Marriage Secrets Every Man Should Know

Date: 28-05-2014 3:40 pm (9 years ago) | Author: uduak Sophia Monday
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- at 28-05-2014 03:40 PM (9 years ago)
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1. Men, if you keep spending on a woman and she never asked you if you’re saving or investing, and she keeps enjoying the attention, don’t marry her.

2. Men, a woman could be a good wife to you, some could be a good mother to your children but if you’ve found a woman like a mother to you, your children and your family, please don’t let her go.



3. Men, don’t confine the position of your wife to the kitchen, where did you get that from? Even in our days, your fathers had farm-lands where they worked every morning . . . that was their office.

4. Men, if you your wife that you’re the head of the house, don’t look at your pocket; look if you will see a smile on your wife’s face.

5. Men, if you want to have a long life, let your wife be in-charge of your salary, it will be difficult for her to spend it when she’s aware of the home needs and bills to pay but if it’s in your care, she will keep you asking even when all has been spent.

6. Men, don’t ever beat your woman, the pain in her body is nothing to be compared to the wound on her heart and that means you may be in trouble living with a wounded woman.

7. Men, now that you’re married, if you live a bachelor kind of life with your wife, you will soon be single again.

8. Men, in your fathers days, they had many wives and many children because of their large farm-lands and many harvests, there are hardly any land for farming anymore, so embrace your woman closely.

9. Men, under the cocoa tree that your father did meet your mother could be your eateries and restaurants of nowadays, but remember, the closet thing they did there was to embrace each other.

10. Men, don’t be carried away when you start making more money, instead of spending on those tiny legs that never knew how hard you worked to get it, spend it on that woman that stood by you all along.

11. Men, when your fathers threw little stones or whistled at the window of your mother father’s house, to call her out, it was not for sex, it was because I missed her so much.

12. Men, remember, when you say your wife has changed, there could be something you’ve stopped doing too.

13. Men, your mother,  rode the bicycle with your father before he bought that tortoise car outside there, any woman that won’t endure with you in your little beginning should not enjoy your riches.

14. Men, don’t compare your wife to any woman, there are ways she’s enduring you too and has she ever compared you to any man?

15. Men, there is this thing you people call feminism, well, if a woman claim to have equal right with you in the house, divide all the bills into two equal parts, take one part and ask her to start paying the other part.

16. Men, your fathers met your mother a virgin and took more yams to her father, if you don’t meet your wife a virgin, don’t blame her, what they didn’t tell you is that our women had prestige.

17. Men, our fathers those days didn’t send your sisters to school because they were foolish like many to think a female child won’t extend  family name, please don’t make that mistake, the kind of female achievers I see nowadays has made the male-gender an ordinary tag.

18. Men, your mother have once locked up the cloth your father was wearing and almost tore it because she was angry, he did not raise his hand to beat her because of a day like this, so that he can be proud to tell you that he never for once beat your mother.

19. Men, in the olden days, our women had more of natural beauty, though your fathers  wouldn’t lie to you, some had minor painting of their appellation mostly on their arms, the ones you people now call tattoo, but don’t forget that they didn’t expose any part of their body like your women of nowadays.

20. Men, your mother and your father are not interested in what happens in your marriage, try to handle issues without always going to them.

21. Men, remember your father bought your mother’s first sewing machine for her, help your wife achieve her dreams just as you’re pursuing yours.

22. Men, don’t stop taking care of your father and your mother, it’s a secret of growing old and having children to take care of you too.

23. Men, pray with your family, there is a tomorrow you don’t know, talk to God that knows everything, everyday.


Posted: at 28-05-2014 03:40 PM (9 years ago) | Addicted Hero
- odimajorr at 29-05-2014 10:38 AM (9 years ago)
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Nice piece.

Posted: at 29-05-2014 10:38 AM (9 years ago) | Upcoming
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- chicent2k3 at 29-05-2014 10:43 AM (9 years ago)
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Pauldinnie and daveobahon, pls take notice.
Posted: at 29-05-2014 10:43 AM (9 years ago) | Upcoming
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- daveobahon at 29-05-2014 10:57 AM (9 years ago)
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Lovely I ve written dem dwn
Posted: at 29-05-2014 10:57 AM (9 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- graceoneday at 29-05-2014 11:02 AM (9 years ago)
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Yea, Mom told me about it when i was still a little boy. She said to me "son", crime does not pay, she also said to me education is the key. But gov't incremental don cause many crimes in the society today. So take your time and accept the teachings of Jesus Christ and flee from condemnation
Posted: at 29-05-2014 11:02 AM (9 years ago) | Upcoming
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- pauldinnie at 29-05-2014 11:06 AM (9 years ago)
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Nice one 4 d men in d house. Cheesy
Posted: at 29-05-2014 11:06 AM (9 years ago) | Upcoming
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- beneno at 29-05-2014 11:39 AM (9 years ago)
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 Roll Eyes  Roll Eyes  Roll Eyes  Roll Eyes
Posted: at 29-05-2014 11:39 AM (9 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- brennyj at 29-05-2014 12:09 PM (9 years ago)
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great....
Posted: at 29-05-2014 12:09 PM (9 years ago) | Newbie
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- schmit at 29-05-2014 01:22 PM (9 years ago)
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some of the points were very funny, na true word ooooo
Posted: at 29-05-2014 01:22 PM (9 years ago) | Hero
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- beejaybabs at 29-05-2014 01:52 PM (9 years ago)
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And sophie is a marriage counsellor abi

Posted: at 29-05-2014 01:52 PM (9 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- satsaver at 29-05-2014 02:28 PM (9 years ago)
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kudos
Posted: at 29-05-2014 02:28 PM (9 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- Wysetots at 29-05-2014 03:39 PM (9 years ago)
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Nice
Posted: at 29-05-2014 03:39 PM (9 years ago) | Hero
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- queenbabe at 29-05-2014 04:01 PM (9 years ago)
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Ok
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- okilo101 at 29-05-2014 04:10 PM (9 years ago)
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K
Posted: at 29-05-2014 04:10 PM (9 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- KingSagarath at 29-05-2014 04:17 PM (9 years ago)
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nice one
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- dondada4040 at 29-05-2014 05:49 PM (9 years ago)
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Men make sure you make more money than your wife if you can and also make sure your income is very stable and consistent or you will face their altitude which is very bad.
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- Nicksam at 29-05-2014 07:34 PM (9 years ago)
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 Grin Grin Grin Grin
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- osamabinladin at 29-05-2014 08:24 PM (9 years ago)
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 Cool
Posted: at 29-05-2014 08:24 PM (9 years ago) | Hero
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- okonkwosangel at 29-05-2014 09:41 PM (9 years ago)
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Real nice
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- prudie at 29-05-2014 09:48 PM (9 years ago)
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nice
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