My girlfriend recently broke my heart, the pain is too much. I have applied all personally prescribed antidotes to overcome the trauma, all to no avail. I have lost appetite for food and have not eaten for over five days now. My heart bumps fast, and sometimes my body shakes. I need urgent solution before it gets worse. If my girlfriend comes back to me, i will be fine again, but she has vehemently refused to see me again. She is reconciling with her former boy friend. I need help urgently.
Posted: at 7-08-2009 02:26 PM (14 years ago) | Upcoming
erikaakpan at 7-08-2009 02:53 PM (14 years ago) (f)
Time heals all wounds. Heal your heart by spending a lot of time doing something you really love. Give yourself time. This type of healing can't be rushed
Flirtation: Attention without intention.
Posted: at 7-08-2009 02:53 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
U'l be fine if U really want to be. This sounds cruel but Ur not the first guy a girl he loved broke his heart. Think of it as shock treatment and an opportunity for Ur heart to learn how to heal. Life's full of ups and downs. Hearts were broken before U were born, hearts will be broken when U are gone. How U handles it will be Ur legacy. U have to pull Urself together.
Cry Ur heart out. I would if I were U. Then ask God to help U heal properly and love again when the time is right.
Be strong! If U need someone to talk to, PM me. Just dont expect anything typical. I myt be nasty. Its another form of shock treatment.
Posted: at 7-08-2009 02:59 PM (14 years ago) | Hero
Wow, your heart is broken, if i were u - I would tie stones round my neck and jump into the sea. Damn, she dumped you... thats really bad...
Ok now for the advice....
You have to get her out of your sight, mind & life. Just forget about her, because shes not worth u -- u deserve someone better..... she only claimed she loved you because of something, which might no longer be there... and remember some girls are really short sighted. Focus on some other things in your life and stay closer to your usual friends -- (not your common friends) ... and enjoy life
please do not distract and keep discussions along line of topic - make proper use of capit
Posted: at 7-08-2009 03:01 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
I will never fade and I will never blend....not here to be ur friend or enemy, i say what i ave to say & i'll be out as soon as i'm done, not hard to find & not here to keep i'm the beauty that you can never sight asleep!
Posted: at 7-08-2009 03:11 PM (14 years ago) | Hero
My girlfriend recently broke my heart, the pain is too much. I have applied all personally prescribed antidotes to overcome the trauma, all to no avail. I have lost appetite for food and have not eaten for over five days now. My heart bumps fast, and sometimes my body shakes. I need urgent solution before it gets worse. If my girlfriend comes back to me, i will be fine again, but she has vehemently refused to see me again. She is reconciling with her former boy friend. I need help urgently.
u've not eaten for five days... men add more... just make it 40 days and 40 nights without eating... fasting and praying i guess when u die ur girl will come back to you.... u r so dumb..
Posted: at 7-08-2009 03:17 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
My girlfriend recently broke my heart, the pain is too much. I have applied all personally prescribed antidotes to overcome the trauma, all to no avail. I have lost appetite for food and have not eaten for over five days now. My heart bumps fast, and sometimes my body shakes. I need urgent solution before it gets worse. If my girlfriend comes back to me, i will be fine again, but she has vehemently refused to see me again. She is reconciling with her former boy friend. I need help urgently.
it sounds like she left u for no good reasons. well...take it easy. u r d one who will free yaself from this pain. if possible, i think u should take two weeks vacation. if u truelly love her, u will let kick her off your mind, and if she comes back then she is yours. what will be will always b. Ku luck!
Posted: at 8-08-2009 12:11 AM (14 years ago) | Hero
My girlfriend recently broke my heart, the pain is too much. I have applied all personally prescribed antidotes to overcome the trauma, all to no avail. I have lost appetite for food and have not eaten for over five days now. My heart bumps fast, and sometimes my body shakes. I need urgent solution before it gets worse. If my girlfriend comes back to me, i will be fine again, but she has vehemently refused to see me again. She is reconciling with her former boy friend. I need help urgently.
Time they say heals all wounds. but my dear if dont have time 2 waste then just go and throw urself inside river Naija. its d quickest way 2 end wat u re feeling right now...... hisssssssssssssssssssssss
Posted: at 8-08-2009 01:13 AM (14 years ago) | Hero
davidmicky at 8-08-2009 10:38 AM (14 years ago) (m)
Hey my brother, you can,t fight nature what is yours will definitely be yours try to attach yourself in other activities to keep yourself busy if she is for you definitely she will come back to you but if she not for you Dude you can starve till 2010 maybe turn to kolo mental.
Love comes Natural............ Never try to force Love..............who knows maybe she accepted you because she had a heartbreak then with the X. and now they have settles there dispute, so she was liking you not loving you Better choose someone that love not like.
Posted: at 8-08-2009 10:38 AM (14 years ago) | Newbie
ourhearts at 9-08-2009 04:39 PM (14 years ago) (m)
Ladies and Gentlemen of Niaja Pals, i thank you all for your wonderful suggestions on my heartbreak saga. I am acting on the best option which says time heals. I cannot commit suicide or jump river Niger. I cannot arrange another babe sharp sharp as one of my dudes suggested. I have started engaging myself in several social activities mostly on the internet. It is not easy as many of us thought, but time heals. I sometimes cry my heart out, and shed more tears to relieve myself of the inner pains. For most of you guys who have negative idea of loving a woman, try it. It really helps. It gives you the energy to work harder knowing you have responsibility (Your woman's needs). It gives you hope for tomorrow. It makes you live for someone, it makes you feel cherished, loved, valued, and honored. You might be under stress at work and your woman calls you with that passionate voice of care....HONEY HOW IS WORKING GOING?......the sweet voice will certainly stimulate your organs, and energizes you to work longer and faster. Don't get me wrong. It feels good to love someone and someone loves you back. I think for the time being..my love will find me.
Posted: at 9-08-2009 04:39 PM (14 years ago) | Upcoming