‘It Still Feels Like Yesterday’, Stella Damasus Writes Letter To Late Husband

Date: 03-12-2013 10:43 pm (8 years ago) | Author: Victor A. Ofoma
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‘It still feels like yesterday’, Stella Damasus writes touching letter to late husband


Stella Damasus’ late husband Jaiye Aboderin passed away exactly nine years ago. The actress says ‘it still feels like yesterday’

Wow! It’s amazing how time flies. It’s been nine years since you left us and it still feels like yesterday. I guess it’s because I remember too many things and feel all the emotions like they just happened. I woke up this morning with thoughts and visions of you, wondering what you could be doing right now and the number of new friends and angels you would be chatting with now.

You were always the man of the people; who loved to put smiles on faces, especially mine.

I also wondered what and who you would expect me to be now. I wondered if I have done justice to at least a huge portion of all the plans we had together.

Before I got out of bed I wanted to make sure that wherever you are, there would still be a smile on your face when you see how far I have gone. I nodded my head, smiled and got up because I knew that God heard us those nights we held hands and prayed together, asking for his help in accomplishing what we set out to do, especially in the lives of our children Isabel and Angelica. He has done great things in our lives and has continued to be there for us.



Jaiye, your girls miss you so much and I have made sure that whenever they hear any of your songs, they know it’s you because that voice has remained in their hearts. Isabel still tells me how she knows that her shoe size came from you and Angelica insists that her height has nothing to do with me but owes it to you. Above all they know and will always know what a wonderful and loving father you were. Nothing will ever change that no matter what.

As I always say ‘time does not heal wounds, it only makes the load and pain lighter. Only God can heal wounds’.

Today I am writing this letter to you and I am not crying, instead I am smiling because in my heart I know you are in the best place ever, where your laughter will resonate.

I miss you so much my love and I know that when the time comes I will see you again.



Okay, let me go and face the world now. You are so lucky because you no longer have to deal with all the hate, gossip, backbiting, deception, oppression, sickness, war, accidents, disasters, robbery and all the other things the rest of us have to deal with.

Rest in the arms of The Lord JAY.

Let me go and continue with all the negativity the world brings. My happiness is that I am not going alone, my God is with me all the way.

Posted: at 3-12-2013 10:43 PM (8 years ago) | Gistmaniac
- osamabinladin at 3-12-2013 10:57 PM (8 years ago)
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I am having goose pimples !
Posted: at 3-12-2013 10:57 PM (8 years ago) | Hero
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- jar84 at 3-12-2013 10:58 PM (8 years ago)
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gud 1
Posted: at 3-12-2013 10:58 PM (8 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- DrSoba at 3-12-2013 11:11 PM (8 years ago)
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Hmmmm................So inspiring
Posted: at 3-12-2013 11:11 PM (8 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- zoe61 at 3-12-2013 11:15 PM (8 years ago)
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oooh
Posted: at 3-12-2013 11:15 PM (8 years ago) | Hero
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- Garethhills at 3-12-2013 11:36 PM (8 years ago)
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phyck.... cries my d**k out
Posted: at 3-12-2013 11:36 PM (8 years ago) | Upcoming
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- paulohking at 3-12-2013 11:53 PM (8 years ago)
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Roll Eyes
Posted: at 3-12-2013 11:53 PM (8 years ago) | Hero
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- kazaries at 3-12-2013 11:55 PM (8 years ago)
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hmmmmmmmmmmmmmm
Posted: at 3-12-2013 11:55 PM (8 years ago) | Newbie
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- 2bify at 4-12-2013 12:45 AM (8 years ago)
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TOUCHING
Posted: at 4-12-2013 12:45 AM (8 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- ajanni at 4-12-2013 01:33 AM (8 years ago)
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sorry woman
Posted: at 4-12-2013 01:33 AM (8 years ago) | Grande Master
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- opty at 4-12-2013 03:13 AM (8 years ago)
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And the Lord Almighty will continue to be with you.
Posted: at 4-12-2013 03:13 AM (8 years ago) | Upcoming
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- henry1973 at 4-12-2013 03:14 AM (8 years ago)
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awesome  real touching,He that watch over Israel who neither sleep nor slumber is in charge of your case and that of your family.
you are the  Ruth of our days, a ventiuse woman of our time,you stand out among women,may God bless you and keep you, the girls will excel in all ways.
NAC {Nigeria Association Canada} wishes the best in life
Posted: at 4-12-2013 03:14 AM (8 years ago) | Upcoming
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- opty at 4-12-2013 03:16 AM (8 years ago)
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And the Lord Almighty will continue to be with you.
Posted: at 4-12-2013 03:16 AM (8 years ago) | Upcoming
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- cruzing at 4-12-2013 03:30 AM (8 years ago)
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REAL TOUCHING
Posted: at 4-12-2013 03:30 AM (8 years ago) | Upcoming
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- toibeli at 4-12-2013 04:10 AM (8 years ago)
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All you've got to do is move on Sad
Posted: at 4-12-2013 04:10 AM (8 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- Solidstonez at 4-12-2013 04:45 AM (8 years ago)
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Touching

Posted: at 4-12-2013 04:45 AM (8 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- Solidstonez at 4-12-2013 04:46 AM (8 years ago)
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May his soul rest in peace

Posted: at 4-12-2013 04:46 AM (8 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- Joacy at 4-12-2013 05:48 AM (8 years ago)
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Wow!that is a very gud1,move on d lord almighty wil c u tru
Posted: at 4-12-2013 05:48 AM (8 years ago) | Upcoming
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- Oyinminijoor at 4-12-2013 06:09 AM (8 years ago)
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Its well
Posted: at 4-12-2013 06:09 AM (8 years ago) | Upcoming
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- Dames at 4-12-2013 06:38 AM (8 years ago)
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Pele ehn...
Posted: at 4-12-2013 06:38 AM (8 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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