ROMANCE: Why Must Women Always "Submit" To Their Husband? (Page 4)

I like it when a woman is wise,cos only the wise know they don't need to be in the spotlight to control how things work out,just like drama,the real genius is always behind the scene,but even a fool can act.

being submissive is very good, but to some extent

Man, by the fact that he was first created; that the woman was taken from him; that he is better qualified for ruling than she is, is evidently designed to be at the head of the little community that constitutes a family. In many other things, woman may be his equal; in loveliness, and grace, and beauty, and tenderness, and gentleness, she is far his superior; but these are not the qualities adapted for government. Their place is in another sphere; and there, man should be as cautious about invading her prerogative, or abridging her liberty, as "she" should be about invading the prerogative that belongs to him. In every family there should be a head - someone who is to be looked up to as the counselor and the ruler; someone to whom all should be subordinate. God has given that prerogative to man; and no family prospers where that arrangement is violated. Within proper metes and limits, therefore, it is the duty of the wife to obey, or to submit herself to her husband.
1. In domestic arrangements, the husband is to be regarded as the head of the family; and he has a right to direct as to the style of living, the expenses of the family, the clothing, etc.
2. In regard to the laws which are to regulate the family, he is the head. It is his to say what is to be done; in what way the children are to employ themselves, and to give directions in regard to their education, etc.
3. In business matters, the wife is to submit to the husband. She may counsel with him, if he chooses; but the affairs of business and property are under his control, and must be left at his disposal.

back to ur Qweshun...Submission is not weakness... but most tyms some men need some kain woman wey go dey kakaraka for ground for dem.. wey if dem say SIT here.. dem go SIDAN   .. SHUT UP dem go close mouth..   Oya GO MARKET go grind this pepper, buy meat, crayfish and okazi.. dem go run go, even enter keke sef, so that madam no go hallah dem  

For more Informate---- Read: Prov 31:10-31..

Eph 5:22 and verse 25

22. Wives, submit yourselves unto your own husbands, as unto the Lord.
KJV

25. Husbands, love your wives, even as Christ also loved the church, and gave himself for it;
KJV

The above bible passages are commandments to wives and husbands.
Even though the commandment to the wives precedes that of the husbands in the bible, it does not necessarily mean the wives have to submit first before the husbands will love.
The conflict in opinion is usually because the wives would rather read the letter written to the husbands in verse 25 than read the letter written to the wives in verse 22 and the husbands would  rather read the letter written to the wives in verse 22 than read the letter written to the husbands in verse 25.
If  the wives and the husbands would read the commandment written to each of them specifically, and practice it not minding what was written to the other person,the problem of SUBMISSION & LOVE will not arise.
So I say to both wives and husband "DON'T READ YOUR PARTNER'S LETTER, READ YOUR OWN"

Bcos man can marry 4 as their law required haha but woman can only have one husband