SAD: 21 year old Student Hangs Self After Girlfriend Jilted Him In Cross River

Date: 12-07-2014 8:33 am (9 years ago) | Author: Victor A. Ofoma
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Friends and family members of a 21-year-old student of Maritime Academy Oron, Effiong Otu are at a loss why he committed suicide by hanging himself on a rope in his room on Thursday morning after he was jilted by his girl friend.

Vanguard reports that Ann, Effiong's family member said Effiong was found hanging in his room at Diamond Hill, a few minutes after he collected a rope from neighbours who became suspicious soon after he went inside his room with the rope wondering what he wanted to use it for. His mother Grace Otu, a nurse at the University of Calabar Teaching Hospital had just left the house at about 3pm on that fateful day.

Ann said:

The 10th of July was the 10th anniversary of his father’s death in a car accident and after the anniversary and everyone had left the house including his mother, he went to a neighbour and borrowed a rope which he took to his room and hung himself. 
The neighbours became suspicious of what he was doing in his room with the rope and decided to rush there but found the door to the room locked and before they could force the door open he had died.”

She said before he hung himself, he called one of his friends, Adu on phone requesting him to tell his girl friend, Blessing who works with the UNICEM that she should now be happy that he has killed himself for her.
“Before his friend could rush to the house, the door had already been forced open by neighbours and Effiong’s body was hanging from the ceiling of the house”.
Ann stated that Effiong was an only son of the family and was given the late father’s name as a source of succor for the family but “he has again left us by this thoughtless action”

Perhaps to give an inkling of his planned action , Effiong had posted his Facebook page on the 6th of July the following message:

“It’s not about being engaged, married or in a relationship. It’s about being happy, safe, secured, relieved and feeling good. It’s about peaceful state of mind, it’s about sleeping at night without the fear of losing what you’ve got.
It’s being yourself and not someone else, it’s about feeling loved, happy, respected, understood, cared for and appreciated.! Goodnight my beautiful people!!

Efforts to speak with Hogan Bassey, the Cross River State Police Public Relations Officer did not yield any success as his phone was switched off. Effiong’s body has been removed and deposited at the General Hospital, Calabar mortuary.

Posted: at 12-07-2014 08:33 AM (9 years ago) | Gistmaniac
- seveneleven at 12-07-2014 08:37 AM (9 years ago)
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mumu. so all this women wey full everywhere you no see anyone abi.. anyway as you say you will die for her.. you don kill yourself.. she will now have the chance to enjoy her life even with your friends
Posted: at 12-07-2014 08:37 AM (9 years ago) | Upcoming
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- bomaleah at 12-07-2014 08:42 AM (9 years ago)
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Imagine ! go tell God say na Blessing make u commit sucide.
Posted: at 12-07-2014 08:42 AM (9 years ago) | Newbie
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- dareper at 12-07-2014 09:04 AM (9 years ago)
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Woman, una see the kind destruction wey una dey cause for this world. Hmmm. There is God ooo. Hopea 23 dearis God oo
Posted: at 12-07-2014 09:04 AM (9 years ago) | Hero
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- Nicksam at 12-07-2014 09:36 AM (9 years ago)
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RUBBISH DECISION
Posted: at 12-07-2014 09:36 AM (9 years ago) | Hero
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- kirianiki at 12-07-2014 09:50 AM (9 years ago)
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See Matter...Effiong Otu!..U no try at-all,killing urself over A woman,why?.instead u for manage hopea23.to cure ur konji now.b4 u strike another babe
Posted: at 12-07-2014 09:50 AM (9 years ago) | Newbie
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- Freshlycrazy at 12-07-2014 09:52 AM (9 years ago)
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another mumu
Posted: at 12-07-2014 09:52 AM (9 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- schmit at 12-07-2014 12:17 PM (9 years ago)
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Y guys come dey do dis to themselves na
Posted: at 12-07-2014 12:17 PM (9 years ago) | Hero
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- dynasty4all at 12-07-2014 12:22 PM (9 years ago)
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COWARD
Posted: at 12-07-2014 12:22 PM (9 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- faka4u at 12-07-2014 01:47 PM (9 years ago)
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Eyah,,,,,nt a vctor,,,might be spiritual doe
Posted: at 12-07-2014 01:47 PM (9 years ago) | Upcoming
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- raybenzino at 12-07-2014 07:35 PM (9 years ago)
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Oh shit
Posted: at 12-07-2014 07:35 PM (9 years ago) | Upcoming
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- chicco77 at 12-07-2014 08:01 PM (9 years ago)
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RIP
Posted: at 12-07-2014 08:01 PM (9 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- rzq2012 at 12-07-2014 08:17 PM (9 years ago)
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 Roll Eyes Roll Eyes Roll Eyes Roll Eyes Roll Eyes Roll Eyes Roll Eyes Roll Eyes Roll Eyes Roll Eyes Roll Eyes Roll Eyes Roll Eyes Roll Eyes Roll Eyes Roll Eyes Roll Eyes Roll Eyes odee
Posted: at 12-07-2014 08:17 PM (9 years ago) | Newbie
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- osamabinladin at 12-07-2014 08:17 PM (9 years ago)
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 Roll Eyes
Posted: at 12-07-2014 08:17 PM (9 years ago) | Hero
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- winace at 12-07-2014 10:00 PM (9 years ago)
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Hmmmmmmmmm
Posted: at 12-07-2014 10:00 PM (9 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- winace at 12-07-2014 10:04 PM (9 years ago)
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Hmmmmmmmmm
Posted: at 12-07-2014 10:04 PM (9 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- radiusman at 13-07-2014 12:30 AM (9 years ago)
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Your friend go dey hammer blessing mumu
Posted: at 13-07-2014 12:30 AM (9 years ago) | Newbie
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- deboalabi262 at 13-07-2014 02:25 AM (9 years ago)
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Mumu of the highest order... Huh?

Posted: at 13-07-2014 02:25 AM (9 years ago) | Hero
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- papadip at 13-07-2014 04:29 AM (9 years ago)
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Just too young…
May his soul “Rest in Peace

Posted: at 13-07-2014 04:29 AM (9 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- papadip at 13-07-2014 04:31 AM (9 years ago)
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There is no need to condemn this young man… he is a victim of mental illness.

Suicide is a mental decease which can be cured if detected early.
…. I hope it does not happen to any of our friends and relatives.

Posted: at 13-07-2014 04:31 AM (9 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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