i know u are in love

   many do ask the question wat is love?,do i really love him/her.instinct tells me that one will wat is wit u and love.well pals know it from 2day that love was from the begining and will be till the end of time,we  all have nothing greater in this life than love.many in time pass have made efforts to defind this phenomenon some of likened it to several things,processes and events in life.but i'll tell in my ideology love is never a measure of how long u've been 2gether,no how much or wat u've given or have received,it is never by how many times u've had sex,is not by how well u've known eqach other or places u've being 2gether.it is simply by how much u value each other.let me explain 4 example u have a 5000 naira worth of phone and a 25000naira worth of shoe.wish one will u prefer to lose? and y?u can afford to pull that shoe outside close ur and go to bed on a normal day may be u're so tired or on tipsy watever .but wen it comes to ur phone no matter where u 4got it,no matter the guy /girl u will go out to luk 4 it.why bcos u've unconciously place so much value on that 5000naira that u cant part unless otherwise,u are bound to go any where 4 it. that is why in a relationship u will see wen one person has over stayed the schedule time for an appointment,u will witness panic and sense of rumours not as if the guy or girl is gonna beat him/her up no not at all.it shows how he/she values this person.he/she cannot afford to make the other think otherwise.therefore in a situation like  this u hardly find excuses.my dear reader wen u find ur self in this condition beleive or not u are in lov