Do NOT Do The Following If You Discovered That Your Man Is Cheating On You ELSE!

Published 6 years ago by: chima okoro
at 01:27 PM, 26/04/2013 (6 years ago)

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When u have just discovered dat ur man is cheating on u...please do NOT do the following:- !

1. Demanding to know about the other woman: The truth may hurt u. Can you handle the truth?

 2. Insulting the other woman: Ɣ☺u are giving her power, she doesn't deserve. Especially if you insult her via your husband e.g. how is ur slut doing?
 3. Forcing him to choose, thinking he will choose you: There is no competition here-you will lose this one! She is new and they are in the honeymoon phase, you on the other hand you are his old habit.
 4. Calling him excessively to check on him like a prisoner: He may start to avoid your calls even if he is not doing anything bad just τ̅☺ protect his freedom.
5. Beating the other woman up: You are creating sympathy for her. Now she looks like your victim to him. With this one you are still giving her power.
 6. Threatening to leave just τ̅☺ scare him: You are giving him ideas. You make the grass seem greener on the other side.
 7. Crying: He wont feel sympathy for you-he will feel burdened by the tears. \
 8. Snooping: Dont hurt yourself unnecessarily. You will find what Ɣ☺u are looking for. Dont break into his e-mails, facebook,twitter, Dont scroll his cell phone and don't go through his messages.
9. Being in denial even though the signs are there: Do something about your knowledge or you will make yourself sick. Some diseases are stress-related. Deal with your issues; don't bottle them up or facebook them.
 10. Telling his mother, frds: For crying out loud! This is his mother nd friends!
11. Committing suicide: Seriously, once you're gone, you're gone! Put the phone down. It is wise τ̅☺ leave his phone alone. when Ɣ☺u are hurting, deal with your disappointment instead of going through his phone only to find more truths that will hurt you. When his phone rings, leave the room Even if its ringing unattended to, leave it alone. Don't answer his phone.

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udenzeu at 04:46 PM, 26/04/2013 (6 years ago)
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U have a point there..........woman affairs minister!
elchymo at 09:29 AM, 27/11/2014 (4 years ago)
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elchymo at 11:16 PM, 29/11/2014 (4 years ago)
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PoliticxGuru at 01:06 PM, 18/08/2015 (3 years ago)
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chealseafc at 07:25 PM, 18/08/2015 (3 years ago)
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PoliticsxGuru decoded.


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