Guys: Can You Start Relationship With Someone That Has Children Before? (Page 4)

Published On: June 1, 2014, 12:49 pm (6 years ago)
Author: katrien
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Quote from: dondada4040 on  2-06-2014 02:41 PM
The age matters a lot to me, I met one woman somewhere around the world, she looks young and beautiful at 37 but her daughter is 19 with a child, Oboy you wan make I turn grandfather when I never born my own, this one na grandfather by inheritance. Check the matter if e pure.

hahaha nobody dey call for bad tin abeg
Anyways in dis case u r right e no dey rily make sense..so if u rily like d pesin u go deny am
Bcos of d pikin abi
Posted: (6 years ago) on 3-06-2014 09:13 PM | Addicted Hero
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Quote from: christianity on  2-06-2014 05:57 PM
poster,is it a crime to have children??

certainly not a crime but e different frm havin ur own and takin care of an oda man pikin
Posted: (6 years ago) on 3-06-2014 09:15 PM | Addicted Hero
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Quote from: Jimblack22 on  3-06-2014 12:13 AM
INFACT AM DATING ONE AS IT STANDS NOW

Pls share ur experience wit us
Posted: (6 years ago) on 3-06-2014 09:16 PM | Addicted Hero
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Quote from: Neglito on  3-06-2014 08:59 AM
Nope, I hate to drive tokumbo cars,

 Grin
Posted: (6 years ago) on 3-06-2014 09:16 PM | Addicted Hero
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Quote from: Fazob on  3-06-2014 10:34 AM
Majority agreed poster, so what next

nd wot do u say
Posted: (6 years ago) on 3-06-2014 09:18 PM | Addicted Hero
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Quote from: mensch on  3-06-2014 11:46 AM
I will never do that, unless for green card. Upon all this beautifull girls around .

i reserve my comment  Grin
Posted: (6 years ago) on 3-06-2014 09:18 PM | Addicted Hero
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Quote from: helsinkinwata on  3-06-2014 08:32 PM
First of all, one has to consider oneself before anything. Have you impregnated or coerced a woman into having an abortion before? If the answer is NO, save it. Second of all, have you been once married with children or did you by chance have a child or children with someone before? If the answer is NO, still save it! Finally, are you marrying on grounds of desperation or mutual benefit? If it turns out to be NO, why marry someone with a child when in the long run, you'll start having problems with the person? Question is, in the quest to getting married and asking God for a life partner, do you actually ask God for someone with a child or children? Why the excess baggage?

In spite of how righteous and pretentious some folks tend to be on this forum, they will not do it deep down. I hate self-righteousness. Trying to come here and pretend like you are in support of people marrying those with kids. Some even go to the extent of saying they will marry divorcees. Divorce can only be made possible and lawful on the grounds of adultery. So would you marry a woman who divorced the husband other than adultery?

Everyone should go to God in prayers and ask for their life partners and not come on this forum to paint a picture of perfection.


Pls sir lemme ask u sometin...A young woman, lets say 23, get married nd after 6 months got preggy. Her husband na Police he be. One night she get call frm d office sayin her hubby got shot nd died.
She is left wit d pikin nd no husband.....My question is, does dis woman not deserve to b loved again?

Nobody dey pray to meet partner wey get child already..also nobody dey aks to get sick,lose job in economic crisis,be cheated on etc but tins happen in dis life. Am sure God is there for divorced women as well...
Posted: (6 years ago) on 3-06-2014 09:25 PM | Addicted Hero
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My dear, I understand your explanations perfectly well. However, when you start having your own kids, there is absolutely no way you will love yours and his/hers equally. Fine, even if you do, your partner will think otherwise especially when it comes to discipline. That way, there will constantly be trouble in the home. I know exactly what I am saying. If you know you are not ready for such, why go after someone with kids when you are ready to have yours? It is very much okay for 2 divorced people to marry each other. It makes it a lot easier than a bachelor marrying a divorcee or single parent. Believe me when I say, it is excess baggage.
Posted: (6 years ago) on 4-06-2014 10:02 AM | Upcoming
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Quote from: FlyMamacita on  3-06-2014 09:25 PM
Pls sir lemme ask u sometin...A young woman, lets say 23, get married nd after 6 months got preggy. Her husband na Police he be. One night she get call frm d office sayin her hubby got shot nd died.
She is left wit d pikin nd no husband.....My question is, does dis woman not deserve to b loved again?

Nobody dey pray to meet partner wey get child already..also nobody dey aks to get sick,lose job in economic crisis,be cheated on etc but tins happen in dis life. Am sure God is there for divorced women as well...

 My dear, I understand your explanations perfectly well. However, when you start having your own kids, there is absolutely no way you will love yours and his/hers equally. Fine, even if you do, your partner will think otherwise especially when it comes to discipline. That way, there will constantly be trouble in the home. I know exactly what I am saying. If you know you are not ready for such, why go after someone with kids when you are ready to have yours? It is very much okay for 2 divorced people to marry each other. It makes it a lot easier than a bachelor marrying a divorcee or single parent. Believe me when I say, it is excess baggage.
Posted: (6 years ago) on 4-06-2014 10:03 AM | Upcoming
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Quote from: helsinkinwata on  4-06-2014 10:03 AM
My dear, I understand your explanations perfectly well. However, when you start having your own kids, there is absolutely no way you will love yours and his/hers equally. Fine, even if you do, your partner will think otherwise especially when it comes to discipline. That way, there will constantly be trouble in the home. I know exactly what I am saying. If you know you are not ready for such, why go after someone with kids when you are ready to have yours? It is very much okay for 2 divorced people to marry each other. It makes it a lot easier than a bachelor marrying a divorcee or single parent. Believe me when I say, it is excess baggage.


I do agree it makes things much more difficult...So u believe its better for a
Single mother to find a single father as well? So they r both in d same situation
Posted: (6 years ago) on 4-06-2014 03:11 PM | Addicted Hero
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