![-]( "simele") simele at 16-09-2009 01:53 PM (14 years ago)  (m) as they said, it is good for both(guy & the lady) to start sometin 2geda frm d beginning.but cum 2 tink of it,if ure not able 2 cater 4 ur family ''children'' dey will end up doin wat is not rite.as ibobobelvis said our parent made d same mistake and we d children are payin for it seriously.so my dear fink twice b4 u make ur decision.i believe u knw wat is best for u.
sure  | Posted: at 16-09-2009 01:53 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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![-]( "questa") questa at 16-09-2009 02:11 PM (14 years ago) (m) as they said, it is good for both(guy & the lady) to start sometin 2geda frm d beginning.but cum 2 tink of it,if ure not able 2 cater 4 ur family ''children'' dey will end up doin wat is not rite.as ibobobelvis said our parent made d same mistake and we d children are payin for it seriously.so my dear fink twice b4 u make ur decision.i believe u knw wat is best for u.
sure Making sense! | Posted: at 16-09-2009 02:11 PM (14 years ago) | Upcoming | |
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![-]( "simele") simele at 16-09-2009 02:16 PM (14 years ago) (m) as they said, it is good for both(guy & the lady) to start sometin 2geda frm d beginning.but cum 2 tink of it,if ure not able 2 cater 4 ur family ''children'' dey will end up doin wat is not rite.as ibobobelvis said our parent made d same mistake and we d children are payin for it seriously.so my dear fink twice b4 u make ur decision.i believe u knw wat is best for u.
sure Making sense! all Right | Posted: at 16-09-2009 02:16 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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![-]( "cofa") cofa at 16-09-2009 06:28 PM (14 years ago) (m) for me to be prepared means being able undertake and discharge responsibilities, and to be responsible and ready means to be fit to take care more than one persons needs, mind you not just finance but advance in wisdom and maturity to handle issues bcos so many are very buoyant but cannot wihstand some challenges. but it must be noted that you must be financially buoyant enough to take care of the families needs. | Posted: at 16-09-2009 06:28 PM (14 years ago) | Newbie | |
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![-]( "sunnypro") sunnypro at 17-09-2009 10:30 AM (14 years ago) (m) We believes that woman is a blessing from God and as a helper to man, any little resources u have ur helper will assist u to deverlop it. as the said behind any successful man must be woman. | Posted: at 17-09-2009 10:30 AM (14 years ago) | Newbie | |
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![-]( "simele") simele at 17-09-2009 11:00 AM (14 years ago) (m) I want general contribution from the Naijapals on this issue:
Some people I know go on marriage with little resources- money & the likes. some said they have to do it because of age(time). Some claim money will come after marriage or first child? Is this really true. Is this advisable? Can you marry with little resources? How much little can you manage? What about fear of transcending poverty from one generation to another because of your impatience or ill planning. Arrgh!
My brother, if you understand poetry, here is my take: Dilemma of Love http://extramantra/2009/08/poem-dilemma-of-love.html no understanding | Posted: at 17-09-2009 11:00 AM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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![-]( "oyemike") oyemike at 17-09-2009 02:49 PM (14 years ago) (m) MONEY IS NOT ALL ABOUT MARRIAGE BUT LOVE AND UDERSTANDING MONEY IS GOOD BUT NOT THE BASIS OF MARRIAG THE MAN AND WOMAN JUST HAVE TO AGREED AND BELIEVE GOD FOR PROVISION AND SUPPLY IF YOU GO TO MARRIAGE ON THE BASIS OF MONEY YOU WILL REGRET AT THE END IF YOU AS A MAN DON'T HAVE A JOB LOOK FOR A JOB FIRST AND GOD WILL BLESS YOU EMMANUEL OYEMIKE 17-09-09 | Posted: at 17-09-2009 02:49 PM (14 years ago) | Newbie | |
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![-]( "questa") questa at 17-09-2009 03:54 PM (14 years ago) (m) MONEY IS NOT ALL ABOUT MARRIAGE BUT LOVE AND UDERSTANDING MONEY IS GOOD BUT NOT THE BASIS OF MARRIAG THE MAN AND WOMAN JUST HAVE TO AGREED AND BELIEVE GOD FOR PROVISION AND SUPPLY IF YOU GO TO MARRIAGE ON THE BASIS OF MONEY YOU WILL REGRET AT THE END IF YOU AS A MAN DON'T HAVE A JOB LOOK FOR A JOB FIRST AND GOD WILL BLESS YOU EMMANUEL OYEMIKE 17-09-09
God bless you too! | Posted: at 17-09-2009 03:54 PM (14 years ago) | Upcoming | |
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![-]( "charlydyke") charlydyke at 17-09-2009 04:31 PM (14 years ago) (m) this very topic just caused very heated argument amongst 7 men inside our office. for myself, i believe that a man should have means of livelihood before marriage. yes, marriage is not all about money but money is very important for survival. am not saying you must be millionaire but at least have something doing that at the end of the day/month, you have something in your pocket, so you can take care of your family. so my dear, before marriage try and find a means of steady income, no matter how little (though not too little). | Posted: at 17-09-2009 04:31 PM (14 years ago) | Newbie | |
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![-]( "adedun") adedun at 17-09-2009 04:37 PM (14 years ago) (m) I want general contribution from the Naijapals on this issue:
Some people I know go on marriage with little resources- money & the likes. some said they have to do it because of age(time). Some claim money will come after marriage or first child? Is this really true. Is this advisable? Can you marry with little resources? How much little can you manage? What about fear of transcending poverty from one generation to another because of your impatience or ill planning. Arrgh!
