I Cheated On My Husband And I Plan To Continue

Date: 02-05-2013 1:30 pm (10 years ago) | Author: Idbabe
- at 2-05-2013 01:30 PM (10 years ago)
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I have been the angry, unsatisfied and bitter wife for the last nine years. I'm married to a man who has absolutely no respect for the marriage institution.

photoHe has had more girlfriends than I have changed my hair since we got married. He started cheating on me months after our wedding in 2004 when I was pregnant. And it hasn't stopped ever since. Every other day a different girl, a different situation, a lot of drama. Initially he would lie or try to cover up when I ask him questions or catch him but now he tells me to go to hell and leave the marriage if I was no longer satisfied.

Well, I have four kids and I don't plan to be a single mother in this kind of environment so I'm staying put in my marriage but I'm done being the victim. Yes, I have started cheating on my husband. I am proud to say I have a boyfriend who I have regular, satisfying sex with.

And I have absolutely no plans of being the faithful wife ever again. Once this affair ends, I'm starting a new one. There's no going back now. As long as he's cheating on me, I will be cheating on me. I smile a lot these days and it's not just Jesus putting the smile on my face.

This is the happiest I have been in at least 8 years. And I also discovered that quite a number of my female friends have been cheating on their husbands for years now. Why didn't anyone give me the memo sooner? Just thought to share my happy story.

Xoxo Happy Lagos wife.

So what do you think about this? Do you support her actions of cheating on her husband because he cheats on her? Please share your views.

Posted: at 2-05-2013 01:30 PM (10 years ago) | Hero
- Afrogotojail at 2-05-2013 02:36 PM (10 years ago)
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if you like phyuk all the small small boy when dey lagos finish na you know. everyday for the theif, one day for the owner
Posted: at 2-05-2013 02:36 PM (10 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- Jayjaylove at 1-06-2013 04:32 PM (10 years ago)
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A cheating husband beget a cheating wife but illegality and illegality cannot give birth to legality. She should go and pray about it while stopping cheating on her husband to allow God to hear and answer her prayers. I pray that God Almighty will open their eyes one day and will bring their feet back from destruction.
Posted: at 1-06-2013 04:32 PM (10 years ago) | Upcoming
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- Jayjaylove at 1-06-2013 05:18 PM (10 years ago)
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Quote from: Jayjaylove on  1-06-2013 04:32 PM
A cheating husband beget a cheating wife but illegality and illegality cannot give birth to legality. She should go and pray about it while stopping cheating on her husband to allow God to hear and answer her prayers. I pray that God Almighty will open their eyes one day and will bring their feet back from destruction.
Posted: at 1-06-2013 05:18 PM (10 years ago) | Upcoming
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- abati666 at 22-08-2013 05:44 PM (10 years ago)
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MADAME GO DO AS YOU PLEASE
Posted: at 22-08-2013 05:44 PM (10 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- jossy4reall at 22-08-2013 06:47 PM (10 years ago)
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who cares

Posted: at 22-08-2013 06:47 PM (10 years ago) | Hero
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- Jokxx45 at 24-08-2013 12:14 AM (10 years ago)
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nawa for life my sister. i dont blame you one bit. men are so unfaithful at 95% of them. we women go into our marriages in good faith. somehow along the way our men start to make fools of us. more power to you. i might follow your footsteps someday, however my conscience keeps getting in my way. by the way where do you go to meet these men and dont you worry you might meet someone you know?
Posted: at 24-08-2013 12:14 AM (10 years ago) | Upcoming
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- katung44 at 25-08-2013 10:40 AM (10 years ago)
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What can I say here? I'm guessing the in-laws are more on his side than yours. Well, carry on if it makes you happy. My worry is that your children are going to be casualties of this infidelity war between you and your husband if you are not a casualty of this war between you and your husband already as you have resigned yourself to stay in a loveless marriage.
Posted: at 25-08-2013 10:40 AM (10 years ago) | Upcoming
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- Jokxx45 at 25-08-2013 05:09 PM (10 years ago)
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.......ITS VERY TOUGH ON EVERYONE ALL AROUND----THE CHEATING HUSBAND, THE WIFE WHO DECIDED TO FOLLOW HER HUSBAND FOOTSTEPS AS WELL THE KIDS INVOLVE....MY ONLY PRAYER IS THAT THEY DON'T FIND OUT...I GREW UP IN SUCH A HOME...NOW MARRIED....AND IM JUST AS DISGUSTED WITH MEN WHO CHEATS.....IS THERE A FAITHFUL MAN OUT THERE AT ALL...ANYWAY I DON'T BLAME THE WOMAN AT ALL...WOMEN ALWAYS SUFFER IN THEIR MARRIAGE ESPECIALLY WHEN KIDS ARE INVOLVE....ONLY GOD KNOWS O Embarrassed
Posted: at 25-08-2013 05:09 PM (10 years ago) | Upcoming
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- FlyMamacita at 26-08-2013 04:16 PM (10 years ago)
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What a cheating idiot husband u got there...Anyways u shud make up ur mind if

u can liv ur life like dis...som can, som cant  Wink
Posted: at 26-08-2013 04:16 PM (10 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- FlyMamacita at 26-08-2013 04:17 PM (10 years ago)
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Quote from: Jokxx45 on 25-08-2013 05:09 PM
.......ITS VERY TOUGH ON EVERYONE ALL AROUND----THE CHEATING HUSBAND, THE WIFE WHO DECIDED TO FOLLOW HER HUSBAND FOOTSTEPS AS WELL THE KIDS INVOLVE....MY ONLY PRAYER IS THAT THEY DON'T FIND OUT...I GREW UP IN SUCH A HOME...NOW MARRIED....AND IM JUST AS DISGUSTED WITH MEN WHO CHEATS.....IS THERE A FAITHFUL MAN OUT THERE AT ALL...ANYWAY I DON'T BLAME THE WOMAN AT ALL...WOMEN ALWAYS SUFFER IN THEIR MARRIAGE ESPECIALLY WHEN KIDS ARE INVOLVE....ONLY GOD KNOWS O Embarrassed

 Cool Cool
Posted: at 26-08-2013 04:17 PM (10 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- Toks-E at 29-08-2013 04:33 PM (10 years ago)
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Sad

Posted: at 29-08-2013 04:33 PM (10 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- Jokxx45 at 30-08-2013 02:47 AM (10 years ago)
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YUP....SAD......WOMEN ARE PAYING FOR EVE'S WAYWARDNESS Angry Angry Angry Angry Angry Angry Angry Angry Angry Angry
Posted: at 30-08-2013 02:47 AM (10 years ago) | Upcoming
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