There are a lot of threads about people ending up in a physically or mentally abusive relationship. For the most part, usually the abuser ends up being left , because most agree that they can not change unless they want to. My question is, do most abusers just keep going through victims until they find one that puts up with it in the long term. Do they just keep changing partners? Or do they eventually as they age end up alone? In some cases, I have seen where they finally meet their match and either getting it back or end up in jail, so they decide that they need to change because they can`t get away with it any more. I have seen a few abusers stopping when they have a partner that is tough enough and threatens to really do something about it if they don`t cut it out. Just wondering what other people have seen and where do these broken people end up?
I would think if they all ended up alone, it would only make sense that the older you got, the dating scene would end up with a higher and higher percentage of them, so you would really need to watch out for this personality in older dating. What do you think?
Posted: at 27-08-2009 02:06 PM (15 years ago) | Gistmaniac
There are a lot of threads about people ending up in a physically or mentally abusive relationship. For the most part, usually the abuser ends up being left , because most agree that they can not change unless they want to. My question is, do most abusers just keep going through victims until they find one that puts up with it in the long term. Do they just keep changing partners? Or do they eventually as they age end up alone? In some cases, I have seen where they finally meet their match and either getting it back or end up in jail, so they decide that they need to change because they can`t get away with it any more. I have seen a few abusers stopping when they have a partner that is tough enough and threatens to really do something about it if they don`t cut it out. Just wondering what other people have seen and where do these broken people end up?
I would think if they all ended up alone, it would only make sense that the older you got, the dating scene would end up with a higher and higher percentage of them, so you would really need to watch out for this personality in older dating. What do you think?
well some do change, nd make life easy for themselves..the ones dat don't, end up wit broken marriages/relationships etc
2.0.
Posted: at 27-08-2009 06:39 PM (15 years ago) | Addicted Hero
There are a lot of threads about people ending up in a physically or mentally abusive relationship. For the most part, usually the abuser ends up being left , because most agree that they can not change unless they want to. My question is, do most abusers just keep going through victims until they find one that puts up with it in the long term. Do they just keep changing partners? Or do they eventually as they age end up alone? In some cases, I have seen where they finally meet their match and either getting it back or end up in jail, so they decide that they need to change because they can`t get away with it any more. I have seen a few abusers stopping when they have a partner that is tough enough and threatens to really do something about it if they don`t cut it out. Just wondering what other people have seen and where do these broken people end up?
I would think if they all ended up alone, it would only make sense that the older you got, the dating scene would end up with a higher and higher percentage of them, so you would really need to watch out for this personality in older dating. What do you think?
seating & curing ppl on drug abuse
Posted: at 28-08-2009 02:12 AM (15 years ago) | Gistmaniac