The 10 Reasons Why He’ll Never Put The Ring On Your Finger

Date: 28-03-2013 8:06 pm (11 years ago) | Author: Kenny Opeyemi
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- at 28-03-2013 08:06 PM (11 years ago)
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You’ve been dating your man for a few years and have been bombarded by the “when are you guys going to make it official?” question from your annoyingly nosy family and friends. You know yourself that he is the one you want to spend the rest of your life with, and his actions and words are pointing in the same direction. So, what’s the hold up?

You banged his friend
Everyone has a past. Apparently, yours involve a tryst with his friend, you wh*re. It doesn’t matter if it was 5 years ago, or 5 days ago – no man wants to be his buddy’s sloppy seconds – let alone wife one up.

 You’re too dependent
Men want to be needed, b
ut he doesn’t want to be your be all and end all. While he will do anything to make you happy, he doesn’t want to be the only source of your happiness. Get your shit together.

You’re too nosy
Being curious about each other is natural – hacking into his email account and Facebook is not. If you spend all your spare time watching and monitoring his every move on Facebook or Twitter, trying to decipher the hidden meaning behind every post and tweet, then you’re on the cusp of crazy. Give him some space – there’s a fine line between curiosity and stalker.

He’s not serious about you
For him, there are plenty more fish in the sea and he’s not sold on the fact that you’re the fish he wants to lure. Which may mean…

You’re his side piece
You’ve been with this guy for how long and yet you have yet to meet anyone in his family? There’s a red flag right there. If he’s never around for holidays and shows up at your doorstep at erratic times, he’s not going to marry you because he probably already has a wife.

You’re more beauty than brains –
Having a ditzy, hot girlfriend is one thing – having a bimbo wife who he is unable to bring to any event where conversation is required is another. When a man is ready to commit, he is just as interested in what you bring to the table as he is in your external appearance. If all you bring to the table is a pretty face, a banging body and the ability to suck golf balls through a straw, the lack of anything deeper will limit his pursuit of you to the surface level.

You don’t possess ‘wifely’ qualities
You don’t cook, you don’t clean, you’re terrible with kids and you love to spend money – his money.  One of the key reasons that men don’t want to get married is due to the financial aspects — he doesn’t want to go broke trying to keep you, a maid and a chef. Why would he marry you if you’re so useless?

 You already act like this wife
Why buy the cow when you can get the milk for free? You’re already banging him regularly, playing house, acting like his wife – what man in their right mind would run to get a marriage license when you’re already his bitch?

 He’s commitment phobic
Maybe he comes from a broken family, or perhaps he grew up in an environment that places no importance on marriage. If he says to you that he doesn’t believe in marriage, don’t think you’re the magical girl who can change his mind.

It’s too soon
We all know women mature faster than men – so while you may have developed the qualities that make you ready for marriage within a year, it make take 2 or 3 years for him. Ultimately, you’re going to have to take the gamble and decide if he’s worth the wait.


Posted: at 28-03-2013 08:06 PM (11 years ago) | Gistmaniac
- cherishp at 28-03-2013 08:26 PM (11 years ago)
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Noted!!
Posted: at 28-03-2013 08:26 PM (11 years ago) | Upcoming
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- yintey at 29-03-2013 02:12 AM (11 years ago)
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All this na  true talk and it wld be noted babes pls beauty and brain ooo, plus shine your eyes ooo....
Posted: at 29-03-2013 02:12 AM (11 years ago) | Newbie
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- jamesbondchick at 29-03-2013 11:35 PM (11 years ago)
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Ok

Posted: at 29-03-2013 11:35 PM (11 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- 4REEAL at 30-03-2013 01:54 AM (11 years ago)
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I thought luv conquer"s all & luv dey blind Shocked Shocked Shocked Shocked Shocked Shocked Shocked
Posted: at 30-03-2013 01:54 AM (11 years ago) | Upcoming
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- morgrawl231 at 30-03-2013 02:16 AM (11 years ago)
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Noted,,,,
Posted: at 30-03-2013 02:16 AM (11 years ago) | Hero
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- NYPDmike at 30-03-2013 03:20 AM (11 years ago)
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you trying with the post
Posted: at 30-03-2013 03:20 AM (11 years ago) | Upcoming
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- Shegzan at 30-03-2013 03:31 AM (11 years ago)
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Kk!

Posted: at 30-03-2013 03:31 AM (11 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- DJSNIPPER at 30-03-2013 03:42 AM (11 years ago)
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no time
Posted: at 30-03-2013 03:42 AM (11 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- Ecto at 30-03-2013 05:29 AM (11 years ago)
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Yep. For the ladies!
Posted: at 30-03-2013 05:29 AM (11 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- osamabinladin at 30-03-2013 06:26 AM (11 years ago)
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Ladies pls take note
Posted: at 30-03-2013 06:26 AM (11 years ago) | Hero
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- emexix at 30-03-2013 06:33 AM (11 years ago)
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Cool. I wish my gf could see dis.
Posted: at 30-03-2013 06:33 AM (11 years ago) | Newbie
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- dickman2 at 30-03-2013 07:09 AM (11 years ago)
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 Roll Eyes Roll Eyes Roll Eyes Roll Eyes Roll Eyes
Posted: at 30-03-2013 07:09 AM (11 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- paulohking at 30-03-2013 07:23 AM (11 years ago)
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Can I read another story pls Roll Eyes?
Posted: at 30-03-2013 07:23 AM (11 years ago) | Hero
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- wilat at 30-03-2013 07:34 AM (11 years ago)
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 Cool

Posted: at 30-03-2013 07:34 AM (11 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- Solidstonez at 30-03-2013 08:01 AM (11 years ago)
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OK

Posted: at 30-03-2013 08:01 AM (11 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- ezchusa at 30-03-2013 08:13 AM (11 years ago)
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k

Posted: at 30-03-2013 08:13 AM (11 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- alib at 30-03-2013 08:34 AM (11 years ago)
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Since when did men become gods, who cares he should put d ring or stick it on a gorilla for all I care, dat is his business, good wife material indeed, what about good husband material
Posted: at 30-03-2013 08:34 AM (11 years ago) | Newbie
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- malvin2525 at 30-03-2013 09:27 AM (11 years ago)
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 Lips Sealed
Posted: at 30-03-2013 09:27 AM (11 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- osarobo62 at 30-03-2013 12:18 PM (11 years ago)
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no 11) some men would never get married....... to you or to anybody. no matter how
good, beautiful,intelligent,hardworking and financially independent you are.
IT IS HIS FAULT.....AND NOT YOURS
Posted: at 30-03-2013 12:18 PM (11 years ago) | Hero
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