Sensitive Situation: Opinion Naijapals, What Would She Do With The Pregnancy? (Page 6)

I respect ur opinion especially that last and second to last paragraph. But I don't like the way you assumed things. Why not focuse on the problem. You did talked about wht u gonna do if u were the man which is perfectly okay and right to do. But trying to add stuff like, "the woman might have been cheating on her husband before" is not relevant b'cos we don't know about that. Why would u say she might been cheating before, the husband might also be cheating on her if that is the case. So my dear there is no need adding stuff here to fit in to what u Wanna write.  You don't know if she is in love with her ex....so don't assume she is and don't assume she has been cheating on her husband and never want to conceive for him. The problem to solving an issue is when people assume things just like u did, and after assuming they will pile it up and say that is the problem and then tend to put blames. The problem is there just tell her what to do that's all. You can tell her to pack out immediately, go marry her ex, stay as a single mum, abort the baby or kill herself. That is seeking for solution and the possible best. Don't bring external factors that will bring assumptions....since we don't know that. You made your point right and correct but that assumption u added there isn't right.
P.S.      She was drunk as the story said, how could she possibly use condom?. If she had used condom that means she planed of getting layer that night. Still all the blames go to her sha, she messed up real bad as a married woman. Is her cross to carry....no one is supporting her or anything. We re just trying to find absolution on what next to do that's all (cough).