Distance Relationship. is it the best

Date: 06-05-2008 6:06 pm (13 years ago) | Author: darlyn Njoku
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- at 6-05-2008 06:06 PM (13 years ago)
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i've know this guy for about two month now, everything was was fine, i really did like him and i also know he is wit me as he said. iwas planing to travel to the country where he lives befor i met him cause i had to visit my aunt, and decided to use the opportunity to see him also but things didn't turn out the way i wanted. so the trip was cancelled. he told me he understands and not to worry that he will travel don to my hood instead. then he called me and said he was finacially unstable that i should loan him the flight $$ he will pay me back. WHAT AM I TO DO. what kind of thing is that we do not really know each other and u've started asking me for $$ so as to come see me. well i wasn't stable myself so i had nothing for him. i thought things were gonna go back to normal after that but it did not, he started pulling away, he reduce the # of times he calls and a lot of stuff. sometimes when i think about it i always tell myself to break it off with him when next we talk but when the time comes the courage to do dat won't be no longer there.what should i do?

Posted: at 6-05-2008 06:06 PM (13 years ago) | Upcoming
- yoppiedrift at 6-05-2008 08:06 PM (13 years ago)
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Just follow your mind. But from my experience, distance relationship is not the best even in a long time relationships. Although, I find it absurd for a guy to be demanding money during a 4 months relationship!
Posted: at 6-05-2008 08:06 PM (13 years ago) | Newbie
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- Vixenx at 6-05-2008 08:32 PM (13 years ago)
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Thats just crazy of him to be asking u money for his own flight to come see you. He must think you need him more than he needs you, but this i will tell you..Long distance relationships may or may not work out depending on d individuals involved, and you shouldn't be wasting your time on a guy like that cuz he's simply trying to find a way to use you and nothing else.
Posted: at 6-05-2008 08:32 PM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- Hutlikfire at 6-05-2008 09:01 PM (13 years ago)
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Geography can be a real sucker!! I'm one proud and arrogant mouse, I wouldnt do that atall, a good thing for a guy to do. Girl you deserve better.... take it or leave women are the weaker sex, you guys should be pampered not extorted from. Its all good girl.
Posted: at 6-05-2008 09:01 PM (13 years ago) | Upcoming
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- welli at 6-05-2008 09:16 PM (13 years ago)
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i dnt do distant relationship cus it seldom works out right.u just to pretend its workin till wen u can't take it no more den it break.

Posted: at 6-05-2008 09:16 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- Vixenx at 6-05-2008 10:25 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: Hutlikfire on  6-05-2008 09:01 PM
Geography can be a real sucker!! I'm one proud and arrogant mouse, I wouldnt do that atall, a good thing for a guy to do. Girl you deserve better.... take it or leave women are the weaker sex, you guys should be pampered not extorted from. Its all good girl.


I'm one proud and arrogant mouse,...abi? Grin Grin

Posted: at 6-05-2008 10:25 PM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- myragonza at 7-05-2008 07:03 AM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: Darlyn on  6-05-2008 06:06 PM
i've know this guy for about two month now, everything was was fine, i really did like him and i also know he is wit me as he said. iwas planing to travel to the country where he lives befor i met him cause i had to visit my aunt, and decided to use the opportunity to see him also but things didn't turn out the way i wanted. so the trip was cancelled. he told me he understands and not to worry that he will travel don to my hood instead. then he called me and said he was finacially unstable that i should loan him the flight $$ he will pay me back. WHAT AM I TO DO. what kind of thing is that we do not really know each other and u've started asking me for $$ so as to come see me. well i wasn't stable myself so i had nothing for him. i thought things were gonna go back to normal after that but it did not, he started pulling away, he reduce the # of times he calls and a lot of stuff. sometimes when i think about it i always tell myself to break it off with him when next we talk but when the time comes the courage to do dat won't be no longer there.what should i do?

he is one of those yahoo yahoo guys......just like how he decrease his calls,u should do the same too.....i am sure he will call u to ask for more money....just kick him away

