Is submission weakness?
As a man, do u want a submissive wife or a doormat?
As a woman, do u believe being submissive to ur husband is positive for ur marriage? And does it also include doing things u are really against?
As a man, do u prefer a submissive woman, or sombody who can stand her ground?
Oya lets go there
Man, by the fact that he was first created; that the woman was taken from him; that he is better qualified for ruling than she is, is evidently designed to be at the head of the little community that constitutes a family. In many other things, woman may be his equal; in loveliness, and grace, and beauty, and tenderness, and gentleness, she is far his superior; but these are not the qualities adapted for government. Their place is in another sphere; and there, man should be as cautious about invading her prerogative, or abridging her liberty, as "she" should be about invading the prerogative that belongs to him. In every family there should be a head - someone who is to be looked up to as the counselor and the ruler; someone to whom all should be subordinate. God has given that prerogative to man; and no family prospers where that arrangement is violated. Within proper metes and limits, therefore, it is the duty of the wife to obey, or to submit herself to her husband.
1. In domestic arrangements, the husband is to be regarded as the head of the family; and he has a right to direct as to the style of living, the expenses of the family, the clothing, etc.
2. In regard to the laws which are to regulate the family, he is the head. It is his to say what is to be done; in what way the children are to employ themselves, and to give directions in regard to their education, etc.
3. In business matters, the wife is to submit to the husband. She may counsel with him, if he chooses; but the affairs of business and property are under his control, and must be left at his disposal.
back to ur Qweshun...Submission is not weakness... but most tyms some men need some kain woman wey go dey kakaraka for ground for dem.. wey if dem say SIT here.. dem go SIDAN
.. SHUT UP dem go close mouth..
Oya GO MARKET go grind this pepper, buy meat, crayfish and okazi.. dem go run go, even enter keke sef, so that madam no go hallah dem
For more Informate---- Read: Prov 31:10-31..
Life is 2short to wake up in the morning with regrets. LOVE KEEPS NO RECORD OF WRONGS*SOPHIEBABY* :*
Posted: at 8-03-2013 01:02 PM (11 years ago) | Addicted Hero |
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