HELP!! My Fiance Realized Am an OSU (Outcast) & Has Refused To marry Me (Page 9)

Date: 12-03-2013 10:51 am (11 years ago) | Author: uduak Sophia Monday
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- ela214 at 13-03-2013 03:07 PM (11 years ago)
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Quote from: sophiebaby on 13-03-2013 02:47 PM
Hmmm is it dat bad?
the tin worse pass bad
Posted: at 13-03-2013 03:07 PM (11 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- laydeelaracraft at 13-03-2013 03:14 PM (11 years ago)
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Quote from: ela214 on 13-03-2013 01:14 PM
sophie no be 4 mouth,if u decide to ignore it u stand a chance of losing ur parents brother n sisters(which is difficult)
and  OSU has to do with what thier ancestors did that is now hunting thier decendants------i have an uncle who married and osu thier house is not in our compound and his children automatically  became OSU----the daugther fixed her traditional marriage i don already ready to do ashebi but on the said day of the marriage-----we no know who go tell the husband-to-be,the guy send message say them n dey cum again-------our youth now dosen´t care about it but,the system is too deep rooted to deal with.
no offense but I dont think this is enough reason for my siblings and parents to disown me. Culture or no culture they just wont. If they do, well it will make me question their love for mr.
Posted: at 13-03-2013 03:14 PM (11 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- osarobo62 at 13-03-2013 03:24 PM (11 years ago)
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Quote from: laydeelaracraft on 13-03-2013 03:06 PM
why do women stress out when an idiot walks out. You should be thanking your stars cause who knows what crisis has been averted. 5yrs wasted vs 50yrs wasted? IMO, we shud be glad that a potential BIG crisis is averted. We need to start thinking long term.
Men are also guilty of the same thing. That's one of the funny the ironies of life.
Posted: at 13-03-2013 03:24 PM (11 years ago) | Hero
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- arsenal123 at 13-03-2013 03:30 PM (11 years ago)
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Quote from: 4REEAL on 13-03-2013 03:03 AM
,Give to Ceaser's to Ceaser"s ""means earthly possessions,...  Cool,To God to God"" means ya life,body n soul,,,,,so ya community or d so called traditions has no power over God,,bcuz d so call OSU is made in d image of God,, Angry Angry Angry Angry Angry >:(make i break am down 4 u Grin Grin Grin,,Our people say's that when you point at somebody, one finger alone points at the object, but 3 fingers point back at you the subject. And if anybody looks at himself or herself in the mirror and thinks or sees OSU, let him or her snap out of it. We are all creations of the same God, without exceptions. That is what each person’s true identity and real name derives from—GOD Cry Cry Cry Cry Cry Cry Cry Cry Cry

Let's keep the osu matter aside first. So as a lady you dated a guy for a year, going to two years and he never said anything about marriage, never came for introduction and you continued till 5 years?  Huh? Huh?.. WOMEN self.. Huh? Huh?..,any guy who's serious with you, just within months or a year must have come for introduction at least! Don't even tell me that you want to know him before marriage because 200 years aren't even enough to know somebody!..
Posted: at 13-03-2013 03:30 PM (11 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- sophiebaby at 13-03-2013 03:31 PM (11 years ago)
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Quote from: osarobo62 on 13-03-2013 03:24 PM
Men are also guilty of the same thing. That's one of the funny the ironies of life.

 Cool

Posted: at 13-03-2013 03:31 PM (11 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- arsenal123 at 13-03-2013 03:33 PM (11 years ago)
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Quote from: nitter on 13-03-2013 10:21 AM
This is where I have problem with you women.You slept with me and dumped me.You made love to me and dumped me.I gave you my body and soul for 5 years and now you call off the marriage.What nonsense.He didn,t molestation you.You both had sex,made love on a mutual consent.This is no molestation.I don,t know the kind of sex style you engage in but whatever it is the man gets more tired than the woman.About segxwal satisfaction it must be 50-50 because in most cases it is the woman who is found yelling and screeming like a cat.WE CALL  THAT YELLING AND SCREEMING OF JOY HAHAHAHHHAHAA.So my point is,at the end of the day why do woman claim ,,,,,,,you made love to me and now you,ve dumped me.But we both made love to each other.We both enjoyed so no cheating here.You should better find tangible excuses to base your claim on because sex is a mutual and 50-50 enjoyable exercise.Wanna hear some more,well my email address  [email protected]

