This Is The Details Of Reverend Anita Oyakhilome's Divorce Petition

Date: 07-09-2014 3:32 pm (7 years ago) | Author: Mister Jay Wonder
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The crash of the marriage between Chris & Anita Oyakhilome has been widely reported after Anita requested for a divorce. According to a Daily newspaper, who claimed to have obtained a copy of Anita’s divorce petition, the Reverend is filing for the divorce on the grounds on unreasonable behaviors on the part oh her husband. Read the statement below.

    “The wife has discussed with the husband his inappropriate relationship with some of his female staff members. She has explained that this has given her cause for concern. The husband has minimized her worries and taken no step to alleviate her grievances.”

    “The wife submits that her marriage to the husband has irretrievably broken down and there is no hope of reconciliation. The wife will submit that it is the husband’s unreasonable behaviors which have led to this.

    “The husband and the wife are both Pastors. The husband undertakes his work, in the main, in South Africa and Nigeria. The wife lives in the United Kingdom. The wife will say that they have lived separately for 16 years and over this time have drifted apart. The wife has come to realise that the husband will only visit the UK for annual church programmes that he holds rather than to be with this wife. The wife feels that he has been unavailable as a father to their children during their developing years.

    “The wife feels that their marriage suffered under the pressure of their work. They would rarely spend time together due to the husband unavailability. Special occasions such as Christmas, Birthdays and family occasions and anniversaries past them by and their rarely spent any time together as a family as the husband was more devoted to his work than he was to them.

    “The wife feels that she has been used to portray and enhance the husband’s image as a family man when the reality is that there is no existing relationship between them. She feels that she has been present for official functions simply for his convenience. On occasions she has been copied into his travel itinerary which has been given to him by his staff on a need to know basis.
    “The wife has tried to discuss her concerns with the husband. He claims that she is carnal and he is insensitive to her feelings and her needs.”

    “As a result of the husband’s attitude to their marriage, the wife will say that he is virtually not recognized as a married man in the ministry. His teachings and beliefs on marriage is that the husband is a master and a controller and the wife will say that his concept of biblical; submission is so extreme that it is impossible for her to meet his expectations. She feels humiliated by the way he treats her in the presence of his close female staff members and she feels that she has been taken for granted which has become unbearably stressful for her.

    “The wife will say that the relationship with  the husband is non-existent to the point that his itinerary which was announced  publicly at the beginning of the year had no provision for time with his family. His staff members who travel with him organize both his personal and professional life without any input from her. The wife will say that she is treated with disregard almost like akin to an intruder.

    “The wife feels that she has been mentally, physically and emotionally deprived of the experience of a marital relationship. She feels that the husband has persistently judged her  and his communication with her has been unduly harsh. The wife knows that he was hard to please and has been extremely critical.

    “The wife reserves the right to expand on all of these particulars if the divorce petition is defended.”
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Posted: at 7-09-2014 03:32 PM (7 years ago) | Addicted Hero
- paulohking at 7-09-2014 05:29 PM (7 years ago)
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Posted: at 7-09-2014 05:29 PM (7 years ago) | Hero
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- beneno at 7-09-2014 05:46 PM (7 years ago)
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 Roll Eyes  Roll Eyes  Roll Eyes  Roll Eyes
Posted: at 7-09-2014 05:46 PM (7 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- beneno at 7-09-2014 05:47 PM (7 years ago)
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MR POSTER u can keep the details for your self  Roll Eyes  Roll Eyes  Roll Eyes  Roll Eyes
Posted: at 7-09-2014 05:47 PM (7 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- seveneleven at 7-09-2014 06:09 PM (7 years ago)
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tired of reading about this bullshit
Posted: at 7-09-2014 06:09 PM (7 years ago) | Upcoming
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- morgrawl231 at 7-09-2014 06:16 PM (7 years ago)
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 Lips Sealed Lips Sealed Lips Sealed
Posted: at 7-09-2014 06:16 PM (7 years ago) | Hero
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- Orojoe at 7-09-2014 06:59 PM (7 years ago)
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Have mercy
Posted: at 7-09-2014 06:59 PM (7 years ago) | Upcoming
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- daveobahon at 7-09-2014 07:03 PM (7 years ago)
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 Roll Eyes Roll Eyes Roll Eyes
Posted: at 7-09-2014 07:03 PM (7 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- schmit at 7-09-2014 07:18 PM (7 years ago)
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Make dem divorce if dem want, dem dey disturb us with d news
Posted: at 7-09-2014 07:18 PM (7 years ago) | Hero
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- dennis_005 at 7-09-2014 09:36 PM (7 years ago)
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God have mercy
Posted: at 7-09-2014 09:36 PM (7 years ago) | Upcoming
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- sarah555 at 7-09-2014 10:38 PM (7 years ago)
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 Undecided
Posted: at 7-09-2014 10:38 PM (7 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- chizzyG at 7-09-2014 10:53 PM (7 years ago)
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That's Oyibo for you there,once they're done for something no going back.it's very unfortunate millions all over the world are looking up on them
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- oset801 at 8-09-2014 12:07 AM (7 years ago)
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Quote from: beneno on  7-09-2014 05:47 PM
MR POSTER u can keep the details for your self  Roll Eyes  Roll Eyes  Roll Eyes  Roll Eyes
Posted: at 8-09-2014 12:07 AM (7 years ago) | Upcoming
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- EVERYBODY at 8-09-2014 02:08 AM (7 years ago)
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OYIBO WITH MONEY,SHE WAnt some money abeg make una live us alone ok?
Posted: at 8-09-2014 02:08 AM (7 years ago) | Upcoming
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- donpet at 8-09-2014 02:59 AM (7 years ago)
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Quote from: chizzyG on  7-09-2014 10:53 PM
That's Oyibo for you there,once they're done for something no going back.it's very unfortunate millions all over the world are looking up on them
She no be oyinbo na confirm 9ja from uromi Edo state Odegua her native name
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- Lyricsong at 8-09-2014 04:23 AM (7 years ago)
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Please look unto God Almighty and come back together as one again. Many young Christian are looking taking note of what is going on between the both of U now. be a good example of what U preach, as a legend
Posted: at 8-09-2014 04:23 AM (7 years ago) | Newbie
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- ngfineface at 8-09-2014 07:38 AM (7 years ago)
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The wife will say......the husband will say.....they will say etc. Poster, obviously, you are a full blown AIDS and can light up a house without matches. Tufiakwa!
Posted: at 8-09-2014 07:38 AM (7 years ago) | Hero
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- Nicksam at 8-09-2014 09:08 AM (7 years ago)
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PASSING
Posted: at 8-09-2014 09:08 AM (7 years ago) | Hero
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- p4490758 at 8-09-2014 11:28 AM (7 years ago)
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Okay, Please tackle your family issue at home, una don pass this. Abeg turn off the light make I sleep..
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- cnidarian at 8-09-2014 12:11 PM (7 years ago)
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its well
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