How many men can stand the success of their women?
Especially in a culture that seeks to exult a man at the expense of a woman.
I have seen men who try to turn their women into permanent housewives simply because they can’t stand her ability to earn thinking that would challenge their authority. Insecurity is an offshoot of unhealthy self-esteem and it has its root in one’s inability to trust others or the quest to be in control of someone or something such that you ultimately lose control.
It is the quest to control what is non-existent or beyond you. This usually gives rise to mentally initiated negative opinions and self generated problems which results in breach of trust jealousy and suspicion.
Insecure people find it difficult to trust others and can’t share what they have with others.
How many times have you chock her by your attitude? How secured are you with her association or competence?
Have you ever wondered why you really don’t want her to go for another degree?
Or why you are always eager to read through her text messages or BB messages?
Does she presently feel imprisoned at the fact that she is finding it so hard to speak freely
because she is not sure of what your response would be?
Why would you want to stop her from going for a function? Could it be love or insecurity?
Do you feel very jealous when she is discussing with a professional colleague or when she is hanging out with a childhood friend?
A spouse that is battling with insecurity could ultimately lose everything if care is not taken but beyond losing everything could destroy everyone around him.
Is it not amazing that you hate being tracked yet you are doing everything to track her movement?
Why are you finding it difficult to allow her give expression to her dreams?
What manner of man are you really?
Does your satisfaction come from controlling people or giving people control to express themselves.
IF YOUR WOMAN WANT TO GO "GAGA" NO MATTER HOW WATCHFUL, HARSH, OR MONITORING YOU ARE
SHE WILL GO WAYWARD . SO RELAX ,TRUST HER, GIVE HER FREEDOM AND PRAY FOR HER.
And ladies, what is good for you is good for Him too
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