My Husband Cannot Satisfy Me In Bed Anymore

Published 5 years ago by: asdjdeg jdrgek
at 09:43 AM, 25/09/2013 (5 years ago)

(75 | Newbie) (m)

I married at the age of 20 and I’m currently 41 years old with six children.
My husband is 53. When we got married, I didn’t have urge for sex but since I turned 39, my sexual urge has increased. I now lust after men.
My problem now is that my husband ejaculates even before we start sex.
Please what can I do?
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sophiebaby at 10:03 AM, 25/09/2013 (5 years ago)
(31065 | Addicted Hero) (f)

Stop lusting after men and Help your husband, tell him to try these

1. He should wear a condom. It sounds too simple to be true, but it works for a lot of men. Condoms reduce stimulation for most men, which should prolong the time before ********

2. Reduce anxiety. For many men anxiety and pressure to perform is a major contributor to premature ********. Relax and remember that you his partner probably cares about more than the timing of his orgasms, and that premature ******** doesn't mean he can't still be good in bed.

He should take climaxing out of his expectations. Instead of viewing intercourse only as a means of achieving orgasm, he should reframe it as relaxing, pleasurable time with you his partner that He'll enjoy regardless of ********. you both should discuss the new mindset, so that she can stop pressuring you, intentionally or not.

3. Think nonsexual thoughts. If he notice himself getting too excited, he should turn his thoughts to something distant, abstract and unsexy, such as math, rush hour traffic etc. Only dwell on it long enough to give himself a short break from arousal, maybe 5 to 10 seconds, then he should refocus his attention on you. he should avoid thinking of a topic that is going to make him stressed or cause him to lose your arousal entirely.

4. He should  Change positions. Some intercourse positions put less pressure on the glans (or the most sensitive part of the peen). Here's what he'll do madam:

he should try "passive" positions. Lie beneath you female partner, or try a side-by-side (or spooning) position.
Avoid "active" positions. Missionary and rear-entry positions place the most stimulation and friction on the glans, so consider taking them off the menu for now.

WARNINGS:::: he shouldnt let  anxiety about premature ******** stop him from having sex. Sex can be beneficial to people by lowering stress levels and has even been found to reduce the risks of prostate cancer in males. If he is concerned about his performance, he should focus on stimulating you his in ways besides just intercourse.

He should do PC muscle exercises. Flexing and strengthening his pubococcygeus (PC) muscle can help him exert more control over ********. (Note that these are also called Kegel exercises, which you might have heard about women doing. The muscle is the same in both sexes.)

If he routinely ejaculate less than a minute and a half after beginning honeypotl intercourse, and none of the above fixes have worked, it might be time to see a medical professional. You can visit a sex therapist, psychologist, or psychiatrist for help.

HE SHOULDN'T  FORGET FOREPLAY ..............Good Luck!

sophiebaby at 10:17 AM, 25/09/2013 (5 years ago)
(31065 | Addicted Hero) (f)

to add to what i have said above, Sexual responsiveness between partners varies for reasons ranging from skill and technique to psychology and anatomy.



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