I feel ashamed and embarrassed. I know some people would want to nail me after reading just the headline but I feel this is getting out of hand. I clocked 42 last July and to be candid I’m not into any serious relationship. I’m from South-South Nigeria, the first daughter out of 7 children. I hope you won't feel offended as I would not further disclose my identity for obvious reason. Just last year, our last born who works with a popular telecommunication company got married to her longtime boyfriend, leaving only me hugging ‘tubes and tyres.’ I’ve gone for prayers in several churches; they promised me that my husband would appear in no distant time. In fact, the last prayer house I went in a popular church, the man of God told me that ‘if he be a man of God, before the year runs out, my dream man would appear.’ Another one told me I was the architect of my predicament, saying that I’ve missed the opportunity. When I was in my mid 20s, I had many ‘toasters’ but they were never my dream men. I used to think my kind of guy was the tall, dark and handsome one. Preferably banker, but now they are not forthcoming. I was in a relationship with an ex footballer but I dumped him when I could no longer cope with his kind of person.. Now, I’m even ashamed of living in the same house with my parents at my age...
Please advise...
Life is 2short to wake up in the morning with regrets. LOVE KEEPS NO RECORD OF WRONGS*SOPHIEBABY* :*
Posted: at 17-01-2013 03:12 PM (12 years ago) | Addicted Hero
Don't worry urself too much abt, if U've prayed abt it den God'll ansa.. I'll give U an example, my aunt who's 48 jst finished her trad marriage. Ur tym will come.... Definitely. Jst be happy n enjoy ur beautiful life
Posted: at 17-01-2013 03:42 PM (12 years ago) | Newbie
sophiebaby at 17-01-2013 04:28 PM (12 years ago) (f)
Quote from: nkemdil on 17-01-2013 03:42 PM
Don't worry urself too much abt, if U've prayed abt it den God'll ansa.. I'll give U an example, my aunt who's 48 jst finished her trad marriage. Ur tym will come.... Definitely. Jst be happy n enjoy ur beautiful life
Life is 2short to wake up in the morning with regrets. LOVE KEEPS NO RECORD OF WRONGS*SOPHIEBABY* :*
Posted: at 17-01-2013 04:28 PM (12 years ago) | Addicted Hero
Wow! I luk unto d heavens whr cometh my help,my help comes. Frm d God who made heaven n earth. Sis, u dnt v to trust on any man,any pastor. Bible says God calleth those tinz dt r nt as though they were n they appear. Dnt giv up. U pray 4 urself.its well.
Posted: at 17-01-2013 05:50 PM (12 years ago) | Upcoming
sophiebaby at 18-01-2013 10:07 AM (12 years ago) (f)
Quote from: ivygal on 17-01-2013 05:50 PM
Wow! I luk unto d heavens whr cometh my help,my help comes. Frm d God who made heaven n earth. Sis, u dnt v to trust on any man,any pastor. Bible says God calleth those tinz dt r nt as though they were n they appear. Dnt giv up. U pray 4 urself.its well.
thanks sweet
Life is 2short to wake up in the morning with regrets. LOVE KEEPS NO RECORD OF WRONGS*SOPHIEBABY* :*
Posted: at 18-01-2013 10:07 AM (12 years ago) | Addicted Hero
i always go with my native name--GODS TIME IS THE BEST:the rigth man will come ur way but u have to be totally pakaged @ ur age u don´t have to leave room 4 mistake like a girl of 25,with prayer GOD will give u ur own man.gudluck
Posted: at 18-01-2013 11:07 AM (12 years ago) | Gistmaniac
sophiebaby at 18-01-2013 11:11 AM (12 years ago) (f)
Quote from: ela214 on 18-01-2013 11:07 AM
i always go with my native name--GODS TIME IS THE BEST:the rigth man will come ur way but u have to be totally pakaged @ ur age u don´t have to leave room 4 mistake like a girl of 25,with prayer GOD will give u ur own man.gudluck
thanks Ogechi
Life is 2short to wake up in the morning with regrets. LOVE KEEPS NO RECORD OF WRONGS*SOPHIEBABY* :*
Posted: at 18-01-2013 11:11 AM (12 years ago) | Addicted Hero
El-magnifico at 18-01-2013 11:51 AM (12 years ago) (m)
Many people have missed a golden opportunity of a life time,Especially when it comes to relationship matters... Many ladies have treated their future husband with disdain & have treated them ungodly .... No man is perfect. & Dream man or Dream Woman only exist in the movies,You have to make your partner the person yu want him/her to be /.... In your own case,Be prayerful & trust in God for HE is God That Turns Impossibilities To Possibilities ..... Salam..
Posted: at 18-01-2013 11:51 AM (12 years ago) | Upcoming
sophiebaby at 18-01-2013 12:09 PM (12 years ago) (f)
Quote from: El-magnifico on 18-01-2013 11:51 AM
Many people have missed a golden opportunity of a life time,Especially when it comes to relationship matters... Many ladies have treated their future husband with disdain & have treated them ungodly .... No man is perfect. & Dream man or Dream Woman only exist in the movies,You have to make your partner the person yu want him/her to be /.... In your own case,Be prayerful & trust in God for HE is God That Turns Impossibilities To Possibilities ..... Salam..
Thanks
Life is 2short to wake up in the morning with regrets. LOVE KEEPS NO RECORD OF WRONGS*SOPHIEBABY* :*
Posted: at 18-01-2013 12:09 PM (12 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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