what attracts men to women??

Date: 13-07-2013 10:41 pm (10 years ago) | Author: umeh oma
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What exactly attracts a man to a woman? Although, we live in a society where men often pretend to like a woman which might be for personal reasons, I will like to

remind you that men are more segxwal creatures than women. In as much as a man will be drawn to the physical attributes of a woman like her physicality (body

stature, lips, eyes, smile, boobs etc) as the chemistry diminishes, a man will pay more attention to the inner qualities of a woman which goes a long way to defining

the relationship between the two of them.


On this topic, we will talk about both the internal and external features that attract a man to a woman.


INTERNAL AND EXTERNAL FACTORS THAT ATTRACTS A MAN TO A WOMAN.


1.   segxwal Chemistry- Am starting with this because men are men, and this might likely be the first thing to come into his mind. A man is most likely to be attracted

to a woman with an awesome body structure. Am not saying this to please or displease any one, am just saying how it is. Some men like slim girls, some fat ones,

yet most men will strive to resist a lady that has a segxwal connection with them….it’s just chemistry.

A lady who knows body language techniques, will send a thousand signals to a man even without saying a word.

An yes, everyone loves sex, a lady who is not afraid to undertake segxwal adventures will keep a man glued to her even if he want to go.


2.   Features and Attributes- I call this the accessories. A woman with killer eyes will attracts a man, better still, a lady can melt the heart of a man if she has a

wonderful smile.  Men see women who smile a lot as the “happy ones”. It’s like an unconscious signal telling a man he can talk to you without being embarrassed,

you get? I you are the type that is always sad, most men will see you as being insecure and that’s not what we want isn’t it?


Other “accessories” are; Beauty which is the natural ingredient, hygiene common!Do I have to tell you this? Self-Care, Good Kisser, ummm this might be after he

tasted it lol, Good eye contact and the rest.

3.   Communication Skills And Sence of Humour-  Maybe you grew up isolated, or maybe you have snubbed a lot of people and have lost your communication skills

(some guys disturb so much you have to shoot them before they leave you) huh? Go and find it.  There is nothing more encouraging than a flowing discussion. You

are interested in a guy and he is trying to communicate with you and you are giving him the “yes” Maybe” “ok” etc answers arrghh most guys would conclude you’re

not interested.  Hey! I don’t mean you should talk too much, I mean you should be you. But if you like him, try and keep the discussion going.

And yes, I said it before, men love the happy ones. O you think a man should be the only one saying the funny things? I laugh you. If you know what to say to make

the discussion humorous, say it, a little laugh won’t kill. #EnoughSaid

4.   Personality/Attitude- Ever heqard of the ter “Wife Material”? This is it! It comprises of those inner positive attributes that comes to you naturally as a woman or

those you have created for yourself overtime. Re you a good listener? Are you kind? Do you have a forgiving heart?  It all matters. When a man wants a serious

relationship  he looks for these qualities


Also, a man will admire and respect you if you are intelligent.  This intelligence no be the one them they get from school ohh.


On attitude;your attitude is everything! It defines you. The way you act, the way you carry yourself; that’s you. It’s ok to have role models, but don’t be someone else,

be you!


I also want to add that it is important to apply youthfulness in your relationship. Yes we know you are matured but what is wrong if you are your hubby’s baby? We

see 16year old’s  putting on a cologne and attitude of 50year old’s and 50year old’s reminiscing about being 16. The world is not complicated enough.

5.   Dressing- this is not complicated, but lot of people make it seem like it is. There is a difference between hot and sexy. Let me use two statement to illustrate it,


Statement 1-  damn! Did you see the way she dressed? Every guy’s attention was on her, I could almost see her undies. I must fu*k her.


Statement 2- men that girl is different she always dresses responsible; this is the type of girl I will like to settle down with.
Do you still need more explanation? Here it is; PLEASE GO BACK TO SCHOOL.

6.   Self-Confidence- A confident woman is radiant, she knows how to act. The jungle is full of dangerous animals yet, the lioness walks about fearing nothing; can

you beat that? Nevertheless, never confuse confidence with arrogance; they have never been the same.


A confident woman sets standards for herself and those around her. This trait can help a woman screen out some people from her circle as insecure men will feel

inferior and won’t have the nerve to approach her.


We are only human and can’t be emotionally stable all the time, yes, but try to avoid being overly emotional. Maybe you always post about your emotions on social

networks and a few guys comment on it giving you all sort of sweet words; don’t be deceived, if you continue like that you will be seen as insecure and as one who

lacks confidence. Sometimes we need a shoulder to lean on, but doing this all the time doesn’t even seem right to you does it?

7.   Money/Wealth- I once read a story about a tower where men go to shop for women. The first tower has beautiful women; the second has beautiful kind women

who are wealthy. All the men that went to shop for women in the tower stopped shopping when they got to second tower. Do you get? What else does a man want? 

A man will be happy to provide for his woman, but if the woman is wealthy, doesn’t it make things easier?


But it all depends. A generous man who has all the money to spend won’t complain. But generally speaking, wealthy women attract men shikena!

Before I conclude, I must add that there is one natural reason why a man will be attracted to a woman, and that’s LOVE. Yes, I believe in love. You may be beautiful, ugly, short, kind, think about any mixture, but if love infects you, you have no other choice than to be attracted to each other.

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