You’re in touch with him 24/7
Every morning there’s a text on his phone. During your lunch break you run to your car to call him. At night you make sure you call him to wish him good dreams. Staying in touch around the clock is a big no-no, and it shows that you’re becoming really needy and clingy. Guys tend to hate when a girl becomes clingy, so definitely cut back on the communication.
You rarely call him by his real name
After dating for a couple weeks, you’ve completely almost forgotten what his real name is. Instead, you’ve switched to calling him “baby,” “babe,” “boo,” and every other pet name under the sun. Pet names are cute when they’re used in moderation but when you’re calling him your boo when you’ve only been dating him for a few weeks, now is a good time to apply the brakes.
You do things even when he doesn’t want you to
Just like you, your man likes not only doing things for you, but doing things for himself. You offer to do something, such as pack him a lunch or clean his room, and he declines, but you still do it anyway. Things like this may be appreciated the first few times, but after awhile they get old, quickly. Your guy is going to feel like he’s losing his independence.
You spend a lot of money on him
Being a cheap girlfriend isn’t the way to go, but spending a lot of money on your man isn’t always the wisest thing to do either. For Valentine’s Day you buy him the most expensive watch you can find and for Christmas the tree is decorated with dozens of presents just for him. Spending too much on a guy and not following set monetary limits not only makes him look bad, but it’s probably not good for your bank account either.
You think you’re doing too much
The relationship is a little exhausting. Your every thought centers around him and nothing else. You find yourself questioning if you’re doing too much. If you ever start to think that you’re going overboard, you probably are. When the thought pops into your head, don’t hesitate to slow things down a bit.
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