I Just Got Married & Av Been Unhappy Since Because Of My Husband’s Predicament

Date: 10-04-2013 5:03 pm (7 years ago) | Author: sunday Kayode
- at 10-04-2013 05:03 PM (7 years ago)
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Good day, I like your page a lot and I would like to share my story and I hope to get meaningful pieces of advice.

I got married December 2012 to a man that I thought was God-sent to me because of a pastor’s prophesy about him.

We met in January 2011, but we stay in different states so I worked my NYSC so that I would be with him. He stopped going to work in June 2012 because the construction firm he was working was bankrupt. After our marriage, we have been living on money we beg from family or relatives.

His family knows he is jobless, but I keep lying to my family that he is doing fine in his office. We have been going from one interview to the other. Right now, our house rent has been due since July and we could only afford half of the money.

The worst of it all is that, yesterday he went for a medical test for a job placement and he just discovered that he is HIV positive and I did the test too but I am negative.I don’t know what to do right now or where to go. We shed tears everyday even while praying. We have lost our appetite and going to church aint fun anymore.I know this is a spiritual problem.

I forgot to include that he is 36, I am 31 and we have no kids yet because we are not working.

 Please I need your advice

Posted: at 10-04-2013 05:03 PM (7 years ago) | Upcoming
- micc at 10-04-2013 05:23 PM (7 years ago)
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Chei my dear I don't know what to tell u now oo. Because is not easy for u at all
Posted: at 10-04-2013 05:23 PM (7 years ago) | Hero
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- Fertymor at 10-04-2013 05:44 PM (7 years ago)
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IF YOU TRULY LOVE HIM, U CAN STAY WITH HIM AND CONTINUE PRAYING SINCE U SAID U MARRIED HIM BCOS OF WHAT THE PROPHET SAID, HAVE FAITH AND I BELIEVE THAT GOD WILL SURELY ANSWER YOUR PRAYER. AMEN
Posted: at 10-04-2013 05:44 PM (7 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- eddiemike19 at 10-04-2013 06:39 PM (7 years ago)
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Please make u post Part 2 of dis movie ooo
Posted: at 10-04-2013 06:39 PM (7 years ago) | Upcoming
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- ela214 at 10-04-2013 09:09 PM (7 years ago)
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hummmm
Posted: at 10-04-2013 09:09 PM (7 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- Omilim at 10-04-2013 09:52 PM (7 years ago)
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Hmmmm me just reading.but ur appetite for church revive it.
Posted: at 10-04-2013 09:52 PM (7 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- osarobo62 at 10-04-2013 09:54 PM (7 years ago)
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wait for six months and redo your test. wahala fit dey by then.
But why did you do the marriage ceremony when there is no employment.
was getting married so urgent?
Posted: at 10-04-2013 09:54 PM (7 years ago) | Hero
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- ezchusa at 10-04-2013 10:05 PM (7 years ago)
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Roll Eyes

Posted: at 10-04-2013 10:05 PM (7 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- dlimelite at 11-04-2013 07:56 AM (7 years ago)
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Just keep praying to God All Mighty and have faith in God for tomorrow will be a new day.
Posted: at 11-04-2013 07:56 AM (7 years ago) | Hero
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- katung44 at 11-04-2013 05:29 PM (7 years ago)
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Have you told him about your feelings? I would also advise you take the matter before the prophet who joined you both. Drawing on human instinct, people would tell you to end the relationship but, ask for divine opinion and see where it goes from there.
Posted: at 11-04-2013 05:29 PM (7 years ago) | Upcoming
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- Ifemylove at 14-04-2013 08:28 PM (7 years ago)
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only prayers can solve your problem my dear..
Posted: at 14-04-2013 08:28 PM (7 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- Solidstonez at 15-04-2013 06:32 PM (7 years ago)
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Go to God in prayers

Posted: at 15-04-2013 06:32 PM (7 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- zgrena at 21-01-2015 10:22 AM (6 years ago)
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GOD is the ultimate answer to all fundamental problems.  HE is a problem solver.
Posted: at 21-01-2015 10:22 AM (6 years ago) | Newbie
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- divineproject at 21-01-2015 12:26 PM (6 years ago)
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The one and most important reason for getting married is COMPANIONSHIP, children come a distant second.  We dont see this most times while getting married, we put kids and comfort first.........Poster, see yourself as coming into his life for a reason. by the way, being HIV positive is no longer a death sentence.  open up to ur parents or those who represent them, get help for U & ur hubby, redo the test and see.  good luck and God bless and keep u.

Posted: at 21-01-2015 12:26 PM (6 years ago) | Hero
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