Here is what Toni Payne wrote on her blog yesterday, after her tweets on relationships and marriage went viral on blogs. She said she will say it once and for all that she NEVER cheated on 9ice while their one year and a half-year marriage lasted.
To those who still believe I cheated on my ex. I am sorry to disappoint you, I never cheated on my ex hubby. Its not who I am, it will never be who I am. Tell yourself 1 million times, Toni Payne cheated, it will never make it true. Nobody caught me in any lie, or in any bad situation, nobody slept with anyone he was close to. Yall need to put a full stop to that bullsh*t. Its old!. Sometimes, men want their freedom, and the fact is you cant force them to stay. Same goes for women. Everyone wont have a perfect relationship, not everyone will stay married forever, we can only aspire to. Even those that have been married 10 years and are busy judging others, do you know your tomorrow? naaaa you sure don’t so curb it abeg. We can only pray, work, and hope for a good union.
Anyways To address this my ex said this or that issue. Let me just say He has NEVER for once opened his mouth to accuse me of cheating. He has NEVER for once opened his mouth to accuse me of sleeping with anyone he knows. If awon alaiye baje wanna use our situation then to sell their crap, how is that my fault? The same media controlling the remote to say I think cheating is ok, are the same who controlled the remote back then to say his song was about me. Nobody ever called him to verify or ask before publishing. Ill admit that we both did not handle the situation well back then, It was the first time we would experience such. The tension was plenty and emotions were everywhere. We should have sorted it privately. which we did try to do but one rubbish headline and emotions go buckwild again. I don’t wanna sounding like I am defending him, cos he is responsible for himself, but in all fairness to him, and because I have a conscience that serves me well, not for once did he tweet, fb, email, interview anything of the sort. Our issues had absolutely nothing to do with what the media were speculating. People took a song he did and turned it upside down. My crew MIXED AND MASTERED the song. If it was about me, why would I allow him release it. God gave all of us sense naa.. Some just chose not to use theirs and chose to believe anything they read even when the facts are there to sort through.
The only thing I have blamed him for, was not coming out on time to refute the claims and allowing it to escalate to that level, he has since apologized SEVERALLY, we have discussed it privately as we should have from the jump. I have accepted and moved on. I have also apologized for losing my cool on twitter, he has since accepted and moved on. Really, what more is there. I am not sure what people want from me. Should I hate him forever? Should I tie him to a post and flog him mercilessly? Should I be a wicked person and deprive him of his son? If I remain bitter and upset, please what value will it add to my life? Wo, my life is much more simpler than all this. Those who know me well, know this. Those that dont understand me are the ones who will be forever outside looking in, speculating crap. I am truly tired of this topic but since it seems to keep popping up, i felt it is best to finally address it properly. If anyone decides to hang on to the lie after this, that is their own cup of tea. I have a talk show to record, poetry to write and a child to raise. I don talk my own. FIN!.
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Posted: at 29-01-2014 11:04 AM (10 years ago) | Addicted Hero
Chylove247 at 29-01-2014 11:27 AM (10 years ago) (f)
Ok
Posted: at 29-01-2014 11:27 AM (10 years ago) | Gistmaniac
I believe big sister. some people talk becus they rotten smellin mouth to talk. ( Ma, i have been tryin 2 get incontact wit u, am a musicul artist in benue. dis my contact, 07066137062 -email- [email protected]. pls, i want 2 talk wit you.
Posted: at 29-01-2014 11:32 AM (10 years ago) | Upcoming
I believe big sister. some people talk becus they rotten smellin mouth to talk. ( Ma, i have been tryin 2 get incontact wit u, am a musicul artist in benue. dis my contact, 07066137062 -email- [email protected]. pls, i want 2 talk wit you.
Hahahahahahaha mumu, she don call u but ur number saying " the person you re trying to reach is out of this world, so do not try again" hahaha
Posted: at 29-01-2014 11:48 AM (10 years ago) | Upcoming
holluomo at 29-01-2014 11:49 AM (10 years ago) (m)
Abeg! Wetin concern agbero with over load.....wetin concern me with una palava? Una dash me money when Una marry so why should I be bothered if una live una self! Abeg joor.....go! Them talk say U cheat...U come here con dey rake, dey lament....U think sey we be MUMU readers! U cheat......na allegation and 'anything' can be alleged like OBJ dey always talk. Instead make U come out with explanation.......U come dey rake....dey abuse. Abeg go siddon joor.......since when!?
Posted: at 29-01-2014 11:49 AM (10 years ago) | Newbie
hismahill at 29-01-2014 11:52 AM (10 years ago) (m)
Quote from: IDOKOO on 29-01-2014 11:32 AM
I believe big sister. some people talk becus they rotten smellin mouth to talk. ( Ma, i have been tryin 2 get incontact wit u, am a musicul artist in benue. dis my contact, 07066137062 -email- [email protected]. pls, i want 2 talk wit you.
Seriously? Who told you she's on Naijapals? If you want to reach her search for her name on twitter,mention her using her handle @blablabla she will surely reply you..btw Good luck
Posted: at 29-01-2014 11:52 AM (10 years ago) | Upcoming
Wysetots at 29-01-2014 12:12 PM (10 years ago) (m)
Quote from: IDOKOO on 29-01-2014 11:32 AM
I believe big sister. some people talk becus they rotten smellin mouth to talk. ( Ma, i have been tryin 2 get incontact wit u, am a musicul artist in benue. dis my contact, 07066137062 -email- [email protected]. pls, i want 2 talk wit you.
E be like you no read say na Death Penalty for Cyber Crimes now.
Posted: at 29-01-2014 12:12 PM (10 years ago) | Hero
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