faith is good wen u get the outcome but if fate turns against you, even GOd will blame you | Posted: at 17-09-2009 04:37 PM (14 years ago) | Upcoming | |
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![-]( "questa") questa at 17-09-2009 05:47 PM (14 years ago) (m) I want general contribution from the Naijapals on this issue:
Some people I know go on marriage with little resources- money & the likes. some said they have to do it because of age(time). Some claim money will come after marriage or first child? Is this really true. Is this advisable? Can you marry with little resources? How much little can you manage? What about fear of transcending poverty from one generation to another because of your impatience or ill planning. Arrgh!
faith is good wen u get the outcome but if fate turns against you, even GOd will blame you Shed more light | Posted: at 17-09-2009 05:47 PM (14 years ago) | Upcoming | |
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![-]( "SexyJuly") SexyJuly at 17-09-2009 05:56 PM (14 years ago) (f) Married with a little resource...
Dats y im divorcing u. | Posted: at 17-09-2009 05:56 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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![-]( "brightagwu") brightagwu at 17-09-2009 06:29 PM (14 years ago) (m) i think you dont ve 2 be a millionaire before u get married. if u can run ur wedding ceremony without borrowing(money....), u're fit for marriage. | Posted: at 17-09-2009 06:29 PM (14 years ago) | Newbie | |
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![-]( "SexyJuly") SexyJuly at 17-09-2009 06:31 PM (14 years ago) (f) ok | Posted: at 17-09-2009 06:31 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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![-]( "akjasper") akjasper at 17-09-2009 08:06 PM (14 years ago) (m) I want general contribution from the Naijapals on this issue:
Some people I know go on marriage with little resources- money & the likes. some said they have to do it because of age(time). Some claim money will come after marriage or first child? Is this really true. Is this advisable? Can you marry with little resources? How much little can you manage? What about fear of transcending poverty from one generation to another because of your impatience or ill planning. Arrgh!
Money aint all, even if u are nt boyant enough, u might be suprise on d turn arnd u will get after marriage...is all abt better morrow wit God by Ur side . | Posted: at 17-09-2009 08:06 PM (14 years ago) | Hero | |
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![-]( "Kennee") Kennee at 17-09-2009 08:28 PM (14 years ago) (m) I'm thinking, maybe, women are too demanding. Aren't they?
Not me! how sure are u Talking about myself here not someone else, Remember?! Yeah, yu're talkin Financially here, but l suspect yu're demanding in other aspects... It shows   l Like dis yur Tongue ooo  Yu go use am on me? 
WHEN YU DIE YU TAKE NOTHING WITH YU, SO PLS PUT A SMILE ON YUR NEIGHBOR'S FACE | Posted: at 17-09-2009 08:28 PM (14 years ago) | Addicted Hero | |
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![-]( "questa") questa at 18-09-2009 09:24 AM (14 years ago) (m) this very topic just caused very heated argument amongst 7 men inside our office. for myself, i believe that a man should have means of livelihood before marriage. yes, marriage is not all about money but money is very important for survival. am not saying you must be millionaire but at least have something doing that at the end of the day/month, you have something in your pocket, so you can take care of your family. so my dear, before marriage try and find a means of steady income, no matter how little (though not too little).
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You are supported my dear! | Posted: at 18-09-2009 09:24 AM (14 years ago) | Upcoming | |
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am still so young to even think of marriage | Posted: at 18-09-2009 09:26 AM (14 years ago) | Hero | |
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![-]( "questa") questa at 18-09-2009 11:04 AM (14 years ago) (m) am still so young to even think of marriage
how old is young to learn? | Posted: at 18-09-2009 11:04 AM (14 years ago) | Upcoming | |
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married is a serious issue GOD ordain it 4the 2shall become one the man will live his father why the woman will live her mother,both of them are now one flesh,inside the wedding b4 the promises of GOD will now bcoming 2manifes like children house, car but both of them need 3understand their self. | Posted: at 18-09-2009 11:57 AM (14 years ago) | Newbie | |
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