Do abusers end up alone?

Date: 27-08-2009 2:06 pm (15 years ago) | Author: PRINCE OBINECHE
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There are a lot of threads about people ending up in a physically or mentally abusive relationship. For the most part, usually the abuser ends up being left , because most agree that they can not change unless they want to. My question is, do most abusers just keep going through victims until they find one that puts up with it in the long term. Do they just keep changing partners? Or do they eventually as they age end up alone?
In some cases, I have seen where they finally meet their match and either getting it back or
end up in jail, so they decide that they need to change because they can`t get away with it any more. I have seen a few abusers stopping when they have a partner that is tough enough and threatens to really do something about it if they don`t cut it out.
Just wondering what other people have seen and where do these broken people end up?

I would think if they all ended up alone, it would only make sense that the older you got, the dating scene would end up with a higher and higher percentage of them, so you would really need to watch out for this personality in older dating. What do you think?

Posted: at 27-08-2009 02:06 PM (15 years ago) | Gistmaniac
- esonu at 27-08-2009 02:08 PM (15 years ago)
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no rather they end up living with their fellow abusers

Posted: at 27-08-2009 02:08 PM (15 years ago) | Hero
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- welli at 27-08-2009 02:14 PM (15 years ago)
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Do abusers end up alone?
Nah!! There will always be an ignorant person somewhere
who would put up with the act.

Posted: at 27-08-2009 02:14 PM (15 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- rosearch at 27-08-2009 02:21 PM (15 years ago)
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passing - going to look 4 someone 2 abuse  Grin
Posted: at 27-08-2009 02:21 PM (15 years ago) | Upcoming
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- princemech at 27-08-2009 02:24 PM (15 years ago)
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 Grin Grin Grin Grinno let them..........
Posted: at 27-08-2009 02:24 PM (15 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- onchedu at 27-08-2009 02:47 PM (15 years ago)
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... Someone Ignorant or desperate.
Posted: at 27-08-2009 02:47 PM (15 years ago) | Hero
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- around_d_corner at 27-08-2009 02:53 PM (15 years ago)
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all i know is this two wrongs can't make a rite.............. one must giv up 4 d other.....
Posted: at 27-08-2009 02:53 PM (15 years ago) | Hero
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- Akpan01 at 27-08-2009 02:58 PM (15 years ago)
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I DONNO COUD BE

Posted: at 27-08-2009 02:58 PM (15 years ago) | Hero
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- around_d_corner at 27-08-2009 03:03 PM (15 years ago)
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Quote from: Akpan01 on 27-08-2009 02:58 PM
I DONNO COUD BE
why?
Posted: at 27-08-2009 03:03 PM (15 years ago) | Hero
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- welli at 27-08-2009 03:05 PM (15 years ago)
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Quote from: around_d_corner on 27-08-2009 02:53 PM
all i know is this two wrongs can't make a rite.............. one must giv up 4 d other.....
Expatiate more on this line. . . . . . .Can You?

Posted: at 27-08-2009 03:05 PM (15 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- around_d_corner at 27-08-2009 03:18 PM (15 years ago)
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Quote from: welli on 27-08-2009 03:05 PM
Quote from: around_d_corner on 27-08-2009 02:53 PM
all i know is this two wrongs can't make a rite.............. one must giv up 4 d other.....
Expatiate more on this line. . . . . . .Can You?
when u see one isn't appreciatin ya relationship, and u ve made all effort to plz him or ha  with no head way all u need to do is jus to quite.......
Posted: at 27-08-2009 03:18 PM (15 years ago) | Hero
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- Beauti4 at 27-08-2009 03:21 PM (15 years ago)
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brb
Posted: at 27-08-2009 03:21 PM (15 years ago) | Hero
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- around_d_corner at 27-08-2009 03:24 PM (15 years ago)
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Quote from: Beauti4 on 27-08-2009 03:21 PM
brb
ok
Posted: at 27-08-2009 03:24 PM (15 years ago) | Hero
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- Toks-E at 27-08-2009 06:39 PM (15 years ago)
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Quote from: princemech on 27-08-2009 02:06 PM
There are a lot of threads about people ending up in a physically or mentally abusive relationship. For the most part, usually the abuser ends up being left , because most agree that they can not change unless they want to. My question is, do most abusers just keep going through victims until they find one that puts up with it in the long term. Do they just keep changing partners? Or do they eventually as they age end up alone?
In some cases, I have seen where they finally meet their match and either getting it back or
end up in jail, so they decide that they need to change because they can`t get away with it any more. I have seen a few abusers stopping when they have a partner that is tough enough and threatens to really do something about it if they don`t cut it out.
Just wondering what other people have seen and where do these broken people end up?

I would think if they all ended up alone, it would only make sense that the older you got, the dating scene would end up with a higher and higher percentage of them, so you would really need to watch out for this personality in older dating. What do you think?


well some do change, nd make life easy for themselves..the ones dat don't, end up wit broken marriages/relationships etc

Posted: at 27-08-2009 06:39 PM (15 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- McBona at 28-08-2009 02:12 AM (15 years ago)
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Quote from: princemech on 27-08-2009 02:06 PM
There are a lot of threads about people ending up in a physically or mentally abusive relationship. For the most part, usually the abuser ends up being left , because most agree that they can not change unless they want to. My question is, do most abusers just keep going through victims until they find one that puts up with it in the long term. Do they just keep changing partners? Or do they eventually as they age end up alone?
In some cases, I have seen where they finally meet their match and either getting it back or
end up in jail, so they decide that they need to change because they can`t get away with it any more. I have seen a few abusers stopping when they have a partner that is tough enough and threatens to really do something about it if they don`t cut it out.
Just wondering what other people have seen and where do these broken people end up?

I would think if they all ended up alone, it would only make sense that the older you got, the dating scene would end up with a higher and higher percentage of them, so you would really need to watch out for this personality in older dating. What do you think?


seating & curing ppl on drug abuse
Posted: at 28-08-2009 02:12 AM (15 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- Akpan01 at 28-08-2009 01:05 PM (15 years ago)
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Quote from: around_d_corner on 27-08-2009 03:03 PM
Quote from: Akpan01 on 27-08-2009 02:58 PM
I DONNO COUD BE
why?
U PREFER TO STAY WITH AN ABUSER??

Posted: at 28-08-2009 01:05 PM (15 years ago) | Hero
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- MrDon at 28-08-2009 01:14 PM (15 years ago)
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too long, summarise pls
Posted: at 28-08-2009 01:14 PM (15 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- McBona at 29-08-2009 02:54 AM (15 years ago)
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looking around for sm cops
Posted: at 29-08-2009 02:54 AM (15 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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