How can you make your man hate u and brake up with u?

Oh God, dear, you don't have to harden Your heart ln this way. Sure he called you 'A witch' and later pleaded for forgiveness, why not give him a second chance ? lf you really love him. Some dudes could say some stupid things when they're pissed and immediately they realise the lmplication of what they've said, You will see them pleading for forgiveness.

lf you are so much convinced that you want a quit with him, just go straight and let lt out. Tell him he doesn't deserve you as you said. No need holding on when you've lost your feelings for him, lf he has a conscience, you will see lt in him.

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Posted: at 26-09-2009 11:29 AM (14 years ago) | Addicted Hero

@Poster so after all u have been through wid him and done 4 him u will leave him all because of a word?i believe he said that out of frustration because i don't know wat man(real man)would want a woman 2 fend and cater 2 all is needs 4 him.......i think u should just talk 2 him and see wat he has 2 say 4 himself and if u still don't want 2 be with him but truelly if u say u truelly love him like u said i don't think u should just walk out like dat u may end up regretting it later on chow!

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Posted: at 26-09-2009 01:02 PM (14 years ago) | Hero

U could also try to Just stop respnding to him... Guys lke response. I make U do thing sthat u like U shw appreciation.. I do something U dont like, U show displeasure... RESPONSE. If he can't read U he'l get the message that Ur not his type.

Men want to be understood so they seek to understand. Women want to be loved so they try to love... People mirror what they expect... when they don't recieve what they expect they tend t give up in frustration.

Ignore him... No one appreciates being ignored by people they care about.

Posted: at 26-09-2009 01:14 PM (14 years ago) | Hero

Question: Why would U want anyone to hate U? Now that's dangerous o cos if he loved U first his hate could be born of love deteriorated into obsession with U and we al know nothing good comes out of obsessions dont we?

U dey find acid bath? Some people can't handle hate o. Ha!!!

Posted: at 26-09-2009 01:25 PM (14 years ago) | Hero

DONNO

Posted: at 26-09-2009 05:57 PM (14 years ago) | Hero

TYME NO DEY....

Posted: at 26-09-2009 06:20 PM (14 years ago) | Hero

if u dont love him why spend about 2 yrs with him and besides him not petting u may not reallly mean he doesn't appreciate u...........he might just be like me,i dont really like to over-expose my feelings

take it easy with him,ask him what he feels about u.....but if u think u dont love him at all u can go seperate ways

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Posted: at 27-09-2009 10:42 AM (14 years ago) | Addicted Hero

Caring for him. That's good. Dont blow what you have done for him at his face.  just take it as if you rendered some kind of charity. Remember, what you think is right is never right without GOD.

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Posted: at 27-09-2009 02:25 PM (14 years ago) | Newbie

@ poster.... babe u ve tried enough 4 him jare.... just come over here so we can start sumthing fresh , and by the time he finds out ooppppssss it must ve bn too late .  anywayz hope u re well paid at ur work place huh?    atleast here u ll have a more hansome guy who can always give u a peck 4 all ur troubles....

Posted: at 27-09-2009 04:13 PM (14 years ago) | Hero

ciao

Posted: at 27-09-2009 04:25 PM (14 years ago) | Hero