Nigerian men in The US, Killing Their Imported Wives From Nigeria

6 years ago by: uduak Sophia Monday
(f) at 5-02-2014 11:24AM (6 years ago)

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Not every man can take the disappointing and humiliation from NIgeria wives imported to America. Wives killers on rampage in the US
An Epidemic: Nigerian Men Killing Their Nurse Wives In America "Yes, I have killed the woman that messed up my life; the woman that has destroyed me. I am at Shalom West. My name is David and I am all yours.” Those were David Ochola’s words during his 911 (U.S. Emergency Number) call to authorities after shooting dead, his 28 years old wife, Priscilla Ochola, in Hennepin, Minnesota.

The 50-years old, husband was tired of being “disrespected” by his wife, a Registered Nurse (RN) whom he had brought from Nigeria and sponsored through nursing school only to have her make much more than him in salary - a situation which led to Mrs. Ochola “coming and going as she chose without regard for her husband.”
The couple had two children – four years old boy and a three year old girl.

In Texas, Babajide Okeowo had been separated from his wife, Funke Okeowo, with whom he resided at their Dallas home. Upon the divorce, the husband lost the house to his wife, along with most of the contents therein, as is usually the tradition in the U.S. Divorces where the couple still has underage children.
Mr. Okeowo, 48, divorced his wife because not long after she became an RN and made more money than him, she “took control” of the family finances and “controlled” her husband’s expenditure and movement.
The husband could no longer make any meaningful contribution to his family back in Nigeria unless the wife “approved” it. He could not go out without her permission. Frustrated that his formerly malleable wife had suddenly become such a “terror” to him to the point of asking for in court and getting virtually everything for which he had worked since coming to the US thirty years prior, the husband got in his vehicle and drove a few hundred miles to Dallas to settle the scores.

He found her in her SUV, adorned in full Nigerian attire on her way to the birthday bash organized in her honor. She had turned 46 on that day. Mr. Okeowo fired several rounds into his wife’s torso while she sat at the steering wheel, mercilessly killing her in broad daylight.

Also in Dallas (they sure need anger management classes in Dallas), Moses Egharevba, 45, did not even bother to get a gun. The husband of Grace Egharevba, 35, bludgeoned her to death with a sledge hammer while their seven year old daughter watched and screamed for peace.
Mrs. Egharevba’s “sin” was that she became an RN and started to make more money than her husband. This led to her “financial liberation” from a supposedly tight-fisted husband who had not only brought her from Nigeria, but had also funded her nursing school education.

Like Moses Egharevba, Christopher Ndubuisi of Garland, Texas, (these Texas people!) also did not bother to get a gun. He crept into the bedroom where his wife, Christiana, was sleeping and, with several blows of the sledge hammer, crushed her head.
Two years before Christiana was killed, her mother, who had been visiting from Nigeria, was found dead in the bathtub under circumstances believed to be suspicious.

Of course, Christiana was a RN whose income dwarfed that of her husband as soon as she graduated from nursing school. The husband believed that his role as a husband and head of the household had been usurped by his wife.
Mr. Ndubuisi’s several entreaties to his wife’s family to intercede and bring Christiana back under his control had all failed.

If the circumstances surrounding the death of Christiana’s mother were suspicious, those surrounding the death of a Tennessee woman’s mother were not. Agnes Nwodo, an RN, lived in squalor before her husband, Godfrey Nwodo, rescued her and brought her to the US. He enrolled her in nursing school right away. Upon qualifying as a RN, Mrs. Nwodo assumed “full control” of the household. She brought her mother to live with them against her husband’s wishes. Mrs. Nwodo quickly familiarized herself with US Family Laws and took full advantage of them.
Each time the couple argued, the police forced the husband to leave the house whether he had a place to sleep or not. On many occasions, Mr. Nwodo spent days in police cells. Upon divorcing his wife, Mr. Nwodo lost to his wife, the house he had owned for almost 20 years before he married her.
He also lost custody of their three children to her, with the court awarding him only periodic visitation rights. Even seeing the children during visitation was always a hassle as the wife would “arrive late at the neutral meeting place and leave early with impunity.”

Mr. Nwodo endured so many embarrassing moments from his wife and her mother until he could take it no more. One day, he bought himself a shotgun and killed both his wife and her mother.

Caleb Onwudike’s wife, Chinyere Onwudike, 36, became a RN and no longer saw the need to be controlled by her husband. Mr. Onwudike, 41, worked two jobs to send his wife to her dream school upon bringing her to the US from Nigeria. After four years, she qualified as an RN. Once she started to make more money than her husband, she began to “call the shots” at home. She “overruled” her husband on the size and cost of the house they purchased in Burtonsville, Maryland. She began to build a house solely in her name in their native Umuahia town of Abia State, Nigeria, without her husband’s input whatsoever.

