“I Did A DNA Test And Was Told Two Of The Children Are Not Mine" - Femi Kuti (Page 2)

Date: 28-11-2014 8:03 am (6 years ago) | Author: Victor A. Ofoma
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- Ihunda at 28-11-2014 02:14 PM (6 years ago)
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Well it is out it is out, there's no need for us to cry over the milk that Femi spilled. My stand is that he should continue to take play a fatherly role to the children.  Under educational law, a parent must be a biological parent. On the other hand, under healthcare law, a parent is anyone with parental responsibility, regardless of biological link with the child(ren). After-all, people adopt children without knowing their biological parents, and that's what I want Femi to know. He would have had a personal meeting with the children's mother and sort this whole thing out, rather than engaging the media. Establishing a child’s biological origin is recognize by psychologists (and judges) as highly important for a child’s sense of identity. However, before anyone pursues this route, they should fully consider the ramifications for everybody concerned, particularly for the child(ren), of both a positive and a negative result. You may be able to handle it, but there may be a whole range of people affected – siblings too.  The truth as to biological parentage may be comforting but on the other hand, could be devastating. 
Posted: at 28-11-2014 02:14 PM (6 years ago) | Newbie
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- kakabu007 at 28-11-2014 02:33 PM (6 years ago)
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chie! make my man no come do him own DNA of a thing ooo.
Posted: at 28-11-2014 02:33 PM (6 years ago) | Upcoming
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- dondub at 28-11-2014 02:39 PM (6 years ago)
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All. In.  The.  Nane. Of. Love. 
Posted: at 28-11-2014 02:39 PM (6 years ago) | Upcoming
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- Purpleone at 28-11-2014 02:49 PM (6 years ago)
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Quote from: Happy4live on 28-11-2014 10:23 AM
Some people must be stupid how can you going such a thing at your age DNA was made for newly born baby not old one just emerging if his father was alive and went for DNA for him and found out that Femi are not his Biological son what will be his reaction because he can not have access to the man property again.

You know Nigerians are fools they don't reason before they do any thing don't allow this white monkeys to destroy your family for unknown reason weather you father or not father so far you don't know all the kids are yours what of people that adopt a child a they not happy useless idiots called Nigerians
There is still hope for you do you know?
Posted: at 28-11-2014 02:49 PM (6 years ago) | Upcoming
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- gift2006 at 28-11-2014 03:24 PM (6 years ago)
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Quote from: Happy4live on 28-11-2014 10:23 AM
Some people must be stupid how can you going such a thing at your age DNA was made for newly born baby not old one just emerging if his father was alive and went for DNA for him and found out that Femi are not his Biological son what will be his reaction because he can not have access to the man property again.

You know Nigerians are fools they don't reason before they do any thing don't allow this white monkeys to destroy your family for unknown reason weather you father or not father so far you don't know all the kids are yours what of people that adopt a child a they not happy useless idiots called Nigerians

Hope i am excluded from this ur insults on Nigerians?
Posted: at 28-11-2014 03:24 PM (6 years ago) | Upcoming
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- steveoneal at 28-11-2014 03:25 PM (6 years ago)
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Quote from: Happy4live on 28-11-2014 10:23 AM
Some people must be stupid how can you going such a thing at your age DNA was made for newly born baby not old one just emerging if his father was alive and went for DNA for him and found out that Femi are not his Biological son what will be his reaction because he can not have access to the man property again.

You know Nigerians are fools they don't reason before they do any thing don't allow this white monkeys to destroy your family for unknown reason weather you father or not father so far you don't know all the kids are yours what of people that adopt a child a they not happy useless idiots called Nigerians
you are the foolish one here.by the way what are you doing on this forum if your contribution is only to be insulting nigerians, go join any forum that belongs to your country i recommend you join EBOLAPALS, which is a notable forum in your country.
Posted: at 28-11-2014 03:25 PM (6 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- NiphieBrown at 28-11-2014 03:48 PM (6 years ago)
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 Tongue
Posted: at 28-11-2014 03:48 PM (6 years ago) | Newbie
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- osarobo62 at 28-11-2014 03:55 PM (6 years ago)
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Femi did the right thing by returning them to their mother...they don't belong to him and he does not have any relationship with their mother, so why keep them.
if he wants to help with their upkeep, so be it. Let their father  pick up from where he stopped
Posted: at 28-11-2014 03:55 PM (6 years ago) | Hero
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- wantin at 28-11-2014 04:32 PM (6 years ago)
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happy4live, you are soo dumb.
Posted: at 28-11-2014 04:32 PM (6 years ago) | Newbie
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- elchymo at 28-11-2014 04:34 PM (6 years ago)
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Roll Eyes Roll Eyes Roll Eyes
Posted: at 28-11-2014 04:34 PM (6 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- Nicksam at 28-11-2014 04:58 PM (6 years ago)
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JEJEJEJEJEJE FUNNY  Roll Eyes Roll Eyes THAT'S WOMEN FOR YOU THEY KNEW WHO PREGNANT THEM
Posted: at 28-11-2014 04:58 PM (6 years ago) | Hero
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- Senegal at 28-11-2014 05:51 PM (6 years ago)
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Happy4life indeed is a very big joke of a human being
Posted: at 28-11-2014 05:51 PM (6 years ago) | Hero
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- papadip at 28-11-2014 06:54 PM (6 years ago)
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Quote from: Happy4live on 28-11-2014 10:23 AM
Some people must be stupid how can you going such a thing at your age DNA was made for newly born baby not old one just emerging if his father was alive and went for DNA for him and found out that Femi are not his Biological son what will be his reaction because he can not have access to the man property again.