 Cool Cool..
Posted: at 13-03-2013 03:33 PM (11 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- arsenal123 at 13-03-2013 03:36 PM (11 years ago)
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Quote from: dabattleaxe on 13-03-2013 11:35 AM
Sophie I hate it so very much when you girls go on like this, the dude kidnap her, was she held at gun point, why will it take her 5 yrs living together b4 they'll decide to get married and since you don't know what Osu Cast system is, I'll tell. In about 300 Ad or there about pple had slaves dedicated to idols and they are refereed to as Osu or outcast. An Osu cannot marry a son or daughter of the soil. This practice is passed on from generation to generation and it's a practice I sincerely think can be abolished in Igbo land. Though some go against all odds and marry but you and your entire generation down the line will be ostracized. What it means is that your children will not marry a son or daughter of the soil.

 Cool Cool
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- sophiebaby at 13-03-2013 03:38 PM (11 years ago)
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Quote from: arsenal123 on 13-03-2013 03:30 PM
Let's keep the osu matter aside first. So as a lady you dated a guy for a year, going to two years and he never said anything about marriage, never came for introduction and you continued till 5 years?  Huh? Huh?.. WOMEN self.. Huh? Huh?..,any guy who's serious with you, just within months or a year must have come for introduction at least! Don't even tell me that you want to know him before marriage because 200 years aren't even enough to know somebody!..

lol

Posted: at 13-03-2013 03:38 PM (11 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- osarobo62 at 13-03-2013 03:46 PM (11 years ago)
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Simply put the tradition is archaic and discriminatory. I am quite sure some men have married
or had children from an Osu woman without knowing it.  The perceived problems are all in the head.
If you can kiss,sleep and eat with an osu woman.....you can marry her
if you can accept money,clothes and gifts from an osu woman.....you can marry her
Posted: at 13-03-2013 03:46 PM (11 years ago) | Hero
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- sophiebaby at 13-03-2013 03:50 PM (11 years ago)
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 Kiss Kiss Kiss Kiss Kiss Kiss Kiss Kiss Kiss Kiss

Posted: at 13-03-2013 03:50 PM (11 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- virgineve at 13-03-2013 03:52 PM (11 years ago)
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Tell her to wipe her tears. She can count on me for marriage
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- 4REEAL at 13-03-2013 04:02 PM (11 years ago)
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MY "'BRODA'S N SISTAS" AM A YORUBA GUY BUT WE STILL SAME BLOOD,IF U'VE GOT A PEN JOT DIS DOWN N READ IT TO YOUR SO CALLED ELDERS WHEN U GET TO D VILLAGE,,WHAT IS D MEANING OF IGBO KWENU?Huh? ------ I want to use this medium to advice the Igbos especially those that practice this obnoxious system to annihilate the idea of division caused by Osu caste system and import the idea of togetherness, oneness and unity.  Because with unity it is believable that any community will stand, but by division the people are doomed to fall.  For the Igbos, let us invite the spirit of ‘Obinwanne’ and do away with ‘Obiakolo’.
Igbos has a lot of external aggressions from their enemies who have shown their aggression and wickedness to the Igbos in several ways, thus if Igbos is not united, they will not be able to defeat their enemies, and if they are fragmented, their enemies will find it very easy to defect them.  Thus, there is the need for them to always be one so as to fight their battles to finish.  Like the sticks of a broom, if they are united in one bunch, it will not be easy for one to break them, but if one or few are singled out, you find out that they will be easily broken.
Also, those who practice Osu caste system should embrace the method of complementary with which they will realize that each human being is as important as him the self with this, they will also come to the understanding that segregating or dehumanizing ones fellow human being is evil as it  hinders  the societal proliferation and development. 
Posted: at 13-03-2013 04:02 PM (11 years ago) | Upcoming
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- 4REEAL at 13-03-2013 04:10 PM (11 years ago)
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 HOPE SOME OF YA SO CALLED GREAT IGBO-KWENU--- P,SQUARE,FLAVOR,MINISTER,PRIEST etc,,, ARE NOT FROM DIS SO CALLED OSU LINEAGE,,?Huh?? SHINE YA EYES N STOP WEARING MOONSHADE @ NITE Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin
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- 4REEAL at 13-03-2013 04:12 PM (11 years ago)
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''''ORO DIE LA SO FUN OMO LUABI TO DE INU EEE ,ADI ODINDI""" Cool Cool Cool,,,
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- moniconyez at 13-03-2013 04:24 PM (11 years ago)
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Quote from: sophiebaby on 13-03-2013 09:06 AM
Moni man.. why i no vex  Huh? after the guy don scater my friend t*t* finish.. enter all the areasr wey her hubby suppose enjoy.. chop all the fat finsih inside.. all the kpomo, the towel, the liver.. even the kidney sef.. which one wey her husband go come chop?  Huh? no make me vex pass dis one o  Grin Grin Grin

