy and s*x that he will turn a woman off with his frantic desire for a relationship.

6. You’re constantly buying her gifts
A desperate man constantly showers a woman with gifts without realizing that eventually she will become less thrilled and even annoyed receiving them. Even though the thought is nice, after a while the concept will begin to lose its meaning and she is going to get tired of always getting something.

7. Not giving her enough time and space
Desperate men tend to be a bit on the invasive side when they always need to hang out at a woman’s home for hours on end, not respecting the fact that she has a life of her own life. Women don’t always want to hang out with you day in and day out and will quickly end relationships with guys not respecting their need for space.

8. You’re in constant agreement with everything she says
Desperate men just sit there and agree with everything a woman says, thinking that’s what she wants. In reality, women want someone who is going to stimulate their minds and are not turned on by men they can completely control has no backbone.

9. You make her the center of your life too fast
Desperate men tend to make the first woman that will go out with them the only person in their life and not take the time to continue dating and getting to know other women. Telling a woman “You’re the only woman in the world for me” before the three-week period will have her running for the hills.

10. Being overly nice all the time
If a guy is too nice, too accommodating and tries to be the most giving person to a woman, she will begin to think he’s being insincere and will lose romantic interest quickly. She’ll also think that he’s only trying to achieve one thing: to get into her pants.

Posted: at 10-01-2013 07:51 PM (11 years ago) | Upcoming
- micc at 10-01-2013 08:39 PM (11 years ago)
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Ok
Posted: at 10-01-2013 08:39 PM (11 years ago) | Hero
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- PidginMOUTH at 10-01-2013 09:09 PM (11 years ago)
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 Shocked Shocked Shocked Shocked Shocked
Posted: at 10-01-2013 09:09 PM (11 years ago) | Hero
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- evaworld at 10-01-2013 09:52 PM (11 years ago)
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I like d pix though, try imagine nija guy in dt position Smiley Smiley
Posted: at 10-01-2013 09:52 PM (11 years ago) | Upcoming
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- zoe61 at 10-01-2013 10:36 PM (11 years ago)
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 Smiley Smiley Smiley Smiley
Posted: at 10-01-2013 10:36 PM (11 years ago) | Hero
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- HOPEA23 at 10-01-2013 10:38 PM (11 years ago)
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not bad..most es epically if he is rich Cheesy Cheesy Cheesy Cheesy Cheesy Cheesy Cheesy Cheesy Cheesy

Posted: at 10-01-2013 10:38 PM (11 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- dlimelite at 11-01-2013 02:09 AM (11 years ago)
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 Cheesy Cheesy Cheesy Cheesy
Posted: at 11-01-2013 02:09 AM (11 years ago) | Hero
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- dickman2 at 11-01-2013 02:19 AM (11 years ago)
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na men matter go kill una..tomorrow una say men no good..still men matter no comot from una mouth..yeye girls for naijapals
Posted: at 11-01-2013 02:19 AM (11 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- Unikpearl at 11-01-2013 03:07 AM (11 years ago)
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K
Posted: at 11-01-2013 03:07 AM (11 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- dickman2 at 11-01-2013 03:20 AM (11 years ago)
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Quote from: HOPEA23 on 10-01-2013 10:38 PM
not bad..most es epically if he is rich Cheesy Cheesy Cheesy Cheesy Cheesy Cheesy Cheesy Cheesy Cheesy
this your picture na wa..anyway..monkey no fine but the mama like am...me i like am.. Cheesy Cheesy Cheesy Cheesy Cheesy Cheesy Cheesy Cheesy
Posted: at 11-01-2013 03:20 AM (11 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- dickman2 at 11-01-2013 03:43 AM (11 years ago)
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Quote from: HOPEA23 on 10-01-2013 10:38 PM
not bad..most es epically if he is rich Cheesy Cheesy Cheesy Cheesy Cheesy Cheesy Cheesy Cheesy Cheesy
u too fine..
Posted: at 11-01-2013 03:43 AM (11 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- aso4life1 at 11-01-2013 05:18 AM (11 years ago)
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hmmmmm

Posted: at 11-01-2013 05:18 AM (11 years ago) | Hero
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- Shydaimma at 11-01-2013 06:13 AM (11 years ago)
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okies
na pipo wey rich go dey do dat.. buy too much gift
since he rich he won't be borded so he will always wants to be with the girl
Person wey dey struggle for business, how he go find time talkless of not giving the girl space.He no go go work?

Posted: at 11-01-2013 06:13 AM (11 years ago) | Hero
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- winace at 11-01-2013 06:35 AM (11 years ago)
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Quote from: evaworld on 10-01-2013 09:52 PM
I like d pix though, try imagine nija guy in dt position Smiley Smiley

Hahahahahahahahahaha dem go luk like mumu wit dat their strong unromantic face.
Posted: at 11-01-2013 06:35 AM (11 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- Solidstonez at 11-01-2013 06:46 AM (11 years ago)
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I C

Posted: at 11-01-2013 06:46 AM (11 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- kolasolar at 11-01-2013 09:04 AM (11 years ago)
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Goes for the same for desperate women .
Posted: at 11-01-2013 09:04 AM (11 years ago) | Upcoming
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- BlueIxora at 11-01-2013 09:10 AM (11 years ago)
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Poster scratch number six. That one na lie. Women never get tired of gifts. If you doubt me try am with your girl.
Posted: at 11-01-2013 09:10 AM (11 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- cadanre at 11-01-2013 09:26 AM (11 years ago)
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I noticed all the above + many more with you poster. So, you are one!

Posted: at 11-01-2013 09:26 AM (11 years ago) | Hero
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- Nicksam at 11-01-2013 09:29 AM (11 years ago)
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PASSING
Posted: at 11-01-2013 09:29 AM (11 years ago) | Hero
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- dezzy4real at 11-01-2013 09:34 AM (11 years ago)
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Quote from: evaworld on 10-01-2013 09:52 PM
I like d pix though, try imagine nija guy in dt position Smiley Smiley
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No be ordinary naija guy self! Try imagine warri guy in dat position Grin Grin Grin

Posted: at 11-01-2013 09:34 AM (11 years ago) | Newbie
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