I'm Tired Of Keeping My "Thing" Until After Marriage

Date: 07-05-2014 8:45 am (9 years ago) | Author: Olayahu
- at 7-05-2014 08:45 AM (9 years ago)
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I'm a 25 years old lady. Growing a good relationship has been a daunting challenge for me, it just won't last. Sometimes my fellow ladies take him from me or lack of séx causes our separation even after letting him know from the beginning that I am totally for a no séx before marriage relationship. At first they would accept only to walk out when I have fallen in love.
 
Some of these men have been good to me but séx is the only barrier. Some said I'm too rigid. I have really worked on my character because at some point I thought I was lacking some good morals. My friends always advice me that séx keeps relationship going.

But I want to know, can't one have a healthy relationship without séx?

As a vir-gin, if I desire for a man's affection, is it wrong? I really need advice because I'm heart broken now. And I'm beginning to have a rethink on my determination to keep "my thing" until after marriage.

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Posted: at 7-05-2014 08:45 AM (9 years ago) | Newbie
- kalasamp at 7-05-2014 11:08 AM (9 years ago)
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u no serious
Posted: at 7-05-2014 11:08 AM (9 years ago) | Newbie
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- biodun365 at 7-05-2014 02:31 PM (9 years ago)
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please if you need someone to love you for real lets meet up am one of those old fashioned believer in sex after marriage and romance is the core for me instead of randy raunchy sex which diffuses the affection after,you can hook up with me through this forum my number is 07064......the rest when you reply.
Posted: at 7-05-2014 02:31 PM (9 years ago) | Newbie
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- Chylove247 at 7-05-2014 08:09 PM (9 years ago)
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Next please.
Posted: at 7-05-2014 08:09 PM (9 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- Afrogotojail at 8-05-2014 09:56 AM (9 years ago)
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Your body your choice
Posted: at 8-05-2014 09:56 AM (9 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- katung44 at 14-05-2014 04:05 AM (9 years ago)
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Its your body. However, you need to watch out for guys who just want sex not a relationship. Its really frustrating because there's so much hypocrisy in the world today. Guys say they don't want a girl who is cheap and easy and complain when a girl does not give them sex easily. I feel your pain anyway even though I'm a man myself. Just find a man who blends with you very well. The giving up your 'thing' can come in later. From the picture you have up there, the men who left must be quite stupid
Posted: at 14-05-2014 04:05 AM (9 years ago) | Upcoming
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- jukkiebukwes at 15-05-2014 03:28 PM (9 years ago)
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You're on the right track. Do not give up. Sure its difficult but hold on, the right man will come. Meanwhile try as much as you can not to provoke them segxwally, dress decently...what do you sell to these men? What do they see? Do you taunt them and then expect them not to want you? Be wise! If the above pix u shared is you then you should have a rethink of what you really want. do not listen to your friends, it sure pays and believe me you will laugh last. its not how fast but how well. Also get closer to God, you will get the strength needed to hold on. Goodluck
Posted: at 15-05-2014 03:28 PM (9 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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