Posted: at 7-05-2008 07:03 AM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- osituga at 7-05-2008 08:56 AM (13 years ago)
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kick him away....do you think that's the best thing
Posted: at 7-05-2008 08:56 AM (13 years ago) | Hero
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- Darlyn at 7-05-2008 01:07 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: myragonza on  7-05-2008 07:03 AM
Quote from: Darlyn on  6-05-2008 06:06 PM
i've know this guy for about two month now, everything was was fine, i really did like him and i also know he is wit me as he said. iwas planing to travel to the country where he lives befor i met him cause i had to visit my aunt, and decided to use the opportunity to see him also but things didn't turn out the way i wanted. so the trip was cancelled. he told me he understands and not to worry that he will travel don to my hood instead. then he called me and said he was finacially unstable that i should loan him the flight $$ he will pay me back. WHAT AM I TO DO. what kind of thing is that we do not really know each other and u've started asking me for $$ so as to come see me. well i wasn't stable myself so i had nothing for him. i thought things were gonna go back to normal after that but it did not, he started pulling away, he reduce the # of times he calls and a lot of stuff. sometimes when i think about it i always tell myself to break it off with him when next we talk but when the time comes the courage to do dat won't be no longer there.what should i do?

he is one of those yahoo yahoo guys......just like how he decrease his calls,u should do the same too.....i am sure he will call u to ask for more money....just kick him away
Grin Grin Grin Grin i think am gonna do dat.
Posted: at 7-05-2008 01:07 PM (13 years ago) | Upcoming
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- myragonza at 8-05-2008 06:44 AM (13 years ago)
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good luck gal....

Posted: at 8-05-2008 06:44 AM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- Darlyn at 8-05-2008 03:47 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: myragonza on  8-05-2008 06:44 AM
good luck gal....
thank u.
Posted: at 8-05-2008 03:47 PM (13 years ago) | Upcoming
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- naijainct at 8-05-2008 05:06 PM (13 years ago)
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I reserve my comments.
Posted: at 8-05-2008 05:06 PM (13 years ago) | Upcoming
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- Darlyn at 8-05-2008 08:33 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: naijainct on  8-05-2008 05:06 PM
I reserve my comments.
why?
Posted: at 8-05-2008 08:33 PM (13 years ago) | Upcoming
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- britelife at 8-05-2008 08:38 PM (13 years ago)
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Why didn't you people considered the other sex?

I am into a distant relationship with a gurl i met online.

It's going to 3yrs i met her online and we haven't seen yet she asks for money but i let her understands and yet we are still together.

What about that?
Posted: at 8-05-2008 08:38 PM (13 years ago) | Upcoming
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- vincenice at 8-05-2008 08:40 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: Darlyn on  6-05-2008 06:06 PM
i've know this guy for about two month now, everything was was fine, i really did like him and i also know he is wit me as he said. iwas planing to travel to the country where he lives befor i met him cause i had to visit my aunt, and decided to use the opportunity to see him also but things didn't turn out the way i wanted. so the trip was cancelled. he told me he understands and not to worry that he will travel don to my hood instead. then he called me and said he was finacially unstable that i should loan him the flight $$ he will pay me back. WHAT AM I TO DO. what kind of thing is that we do not really know each other and u've started asking me for $$ so as to come see me. well i wasn't stable myself so i had nothing for him. i thought things were gonna go back to normal after that but it did not, he started pulling away, he reduce the # of times he calls and a lot of stuff. sometimes when i think about it i always tell myself to break it off with him when next we talk but when the time comes the courage to do dat won't be no longer there.what should i do?


U better look 4 a way to pick up the courage to tell him that, and for ur likeness reverse the likeness oh.
dat kind guy no be 4 u oh...........................!
Posted: at 8-05-2008 08:40 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- Vixenx at 8-05-2008 11:15 PM (13 years ago)
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Distance Relationship. is it the best

Posted: at 8-05-2008 11:15 PM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- myragonza at 9-05-2008 09:55 AM (13 years ago)
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not advisable....

Posted: at 9-05-2008 09:55 AM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- olame4 at 9-05-2008 02:12 PM (13 years ago)
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distance relationship is not good @ all
Posted: at 9-05-2008 02:12 PM (13 years ago) | Upcoming
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- Olorunfemi at 9-05-2008 04:14 PM (13 years ago)
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i think it depend on party involve.
Posted: at 9-05-2008 04:14 PM (13 years ago) | Newbie
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- talk2dremx at 9-05-2008 05:35 PM (13 years ago)
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Dat guy is a scamer ....don't talk to him again.. re u new in this part of the world, if he really need u, he won't ask u of money...
Posted: at 9-05-2008 05:35 PM (13 years ago) | Newbie
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