Vice versa, Grin The girl EQUALLY SCARTERED,DISORGANISED The guy's pe.ni.s for the whole 5years too. Na the guy even loss past sef cos he POURED MILK for the girl waist for five SOLIDE years, Building a BOOTY For another man Angry Grin
Posted: at 13-03-2013 04:24 PM (11 years ago) | Hero
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- sophiebaby at 13-03-2013 04:26 PM (11 years ago)
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Quote from: moniconyez on 13-03-2013 04:24 PM
Vice versa, Grin The girl EQUALLY SCARTERED,DISORGANISED The guy's pe.ni.s for the whole 5years too. Na the guy even loss past sef cos he POURED MILK for the girl waist for five SOLIDE years, Building a Donk For another man Angry Grin

 Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin who send am message to pur milk kwanu?

Posted: at 13-03-2013 04:26 PM (11 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- dabattleaxe at 13-03-2013 04:33 PM (11 years ago)
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Quote from: sophiebaby on 13-03-2013 04:26 PM
Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin who send am message to pur milk kwanu?

Naa the girl kwanu ;cos even sophie love to drink milk from under. Wink Wink Wink Wink Cheesy Cheesy Cheesy Cheesy Cheesy
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- moniconyez at 13-03-2013 04:36 PM (11 years ago)
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 Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin
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- sophiebaby at 13-03-2013 04:36 PM (11 years ago)
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Quote from: 4REEAL on 13-03-2013 04:02 PM
MY "'BRODA'S N SISTAS" AM A YORUBA GUY BUT WE STILL SAME BLOOD,IF U'VE GOT A PEN JOT DIS DOWN N READ IT TO YOUR SO CALLED ELDERS WHEN U GET TO D VILLAGE,,WHAT IS D MEANING OF IGBO KWENU?Huh? ------ I want to use this medium to advice the Igbos especially those that practice this obnoxious system to annihilate the idea of division caused by Osu caste system and import the idea of togetherness, oneness and unity.  Because with unity it is believable that any community will stand, but by division the people are doomed to fall.  For the Igbos, let us invite the spirit of ‘Obinwanne’ and do away with ‘Obiakolo’.
Igbos has a lot of external aggressions from their enemies who have shown their aggression and wickedness to the Igbos in several ways, thus if Igbos is not united, they will not be able to defeat their enemies, and if they are fragmented, their enemies will find it very easy to defect them.  Thus, there is the need for them to always be one so as to fight their battles to finish.  Like the sticks of a broom, if they are united in one bunch, it will not be easy for one to break them, but if one or few are singled out, you find out that they will be easily broken.
Also, those who practice Osu caste system should embrace the method of complementary with which they will realize that each human being is as important as him the self with this, they will also come to the understanding that segregating or dehumanizing ones fellow human being is evil as it  hinders  the societal proliferation and development. 

 Undecided  Cool

Posted: at 13-03-2013 04:36 PM (11 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- sophiebaby at 13-03-2013 04:37 PM (11 years ago)
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Quote from: dabattleaxe on 13-03-2013 04:33 PM
Naa the girl kwanu ;cos even sophie love to drink milk from under. Wink Wink Wink Wink Cheesy Cheesy Cheesy Cheesy Cheesy

 Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin offcourse who no go wan drink milk?

Posted: at 13-03-2013 04:37 PM (11 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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