You know Nigerians are fools they don't reason before they do any thing don't allow this white monkeys to destroy your family for unknown reason weather you father or not father so far you don't know all the kids are yours what of people that adopt a child a they not happy useless idiots called Nigerians
Happy4Live A.K.A “SAD4Liveyou sound like a “HARLOT”
You are the big fool….

If not for Nigerians that liberated Liberia you’ll probably be in a refugee camp now as we speak
….you are a born ingrate.

I am sorry for the men that are dating you because you'll produce bastards no doubt.

Definitely you are fatherless…ask your MoMa …you are just a bastard
….it is not too late for you to do DNA test to ascertain who your father is.
 
Where did you study your medicine? Omo Ashewo
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Posted: at 28-11-2014 06:54 PM (6 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- papadip at 28-11-2014 07:03 PM (6 years ago)
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Quote from: FeyiKunwa on 28-11-2014 11:20 AM
There is no reason why Femi should have brought this out, did it ever occur to him how these kids will now be treated by their friends/public? Love knows no boundary, you are the father that these kids ever knew so there is no reason why he cannot continue loving them that is if he ever love them. Yes, it's painful but its about these innocent kids and not about their mothers.
It is easier said than done…. …my friend.
….a very difficult situation and a tough decision to make.
This is a heavy burden in terms of emotions. No one wants to be in this position.

Overall I pity those kids… I wish all the best.
Posted: at 28-11-2014 07:03 PM (6 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- papadip at 28-11-2014 07:57 PM (6 years ago)
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Quote from: Ihunda on 28-11-2014 02:14 PM
Well it is out it is out, there's no need for us to cry over the milk that Femi spilled. My stand is that he should continue to take play a fatherly role to the children.  Under educational law, a parent must be a biological parent. On the other hand, under healthcare law, a parent is anyone with parental responsibility, regardless of biological link with the child(ren). After-all, people adopt children without knowing their biological parents, and that's what I want Femi to know. He would have had a personal meeting with the children's mother and sort this whole thing out, rather than engaging the media. Establishing a child’s biological origin is recognize by psychologists (and judges) as highly important for a child’s sense of identity. However, before anyone pursues this route, they should fully consider the ramifications for everybody concerned, particularly for the child(ren), of both a positive and a negative result. You may be able to handle it, but there may be a whole range of people affected – siblings too.  The truth as to biological parentage may be comforting but on the other hand, could be devastating.
Fantastic analogy ….but in reality we all handle things differently the more reasons we have to be careful in everything that we do.

They are so many investments in every relationship and I am not talking about money or material or both
.....but ….i.e. love, emotion, security, trust, belongingness and so on …all is now shattered  in this situation.

We should be thankful that this issue did not result into violence.
Posted: at 28-11-2014 07:57 PM (6 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- dickman2 at 28-11-2014 08:33 PM (6 years ago)
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 Shocked Shocked Shocked
Posted: at 28-11-2014 08:33 PM (6 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- chicco77 at 28-11-2014 09:39 PM (6 years ago)
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sad
Posted: at 28-11-2014 09:39 PM (6 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- SexyAmerican at 28-11-2014 09:42 PM (6 years ago)
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 Shocked Awful situation.. That was smart of him to test the kids, but I  wonder what made him do it? Your country needs to have laws/rules that protect families and situations like this! And American in "some areas" your WIFE/HUSBAND would go to JAIL for Premeditated Murder for gaving you a deadly disease! Why do ppl sleep around and have kids by difference mates. Worthless soul
Posted: at 28-11-2014 09:42 PM (6 years ago) | Newbie
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- egwuevans17 at 29-11-2014 12:06 AM (6 years ago)
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God have mercy on we men...
Posted: at 29-11-2014 12:06 AM (6 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- osarobo62 at 29-11-2014 12:18 AM (6 years ago)
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this shameful and sad issue is very common in our society today. if you have doubts and have the money,...do a test
Posted: at 29-11-2014 12:18 AM (6 years ago) | Hero
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