Mrs. Onwudike came and went “as she liked,” within the US and outside the US. In fact, she once travelled to Nigeria for three weeks “without her husband’s permission” to lavishly bury her father, despite her husband’s protestations that they had better things to do with the money.
Mrs. Onwudike let her husband know that this was mostly her money and she would spend it however she wanted. Through her hard work, she had risen to a managerial position at the medical center where she worked.
Upon her return from burying her father, her husband got one of her kitchen knives and carved her up like a Thanksgiving turkey inside their home on New Year’s Day.

Death is death, no matter how it comes. But the goriest of these maniacal killings is probably the one that happened in Los Angeles, California.
Joseph Mbu, 50, was tired of his RN wife’s “serial disrespect” of him. The disrespect began as soon as she became a RN. Gloria Mbu, 40, had once told her husband he must be “smoking crack cocaine” if he thought he could tell her what to do with her money now that she made more money than him.

Before she became a RN, Mr. Mbu had been very strict with family finances and was borderline dictatorial in his dealings with Mrs. Mbu. However, Mrs. Mbu learned the American system and would no longer allow any man to “put her down.” When Joseph Mbu could not take it anymore, he subdued his wife one day, tied her to his vehicle and dragged her on paved roads all around Los Angeles until her head split in many pieces"".....Jeez! Nd all dese bcos of women's financial liberation frm dia Husbys??? Chai!

Hmmmm.....wot more can one say? Is dis Intolerance,Provocation or plain Wickedness from our menfolks?



Chylove247 (f) at 5-02-2014 11:47AM
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Seen
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richiestone (m) at 5-02-2014 12:12PM
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Ok!
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richiestone (m) at 5-02-2014 12:23PM
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That is why  I left USA for Europe. In USA you dream big but when you realised your dream  its always come with side effect, big price, either your wife divorce and take every thing you own including your kids or some thing else. There is somethings about that country America that make every body go crazy.
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sayiyke (m) at 5-02-2014 03:04PM
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Yes, this is true. I know the story of that of the man called "David". I think his name was change to protect the identity. Personally, I know him.
But come to think of all of this, what's with the RN wife's and their sudden chance of loyalty and a wife?! The U.S government should look into such Nigerian family and give them orientation courses on how to manage their homes with their partner who have showed them love by paying their so called, "own" money to bring them to the U.S, put them through Nursing School and supported them through it. After their "money" started coming through, it became, their "own" money, no longer the family money and the man is no longer the head of the family because he is not "making enough money"...more than this same woman who is still his wife he funded through the program that is giving her the so called, "my own" money.
The is an African man we are talking about here. That grow up with a culture of wives being submissive and respectful to their husbands and their husbands providing and loving her wife and children. They both now living in a foreign country to make greener living, does not mean that the woman would now use the laws and culture of the country they are in to "over shadow" her husband and throw away their own cultural values they have known and grew up with.
This will go a long way to drive any average reasoning African man insane. I rest my take.
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osarobo62 (m) at 5-02-2014 03:50PM
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@Sophiebaby,
how have you been doing for the past couple of months? hope things are okay.
nice to see you again
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darlington_iyke (m) at 5-02-2014 06:55PM
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well not surprised at all wen someone said that soon men will be scarce for women...In Europe, Nigerian and Jamaican Ladies are irresponsible...When you bring the woman you want to marry from Nigeria, she pretends as if she loves you...just give her 6months or if she has two children for you then you will see her real character... that why most of them here now are looking for husband...they believe money is everything most especially those from a poor background and most times, our men are at fault...why would you want to marry a lady that you are 20yrs older than and from a poor background so you can control her? Definitely expect something big coming your way if you are not careful...To me a Nigerian lady is not worth it here except those who grew up in europe...A friend told me "if you marry a Nigerian lady, you have married the whole family"
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Wysetots (m) at 6-02-2014 04:25AM
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Quote from: osarobo62 on  5-02-2014 03:50PM
@Sophiebaby,
how have you been doing for the past couple of months? hope things are okay.
nice to see you again

How exactly can you see her from this post? Huh? Huh? Huh?
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iLanGrL (f) at 6-02-2014 06:42AM
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When you marry just because Nnnnash'calling your name then you will suffer the consequences. Why is it that Nigerian men believe that they have to go back n marry Nigerian women. Gone are those days. My husband is Nigerian and he brought his Nigerian wife here when he was in his 20's. She listened to her friends and left him with 4 kids and he raised them alone 4 ten years. I am a Caribbean woman and We've been married for 14 yrs with 2 Kids and he swears if i leave him he will marry a Japanese woman before he marry another Nigerian woman. (nothing against Japanese) but thatold 'marry your country people'  tradition is not working in this Nollywood/Hollywood era.
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tommy70 (m) at 20-12-2016 10:05PM
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 Huh? Huh? Huh? Huh? Huh? Huh? Huh? Huh? Huh? Lips Sealed Lips Sealed Lips Sealed Lips Sealed Lips Sealed Lips Sealed
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chimexcel (m) at 20-12-2016 10:33PM
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He could have choose to give her way. Relocate himself let the woman be.
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