Why VERY INTELLIGENT Men Fail With Women

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at 24-09-2009 04:52PM (10 years ago)

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The Ten Reasons Why HIGHLY INTELLIGENT
Men Fail With Women... AND WHAT TO DO ABOUT IT...


UNUSUALLY intelligent men have very LOW levels of success with women and dating and I will show you why.

After contemplating this particular paradox,
discussing it, and working on it for sometime,
I would like to share my thoughts about it with you.

Smart people get used to being "right",
because they usually ARE right.

And when you are RIGHT more often than others,
you can get ahead in many situations.
But unfortunately, this smart mind of yours can actually be
WORSE than USELESS when it comes to a key area of life:

WOMEN AND DATING.

By the way, I did say WORSE than useless.

It can actually be like having a hammer when you need to tighten a bolt.
If you use the tool you have for the job, you will most likely make the situation WORSE.

Of course, it is hard for a smart guy to even IMAGINE a situation where
his smart mind could HURT his chances for success...

But trust me; this is one of those situations.

So relax, open your smart mind,
and let me share with you the ten reasons why smart guys fail with women...
and what to do about it.


REASON Number 1: THEY ARE WRONG, BUT THEY CAN'T
OR WON'T SEE IT OR ADMIT IT


I mentioned that smart guys are used to being RIGHT in most situations.

And what do most smart guys do when they come across a situation where they are WRONG?

They find a new situation... one that fits their strength.
They know they will be right next time, so they just walk away...
knowing that it won't be long before they are right again.


(OR they let the "problem situation" destroy them... more on that later.)

Well, the problem and funny thing about being wrong when it comes to women and dating is THERE IS NOWHERE TO RUN AND HIDE!

There is no quick "I'm right" around the next corner to make you feel better.

It only takes "failing" with a few women in a row for a smart guy to see the pattern...
and realize that something isn't working.

Solution? Think harder.

A smart guy just assumes that his logic must be good...
so he just keeps thinking harder.

But when no success comes,
it really starts to become mentally difficult.

Accepting that you are wrong is a VERY hard thing for a "smart guy".

Accepting that you are not only wrong,
but you have NO CLUE WHERE TO EVEN START is even more difficult.

Ultimately, many smart guys come up with the following logical conclusion:

I AM A SMART GUY, THEREFORE IF I CAN'T FIGURE OUT HOW TO BE SUCCESSFUL WITH WOMEN AND DATING, THEN THE PROBLEM MUST NOT BE SOLVABLE OR WORTH SOLVING. Grin


Try that on for a self-defeating idea: I will be back!


SexyJuly at 24-09-2009 04:57PM (10 years ago)
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Mchew!
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teeco at 24-09-2009 05:00PM (10 years ago)
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Story

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endy4tified at 24-09-2009 05:02PM (10 years ago)
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Quote from: teeco on 24-09-2009 05:00PM
Story


true story
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SexyJuly at 24-09-2009 05:03PM (10 years ago)
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Timaya.
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HOPEA23 at 24-09-2009 06:33PM (10 years ago)
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long thing

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luvvy at 24-09-2009 06:44PM (10 years ago)
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another Dguy's family
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teeco at 25-09-2009 05:07PM (10 years ago)
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Quote from: luvvy on 24-09-2009 06:44PM
another Dguy's family

 Grin Grin Grin Grin

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MrDon at 25-09-2009 05:11PM (10 years ago)
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and what is ur point here here?
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Toks-E at 25-09-2009 05:23PM (10 years ago)
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Quote from: luvvy on 24-09-2009 06:44PM
another Dguy's family

 Grin Grin Grin

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SexyJuly at 25-09-2009 05:25PM (10 years ago)
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Quote from: luvvy on 24-09-2009 06:44PM
another Dguy's family


Im not aware o! Lips Sealed
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teeco at 25-09-2009 05:34PM (10 years ago)
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Quote from: SexyJuly on 25-09-2009 05:25PM
Quote from: luvvy on 24-09-2009 06:44PM
another Dguy's family


Im not aware o! Lips Sealed

 Grin Grin Grin Grin

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SexyJuly at 25-09-2009 05:38PM (10 years ago)
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Quote from: teeco on 25-09-2009 05:34PM
Quote from: SexyJuly on 25-09-2009 05:25PM
Quote from: luvvy on 24-09-2009 06:44PM
another Dguy's family


Im not aware o! Lips Sealed

 Grin Grin Grin Grin


Whats dat smell? Did u brush today? Grin
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coolguys235 at 25-09-2009 05:41PM (10 years ago)
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news paper column

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teeco at 25-09-2009 05:41PM (10 years ago)
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Quote from: SexyJuly on 25-09-2009 05:38PM
Quote from: teeco on 25-09-2009 05:34PM
Quote from: SexyJuly on 25-09-2009 05:25PM
Quote from: luvvy on 24-09-2009 06:44PM
another Dguy's family


Im not aware o! Lips Sealed

 Grin Grin Grin Grin


Whats dat smell? Did u brush today? Grin

yeah 16 times today

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coolguys235 at 25-09-2009 05:51PM (10 years ago)
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shining white teeth

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SexyJuly at 25-09-2009 05:54PM (10 years ago)
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Quote from: teeco on 25-09-2009 05:41PM
Quote from: SexyJuly on 25-09-2009 05:38PM
Quote from: teeco on 25-09-2009 05:34PM
Quote from: SexyJuly on 25-09-2009 05:25PM
Quote from: luvvy on 24-09-2009 06:44PM
another Dguy's family


Im not aware o! Lips Sealed

 Grin Grin Grin Grin


Whats dat smell? Did u brush today? Grin

yeah 16 times today



 Cheesy Cheesy Cheesy Cheesy Cheesy Cheesy Cheesy Cheesy Cheesy Cheesy Cheesy Cheesy
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around_d_corner at 25-09-2009 06:04PM (10 years ago)
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YES BETA D BEININ OF SEXY LIFE  IS D LACK OF WISDOM......... COZ ANY SEX OUT OF MARRIAGE IS CURSE.............
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SexyJuly at 25-09-2009 06:20PM (10 years ago)
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ok.
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pepigambit at 25-09-2009 06:27PM (10 years ago)
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i guess we get d jerk..nerd
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